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Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 5:31:52 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		Do you send scene pics of yourself in a introduction response to ads here? Others do you want to see scene pics right away? I know some profiles request those.
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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 5:34:19 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: talmar

Do you send scene pics of yourself in a introduction response to ads here? Others do you want to see scene pics right away? I know some profiles request those.


Nope. ANd to be quite honest, anyone who asks that I mail them some...will not be getting a response. :)

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 5:40:16 PM   
Delvin


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If you want to send me a picture of you after a long day, you sitting there with a drink in your hand, hair a mess, tired yet smiling, I'll take that over any "scene" picture anyday,..

Think most if not all that want those just have a small imagination and need visual stimulation for masterbation...

imho :)

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 5:44:00 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		I think some people use scene pics as a lithmus test that a person actually has played. I have no problem sending those but I wouldn't want to offend anyone either.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 5:55:49 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: talmar

I think some people use scene pics as a lithmus test that a person actually has played. I have no problem sending those but I wouldn't want to offend anyone either.


You could be right. But if, right off the bat, they are demanding that I send them scene pics...no thank you.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 8:32:15 PM   
troch


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Status: offline 		I think you might offend someone if you sent a scene pic right off the bat. I would also not send out a scene pic with your face on it. Who knows where it is going and if it is going to end up in your local paper tomorrow. or even worse, a year from now when you forgot that picture it out there in cyberspace.
Be respectful and be careful.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 9:05:29 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: talmar

I think some people use scene pics as a lithmus test that a person actually has played. I have no problem sending those but I wouldn't want to offend anyone either.


I think that for many people being asked for a scene picture right off the bat is also a litmus test.

I'm out about as far as it's possible to go, but I would be a bit uncomfortable sending a scene picture at the beginning of a dialogue. Now, after getting to know someone, that's an entirely different story. I have a lovely shot by Barbara Nitke of one of my forced orgasm scenes that serves as a wonderful "wouldn't you like to be her" tease.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/18/2005 10:26:55 PM   
OscarHargraves


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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/19/2005 2:30:57 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		my relationship with a D/couple who I had grown to trust ( big mistake- major players) I allowed scene pics to be taken - fire play types etc. With the understanding I would get the pic. However when the relationship ended and I asked for them. I was told they mistakenly got lost and they didn't have them anymore ( I don't believe that for a second) so I am back to not allowing Pics of any kind to be taken for any reason by anyone.

I wouldn't want to receive one from some one I don't know or just starting to know.
I have however received scene pics of a sub g/f of mine doing needle play etc. when I wasn't there to see the scene first hand.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/19/2005 7:00:46 AM   
MHOO314


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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/19/2005 11:37:43 AM   
MasterHyde


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ORIGINAL: talmar

I think some people use scene pics as a lithmus test that a person actually has played. I have no problem sending those but I wouldn't want to offend anyone either.


I don't HAVE any scene photos of myself. I don't really find myself to be very photogenic, and I'm even less so in whatever state of undress I might be in during a scene. If anyone wants to know have I actually had any experience with this stuff, I will gladly introduce them to people who know me personally, have seen me play, and in some cases, have actually played with me. Honestly, no one's ever questioned that if they've spoken to me for more than a few minutes. I think what others have suggested is far more likely. The person making the request just wants some "masturbation material."

On the same front, I do get semi-frequent requests for detailed scene descriptions of "what will you do to me when we meet." These I usually treat as requests for masturbation material, and I rarely give them anything that could be used as such. On the other hand, if someone takes the time to ask me questions about who I am and what I'm interested in, I have no problem telling them about some of my experiences and what they mean to me.



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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/19/2005 1:30:27 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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ORIGINAL: talmar

Do you send scene pics of yourself in a introduction response to ads here? Others do you want to see scene pics right away? I know some profiles request those.


I can understand why some would desire a scene pic, but it has been my experience that those people are a little shallow. By that I mean that they generally only want whack off material. It's perfectly reasonable for someone to request a normal picture of you. When it comes to scene pics, the lines are a little more blurred. I personally wouldn't ever send someone scene pics online unless I have known them (in person) for some time.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/20/2005 10:02:32 AM   
MrBiguun51


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Status: offline 		It is very rarefor me to send or post nude or scene pics of me

I have had a couple of pics of me stolen even thogh my face was not shown

posted a couple of nde pics of me on with out my face on another site after that and was acused of them being web pics
so i rarely post pics any more
i still send a few by email on ocassions

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/20/2005 4:17:41 PM   
MissA


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Status: offline 		To both questions - no. I don't own any photos/video of myself scening for the simple fact that my private life is just that and I don't want to take any chance however miniscule that it might be out in public for people to view (face hidden or not). I also much prefer just a regular picture of someone looking as they do daily than an acted out one.

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/20/2005 7:07:55 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		I have scene pictures and some POSED, in a Private Yahoo Photo Album. If I get to know someone and they want to see them, then I send them an invite. I don't usually send pics except for Vanilla or light B&D pics to people right away.

Where's my Digital Camera? BalletBob

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/20/2005 7:19:55 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		I have very few scene pics of me..and no one sees them except for myself and the person that took them. They are taken with my camera and I take it home with me. I would do it no other way..But, I have been playing with this Dom for 2 years..I know him very well. And no, we are not in a relationships. We are play partners and only that..

As for sending them out..not a chance. They are only for my pleasure and those I choose to share them with and that is rare. I do not have nakie pics either. I don't find them necessary. If a Dom and I get into something, then he will see enough of me..Pics and a story scene are for those who can't get any and want to masterbate!

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RE: Sending scene pics - 12/20/2005 8:13:19 PM   
MissDiandSirHugh


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Status: offline 		We have a rule that any photos of anyone even with us in them are never shown or sent to others no matter what and that includes ones from scenes or of just friends.
We have a copy of what ever was taken and they do all kept on disc's and this protects theirs and our privacy.

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