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Chaingang -> RE: A question to the ladies (12/19/2005 12:09:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DeepWaters
How many emails do you get an hour? a day? a week? a month?
and of those whats the precentage breakdown: of creeps, freaks, stalkers, players, people who are just plain rude A$$holes, and those who simple dont read your profile vs the gentlemen you want to meet?
What difference does it make to a sincere man even if the signal to noise ratio is very low?
Simply put: I don't care how a woman relates to the whole world, I care about how she relates to me. If the interest goes one way only, I just move on to the next one. No problem.
When my own profile was more filled in I used to get my share of "noise" communications. I just ignored them - which is what anyone with a brain does. My time is precious to me, I can't waste it on everyone with a meaningless demand for my attention. I understand if others do the same.
At the same time, if many women make no effort to weed out solid prospects from the frivolous ones, that's not my problem either. I care not at all. In my own experience, the world is filled with lonely subs looking for someone to Dominate them. They out number us guys by a lot. If the truth be told, most subs are appalling losers unfit to lick even the underside of my boots. So in my own estimation, worthy subs are also few and far between.
That there is this SNR problem online is no issue to me - in fact, if anything the SNR problem points up how few real Doms are truly available. I don't really waste my time worrying about why I don't succeed with some women, I focus on those with whom I do succeed. One of my requirements for the women I am into is that they also be into me. I chase no one, they meet me at least half way or I am gone.
Bottom line: I am real, sincere, and don't play bullshit games.
YMMV, feel free to carry on with a very nearly pointless discussion of how tough things are in a would-be sub's inbox. Yawn...
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