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for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are coll... - 12/18/2005 8:21:30 PM

crystalamber

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Hi,

Does anyone wear any jewelry or some other symbol that reminds you of your commitment to be a submissive/slave?

I was at a leather show for a local group on the tenth. And, someone was passing a basket around with a lot of free stuff (BDSM stuff). I found a gorgeous silver and stone pendant on a leather cord. I never take it off, and it reminds me of what I want, what I'm doing to make my life better.

Just curious,
crystal amber

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 8:37:27 PM

foxglove716

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not exactly, but I do have tattoos with special slave/master meanings to them

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 8:43:53 PM

ginawithaB

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crystalamber

Hi,

Does anyone wear any jewelry or some other symbol that reminds you of your commitment to be a submissive/slave?

I was at a leather show for a local group on the tenth. And, someone was passing a basket around with a lot of free stuff (BDSM stuff). I found a gorgeous silver and stone pendant on a leather cord. I never take it off, and it reminds me of what I want, what I'm doing to make my life better.

Just curious,
crystal amber

No, but what a great idea. Mind if I copy off of you?

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 8:49:07 PM

crystalamber

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foxglove716, that sounds neat.

ginawithaB, not at all. :)

Peace,
crystal amber

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 9:33:54 PM

peppermint379

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Yes. A tattoo based upon the BDSM emblem on the back of my shoulder.

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 10:21:21 PM

Aileen68

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I wear a silver and leather necklace which I think of as my own personal collar. I bought it for myself years ago and have always equated it to submissiveness.

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 10:25:26 PM

foxglove716

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absolutely beautiful, peppermint

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 11:03:07 PM

imtempting

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Nothing at all. It just seems stupid to need something to remind me what I feel and think....

foxglove716 your picture looks amazingly sexy....

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 11:20:41 PM

willing2serve

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quote:

I never take it off, and it reminds me of what I want, what I'm doing to make my life better.

Awesome idea....the lifestyle is full of symbolism for some...

Live each day for your own.

I wish you success however you define it.

BTs willing

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 11:24:08 PM

FelinePersuasion

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Mines not cause I am a submissive or slave so it prolly won't count for anything, but I wear a silver song of solomen love ring, and my mate wears a matching one. We got it for a 6 month 7 month and valentines day gift to each other. I wear mine every single day, day in day out, sleep in it bathe in it and joeseph wears his when we are together. Because his ring is a tiny bit loose and could slip off he don't want to risk loosing it

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/18/2005 11:53:56 PM

slavedesires

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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint379

Yes. A tattoo based upon the BDSM emblem on the back of my shoulder.

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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

absolutely beautiful, peppermint

twas my exact sentiment foxglove.... gorgeous peppermint...did you create it yourself?

i created mine, a blue flower with the chinese character "obey" hidden inside....
isn't it cool how our bodies can show ownership without jewelery?

am waiting for another, one that my slave sister will share as well...i already know what it will be, as i had to research it ... but the exact details i hope He gives me the priviledge of once again creating (will need to beg) ....so your's, peppermint, has given me an idea already...thank you

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 2:54:17 AM

sweetpettjenny

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Yes ive always worn a collar when owned, but only when i am owned does it signify that. I did wear my formal collar once i asked for my release but it was simply because my neck felt so bare without something on it. It signifies nothing anymore. I am owned now but not collared...we shall see what happens.

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 4:26:14 AM

fyreredsub

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today i get my training collar

i'm excited....and nervous.....
first time and big step

but i dont know if that answers the ?

but it will definately remind me of what it is i am doing w/my life (hopefully i wont get any damn brattier)

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 4:29:40 AM

SelkiePet1

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my dom is having a beautiful silver choker with D/s on it made for me for Xmas - presently I have a leather collar but needless to say cannot wear all the time as it is very hardcore. I will post a pic when I get my beautiful new everyday collar!

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 4:31:40 AM

nephandi

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Not yet but i have wished for a spacial ring from my Master for Christmas. We are both lovers and sub and Master so i think it fit well, it is a simple silver ring and around it are engraved.

"This ring is round, it has no end, and so to is my love for you."

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 6:06:00 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crystalamber

Hi,

Does anyone wear any jewelry or some other symbol that reminds you of your commitment to be a submissive/slave?

I was at a leather show for a local group on the tenth. And, someone was passing a basket around with a lot of free stuff (BDSM stuff). I found a gorgeous silver and stone pendant on a leather cord. I never take it off, and it reminds me of what I want, what I'm doing to make my life better.

Just curious,
crystal amber

Symbols are symbols. My mother has a "mothers ring" with birthstones of her children and grandchildren that she never takes off.

While I don't have "a collar" right now, I have various clothes and jewelry that are very emotionally attached to experiences in my life. Enjoy!

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 6:22:27 AM

kitia1

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Nice thoughts. For myself i wear a locked bracelet on my right wrist. It's fully visible, but only i and the One who placed it there two years ago know it cannot be removed, except by Them.

Since They placed it there the day They left for the states and took the key with them, it is a mark of my submission and always symbolises to me what i hope to find again in the future.

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 6:53:46 AM

Wildfleurs

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crystalamber

Hi,

Does anyone wear any jewelry or some other symbol that reminds you of your commitment to be a submissive/slave?

Actually when I was single (and even still now) I had a silver keychain that simply said "Slave." It was a nice reminder/promise to myself that I would find that one day.

Nowadays I have my labia rings and the brand that remind me who I belong to.

C~

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 7:25:45 AM

MHOO314

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ahhhh a nice fun question--I am a firm believer in some symbol of connection---much like symbols from a vanilla relationship--I have plans for boy if things go well--(especially since he is so far away)--to leave him with something he can see, touch, that reminds him of what W/we are building--buy I can't say here what it will be as he reads My posts---smiles--

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RE: for anyone who's not collared...or even if you are ... - 12/19/2005 9:36:45 AM

perverseangelic

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I have a tattoo with elements that represent my bdsm invovlement on my back,and one with elements that represent my masochism on my ankle.

That and I wear the Owner's collar.

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