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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/11/2008 6:30:17 AM

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i knew from the first meet with Master.
W/we are still together and are now living 24/7.

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/11/2008 6:58:20 AM

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Hmm, S O knew 3 years ago I would be his. Me wow I too knew 3 years ago but was scared to death. I ran like I was chased by demons LOL. I tried looking anywhere and everywhere for what he gave me that first time in just a purely vanilla way. I never found what I had with him. Oh we stayed friends the best of friends and talked always. Had occasional trysts. Finally it took something very traumatic in my life this past April to realize he was the one I wanted to be everything with. Never knew one man could have so much patience with a woman and could wait that long. LOL Thank you for the patience S O.

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/11/2008 7:46:36 AM

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Truthfully, I think it was the time when I was unsure and afraid about sexual activity. I had never touched a penis before, and the idea scared me so badly. He grew tired of me evading him and saying "it's scary" and just pulled down his pants and stuck his cock into my face and wrapped my hand around it so I couldn't get away.

His penis is now my bestest friend.

Yeah, I knew it, inside, that he was the right one then. And a few weeks later, when I sat down and thought about it, I realized I loved him.

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/11/2008 12:31:20 PM

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when our friendship became strong. & our vanilla relationship began to turn kink like i'd always hoped. & then when discovering we share so many fantasies....
i think She could be the One...

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/12/2008 1:01:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

When did you KNOW that your dominant was the perfect one for you?

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I may like the thought of Sir being perfect for me, but since I know no such thing exists in relationships, I am bit more realistic. I know each day more and more we are better suited for each other. Tis a journey of day to day, not a destination of perfection and no where else to go.

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/12/2008 5:15:32 PM

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You have to excuse me, i tend to be a hopeless romantic and truthfully my fantasies have paled from the realities i have encountered... so i must be dreaming realistic dreams!

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/12/2008 5:30:42 PM

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Took me way over a year, almost close to a year and half. Trust is not easy for me to come by. I also well aware of that rose-colored glass syndrome, so I tend to protect my heart.

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/12/2008 6:52:31 PM

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I tend to look into one's eyes. When his eyes have admiration and they smile at me, i tend to know. but that isn't always there so then it becomes harder to tell. I am an eternal optimist I get hurt, but you know... I always live life full and with goodness...

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/13/2008 2:43:44 PM

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i knew the moment Wwe met for the first time. Wwe had been talking on the phone and online in messanger for three weeks. But when He looked and me and i Him everything within me went click. Something i had never experienced with any Others that i had met. Wwe have been together now almost 4 years and 3 1/2 of it 24/7, M/s, TPE

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/13/2008 8:39:05 PM

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I know EXACTLY when I knew Sweets was perfect for me.... We have been friends our entire lives.... We have always gotten along... Then, like 20 years after we first met, I was going through a VERY tough time.... and I was laying on the bed crying, him sitting beside me, and he kissed me... it was soft, and just..... I will never forget it... and I wanted to be his from that moment on....

I wrote a story about it... if anyone is interested in reading it..... :)

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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/14/2008 4:27:53 AM

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Good morning!
This year my hubby got very sick. After about 2 months the pain was so bad he finally went to the ER-massive blood clots in his lungs, if he moved or went home he would die. They were putting him in ICU. I broke down in the hallway..just lost it. I called home and my mom would not pick up the phone-she was busy with my 3 kids. Finally, I called Daddy and he went right over to check on my kids, put them to bed, and then came over to the ER. After a long night, he took me home, stayed with me thru my panic attack and left when I fell asleep. Every day afterwards, he came over to help with my kids and put me to bed after visiting my hubby. the strongest woman in the world fell and Daddy was right there to keep my world going.
When hubby got home, we both realized that Daddy was the one for me..he meant what he said about taking care of me. Hubby is getting better-slowly and not being able to work until next spring has really been hard and going to be even harder this winter but thru it all Daddy is here and hubby and I are both grateful to him. He is the ONE.
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RE: When did you KNOW? - 11/14/2008 5:18:34 PM

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I've written, erased and rewritten this post 5 or so times today. I began by writing about the moments when I realized I loved Him. Followed by the moments I realized how deeply He loved me. Followed still by descriptions of the mental connection and the chemistry we share. But none of these answered the op's question. I think I have my answer. I knew it when I realized how much I respect and admire Him as a person. (Respect is not something easily earned by me.) How much I value His perspective and seek out his advice and counsel and actually take His advice. (If you knew me, you would know that in itself is huge. I am the one with all the answers and I am always right..lol)

Then again, it could be when I look in His eyes and see only unconditional love, acceptance and pride...

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