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Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 6:57:07 AM   
chastityslave1


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Status: offline 		Has anyone ever been publicly humiliated by there Mistress/Master and wish to share that experiance, I would love to read about it here. Or does anyone have any ideas how a sub could be publicly humiliated.
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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 7:02:09 AM   
JustDarkness


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Status: offline 		http://www.collarchat.com/m_2182024/tm.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Public_humiliation

some reading stuff....as a starter ;)

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 7:15:25 AM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		T tried to tell me I'd be wandering round London in my choir robe.  When I seemed unphased by this, he gave up.

He was a bastard and kissed me on a train once.  Evil, pure evil...

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 9:19:24 AM   
LydiaSciKitten


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Status: offline 		Actually, my Master dislikes public humiliation a lot, and to be honest so do I. When we are in public we try to look our best, the shiny, succesful, elegant young couple. We take great pleasure in no one being able to get just how twisted we are.
I guess it's some sort of inverted humiliation, trying to be even more dignified than we normally are.
Now degrading behaviour when in private is something entirely different!

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 9:20:52 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Public humiliation can do wonders to put a sub in the right frame of mind.  As with everything else, you have to think first about what you're doing and why you're doing it.

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 9:39:56 AM   
MarcEsadrian


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chastityslave1

Has anyone ever been publicly humiliated by there Mistress/Master and wish to share that experiance, I would love to read about it here. Or does anyone have any ideas how a sub could be publicly humiliated.



I have been known to make women dress highly "sexualized" in the tavern and town square, but I do that for different psychological reasons.

I personally find "humiliation" a bit of a misnomer, usually due to the individuals involved. It's ultimately more akin to "play" than anything else, though not in all cases, I admit. I'm just not so sure it's right to flaunt extreme examples of these so-called humiliation scenes in public, where non-consenting individuals, by virtue of their presence, are unwittingly part of it.

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 9:43:28 AM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Yes, I have been grossly humiliated in public. My concern, however, was not that I was seen as I was, but that others were forced to see me that way, who may not have wanted to. The public does not necessarily want to be a prop in your playground. It wasn't anything I was ever comfortable with.

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 11:12:25 AM   
WhiplashSmile2


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Status: offline 		The best ideas for humilation come from knowing your submissive partner.

Warning:  Humilation may case dangerous side effects and mentally damage your partner.  Use Caution and common sense.

Somethings that humilates one person might not humilate another person.

I'm with Lordandmaster, "As with everything else, you have to think first about what you're doing and why you're doing it."

Frame of mind matters greatly in this matter, not something to underestimate nor blindly take for granted.

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 12:33:25 PM   
WhiplashSmile2


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Status: offline 		Here's an idea for you!  Get your profile picture imprinted on a T-Shirt and walk around town.  How's that for an idea?  (I'm just joking with you).

Seriously, if you are looking for ideas, it's best to explore mentally the things that actually do humilate you, that is what is going to work out the best.  Share these things with your partner, express your desire to be humilated.   Think that might get the job done.  :-)



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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/9/2008 12:53:46 PM   
Barelily


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Status: offline 		Depends on your idea of humiliation. Most of the time people confuse humiliation with embarrassment.

Example: (Something suggested to me once)
Coming on my chest, then buttoning up my blouse and going into to a public restaurant, no one knows it's there except him and I. Although it's embarrassing, it's not humiliating.
Coming on my face and walking into a public place, humiliating.
Coming on my face and walking into a private BDSM party, embarrassing, not humiliating.

< Message edited by Barelily -- 11/9/2008 1:04:31 PM >

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RE: Public Humiliation - 11/10/2008 10:51:19 AM   
rubberallover


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Status: offline 		Ms. Black and I have been discussing something interesting on this topic.

I have this: http://www.latexafashion.dk/product.asp?product=1962

The idea is, I wear it under my street clothes out in public with Ms. Black and am forced to consume lots of water until, well, you get the picture...

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