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chastity for men - 12/19/2005 6:30:40 AM

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hello my wife is giving me the privliage to wear a cb2000 i love it. but can anyone tell me how often i need to be milked . thank you in advance

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 6:35:54 AM

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You don't need it.

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 7:06:30 AM

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It really would depend on how long your wife plans to keep you in the CB2000. Milking is normally used with chastity when the cock is to be locked up for orgasm denial for extended periods of time.

stef is correct that you do not 'have to be' milked; however, you will need some form of release of the semenal fluid at least once a month or so. If you go too long without, your body will take measures to relieve some of the pressure on your balls through the form of wet dreams. You will need to be milked or allowed orgasm once a month to prevent an infection from starting in your balls from the pent up semen. How will you know if you have an infection? Your cum will be lumpy.

Not everyone that engages in the use of chastity devices utilize milking as the method to relieve the pressure on the balls. You should talk to your wife about this. She may have no intention of milking you at all.

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 8:35:16 AM

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greetings, tiny tim G(intelligence)
HAPPY HOLIDAYS
i dont know...
much ,about the topic ,but ,
when something turns BLUE
I THINK ,THAT'S THE TIME YOU HAVE, TO "MILK" SOMETHING,AS YOU
SO DELICATELY ,PUT IT....

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 9:09:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyKim

You will need to be milked or allowed orgasm once a month to prevent an infection from starting in your balls from the pent up semen.

I've never heard of such an infection. Perhaps you could point us to some data on the subject?

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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

i dont know...
much ,about the topic ,but ,
when something turns BLUE
I THINK ,THAT'S THE TIME YOU HAVE, TO "MILK" SOMETHING,AS YOU
SO DELICATELY ,PUT IT....

'Blue balls' has nothing to do with this.

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 9:45:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyKim

You will need to be milked or allowed orgasm once a month to prevent an infection from starting in your balls from the pent up semen.
I've never heard of such an infection. Perhaps you could point us to some data on the subject?

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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

i dont know...
much ,about the topic ,but ,
when something turns BLUE
I THINK ,THAT'S THE TIME YOU HAVE, TO "MILK" SOMETHING,AS YOU
SO DELICATELY ,PUT IT....
'Blue balls' has nothing to do with this.

~stef
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i 2nd this.----------stef is correct!

i am 52 yrs old,..havent had sex since 2001........and "I" have not had...a wet dream since i was 13 yrs old.......
i wanna know where you get this data......
the male body ejects any unused sperm out......when the male urinates.
i fail to grasp where your information comes from.
thank you

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 7:11:16 PM

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stef and veronica,

I wish I were able to find the information on the infection I discussed earlier on this thread, but it came up in a discussion I had with a male dominant friend who holds a PhD in psychology specializing in sex therapy. He is unavailable until after the holidays, but I will ask him for reference material on the infection.

If you wish to know more about the clumps, here is a link to a website that discusses the cause..... http://www.sexdictionary.info/semen_clots.html

For those that do not wish to click and traps around the web for the information, basically it states that the clumps are built up levels of protein in the semen resulting from prolonged stays in the prostate and seminal vesicles.

Clumps in semen do not indicate an infection, and I apologize if I gave that impression; however, complications and infection can occur under some circumstance. Once I am able to acquire the support documentation on this, I will be glad to post it.

For the person who wished for the support documentation on wet dreams, here is a link to an article published by Dr. Alfred C. Kinsey (the very first sex therapist researcher who founded the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University). Though Kinsey's testing methods have been called into question for years, he did produce some excellent information people like Masters & Johnson and others have been able to build on and explore for almost the last 60 years. http://www.healthystrokes.com/wetdreams.html

While wet dreams do normally occur in adolescents, they do also occur in grown men.

I hope you enjoy the articles.

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 7:18:43 PM

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 7:23:57 PM

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I don't RELIVE myself for some time, and don't have any CLUMPS! I think someone is either pulling your leg or maybe trying to publish his study on the subject. I think I would of heard about something years ago when they had mental patients locked up, where the orderlies had to RELEIVE the patients, to prevent clumps. Of course prisons don't have that problem.....as long as you have a NICE CELLMATE!

Still Clumpless after all these years, BalletBob

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RE: chastity for men - 12/19/2005 9:41:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyKim

I wish I were able to find the information on the infection I discussed earlier on this thread, but it came up in a discussion I had with a male dominant friend who holds a PhD in psychology specializing in sex therapy. He is unavailable until after the holidays, but I will ask him for reference material on the infection.

Thanks. I look forward to hearing more about it.

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RE: chastity for men - 12/20/2005 7:20:20 AM

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BalletBob,

Not every man is created equally, so not all men will have clumps in their semen; however, it is a scientific fact that clumps are built up levels of protein. (Click on the link I provided earlier for documentation by someone NOT related to the bdsm scene.) The psychologist (sex therapist) I discussed this matter with specializes in female sexual disfunction and is a leading reasearcher in the field whose name is right up there with Kinsey and Masters & Johnson with his contributions to the field. He has no problems getting a study published (having been published in well over 100 publications in the last decade). While male sexual disfunction is not his primary field of interest, he does have experience working with men who have had the problem.

Saying ALL men have X problem is completely unrealistic. The only absolute in life is death, so taking the information I have provided as an EVERYONE statement is rediculous. An example of this is that the majority of men have liquid cum; however, there are instances of men whose cum actually ejaculates from their body in a more congelled state almost like a 'noodle" cumming out of the head. (Sperm is suppose to congel after ejaculation to aid in the fertilization process. Allowing it more time to penetrate the outer layer of the egg.)

Somehow, I think this has become more of a sex ed class than a forum discussion. LOL!!! While that was not my initial intention in posting to this thread, it never hurts to learn something new.

The psychologist I mentioned earlier use to have a profile on collarme. I am sure he would be more than happy to reopen his account to discuss issues like this with people if they wished. I will contact him about it when he returns to Atlanta after the holidays. He's given many lectures on human sexuality and desires at various conferences over the years, and presented similar seminars at a variety of BDSM conventions in the south. I know the knowledge I've garnered from him over the last year on human sexual desire and triggers has helped me with how I enjoy submissives (and how they enjoy their time with me).

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