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i am confused - 12/19/2005 7:26:55 AM   
NorthernNJSub


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Status: offline 		i am confused by whats going on with people mailing me. All of a sudden i've recently have had several switches contact me.
i am a sub and these switches keep sending messages to me.
What should i do?
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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 7:36:52 AM   
starshineowned


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From: Texas
Status: offline 		Greetings..~smiles~

How about messaging them back and saying thankyou for your interest but i am a submissive person and not looking for a switch?

If that does not stop their continued push then use the block feature. Perhaps though, they may with a nice short reply from you..turn around and give likewise, and who knows..maybe a friendship will develop.

Merry Christmas

starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 8:04:25 AM   
servingwench80


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Status: offline 		Perhaps an extra blurb in your profile that says you're looking for dominant only? I know it says it on the left side, but.... some people need things to be a little more obvious I guess.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 8:48:22 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Ignore the emails.

Never expect anyone to actually read your profile before sending an email.

Be happily surprised when someone actually does.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 8:57:05 AM   
servingwench80


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Status: offline 		That's just sad. But probably true.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 9:06:50 AM   
ohiomaster41


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Status: offline 		well get you a master and they will have to lave you alone if you are looking for a good nice one i am availabe

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 9:26:54 AM   
KatyLied


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From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Geez, what do you wanna do?
That's what you should do...ignore, delete, block, whatever.
Just be grateful they aren't sending rude messages.
We'd have to start another thread about that topic.


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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 9:31:39 AM   
perverseangelic


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From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		Perhaps look at whether or not said switches will be compatable with you.

There are many switch people who remain in one role with any given partner. That is, they would always be dominant with you, and only submit to somone else or under other circumstances.

Depends on what you want.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 10:04:41 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		That-- LA is a priceless response, but so painfully true---

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 4:00:46 PM   
krys


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Ignore the emails.

Never expect anyone to actually read your profile before sending an email.

Be happily surprised when someone actually does.


That may be the best advice I have ever heard on this site.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 7:11:54 PM   
justheather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernNJSub

i am confused by whats going on with people mailing me. All of a sudden i've recently have had several switches contact me.
i am a sub and these switches keep sending messages to me.
What should i do?


You should go to the window, open it up, stick your head out and scream "I am mad as hell and Im not going to take it any more!" Then, you should eat a pint of Ben and Jerrys Cherry Garcia ice cream and pass out on the couch with a nice full belly, content in the knowledge that you are a genuine real life Switch Magnet.

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And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
And paste me in that book you always carry.
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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 7:41:45 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Just curious as one that labels themselves for honesty's sake as Switch that is Domme in their current relationship...what exactly is entailed in being a Switch magnet? Does my boy qualify?

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 7:55:29 PM   
happypervert


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quote:

You should go to the window, open it up, stick your head out and scream "I am mad as hell and Im not going to take it any more!"

heh . . . and then go rent the movie Network where this comes from if you haven't seen it before. At least it will give you a two hours of great entertainment and it''ll make you laugh when the goofballs visit your e-mailbox.

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RE: i am confused - 12/19/2005 8:43:13 PM   
TNstepsout


Posts: 1558
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Status: offline 		What's so bad about a switch that you wouldn't want to talk to one? Do you think they might just "switch" in mid scene, stop whacking ya and say "its your turn now"?

I don't get it. Go ahead and talk to some of those switches. You might meet someone really cool.


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RE: i am confused - 12/20/2005 6:25:59 AM   
justheather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Just curious as one that labels themselves for honesty's sake as Switch that is Domme in their current relationship...what exactly is entailed in being a Switch magnet? Does my boy qualify?


Only if he rotates clockwise when south of the equator.
Does he?

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I want the scissors to be sharp
And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
And paste me in that book you always carry.
-Billy Collins

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RE: i am confused - 12/20/2005 6:33:43 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		You think you're confused?
LOL, they are the Switch!


Not that there's anything wrong with that.

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RE: i am confused - 12/25/2005 2:56:11 AM   
sub4hire


Posts: 6775
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		E-mail them back and say you are a sub you aren't looking for any twigs.

Of course that would only have them e-mailing you asking you what a twig was.
Maybe not such a good idea afterall.

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RE: i am confused - 12/25/2005 6:02:40 AM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		Reply back and tell them the truth about who you are and that you aren't interested in being with a switch....commen sense is a easy thing.

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RE: i am confused - 12/25/2005 6:23:10 AM   
xxblushesxx


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		You know...you could just talk to them...you may make a new friend...idk...just a thought...

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RE: i am confused - 12/25/2005 8:01:23 AM   
sub4hire


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quote:

You know...you could just talk to them...you may make a new friend...idk...just a thought...


People who e-mail you here don't care to be friends. I have just looking for friends in my profile yet on a daily basis I get at least ten messages from scumbags. Their first statement is "I'd like to be your friend send me your pic"
I love those auto responses but I'd love it even more if there was a way I could write one and save it on cm for just these people.
Nobody wants to just talk. They all want much more even if that were to mean leaving something you've been with for 7 years and plan on marrying for a total stranger on the internet.

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