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AAkasha -> RE: Rape Fantasy for men (12/20/2005 3:30:11 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterHyde
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA
yeah, i know there would be a lot of thought and planning in such a scene and i think that my primary concern is that, even after all the plans and safety issues are worked out and i find someone i can trust, that somehow a male would be added to the scene at the last minute and that's something i cannot cope with. i can barely stand to work with them, much less get that close to them. i have my personal reason behind this and won't bring it up at this time. thank You for Your input, Ma'am.
If I'm reading this right, you don't currently have a relationship with anyone who you trust enough to do this for you. What I would suggest is to wait until you do know someone who you can really trust with this. Your concerns are very well-founded and realistic, but the idea of someone adding another male into the scene "at the last minute" is one that can only be addressed when this scene is managed by someone you can trust not to do this. This means someone who understands your problem with this and who cares enough about your well-being to make sure this doesn't happen. When I say cares about your well-being, I'm not saying she has to be in love with you or be your long-term mistress. She just needs to be someone you can trust to put your safety (both emotional and physical) first before anything else.
In my experience, this means either a committed partner, or a trusted friend. When you have someone like this in your life, then bring up your fantasy and talk to her about it can be experienced safely.
If he's saying things like "I wish more people knew where I lived" then I think the kind of rape he's describing involves a total stranger -- hence all the warning/precautions about not getting a man involved.
To the OP I would suggest that this is really only a fantasy, and wouldn't make a realistic reality. If there were women who were into the idea of raping men who were total strangers, the line up of volunteers would be hundreds long. Women generally look for some type of connection - physical, emotional, or even simply affection -- before they desire executing an act like that.
You might want to consider having this fantasy roleplayed with a partner that you trust. I've done lots of "kidnappings" and types of scenarios you describe but my partner always knew it was me, even when we were sneaky about it. The other option is to entrust your partner to choose one of her friends to rape you -- that way, there is some sense of the unknown and unfamiliarity. I've considered doing this with my partner and might at some point, but right now I'm simply too possessive of him. I know I have a willing girlfriend or two.
Akasha
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