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DomCpl4realslave -> Poly Relations Problems (8/6/2004 11:26:39 AM)
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Having been in the scene r/t l/s for 20 years now, on the web for 6, it seems to Us that submen, being the dogs they are, are far more real in their expections and follow thru when invited here.
subfems, on the other hand, make themselves out to be something they probably are not, and usually don't follow thru on metting or visiting.
Prior to using websites, I(DOM)found better luck just hanging out somewhere in public and making conversation and adding some expressions like, "yeah. I like spanking ass." and smiling devilishly, ya know? keeping it a smile anyways....
then the convwersation went on that way or didn't. But had better luck than in chat rooms.
My wife/sub/slave/slut agrees that when females contact Her, it is the same thing I deal with.
Our question is why do you think that is true? Is it lonely people turned away in bars or dating services? Is it just players, changing nicks, or on line for vanilla social reasons(i.e. to meet someone)? We ask because profiles start with: I am not looking. just here to make friends Not into pain....etc...Those profiles are easy to spot.
Again, Our question is why and how do Y/you figure who is real? Telltale signs, etc.?
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