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littlewonder -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 6:27:02 PM)

They're telling you "hey I'm interested"

and now they expect you to do the rest of the work.

..or you've pissed them off in some way and now they're stalking you.



LaTigresse -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 6:34:37 PM)

I always figure they read the forums alot, see my many, stupid posts and keep wondering who that wacko LaT is.

"Well damn, she doesn't LOOK that flaky!!!............"



ulti -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 6:39:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

quote:

ORIGINAL: LushLadyLilith

Why would someone view a profil;e repeatedly over a number of months but never write?

LILITH


Lots of reasons... The first that comes to mind, since I found I've done it, is looking again because you can't quite remember if you've looked at it before until you actually view it -or if you've just read the name.


I've already done this a number of times.

Beyond that, I'd usually bet on the person being nervous about contacting you.  I'm that way with some people.  You only get one chance to make a good first impression, and for some people, that leads to stress.

Including me.



LadyPact -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 7:27:13 PM)

This is just Me personally, but when I've noticed someone looking at My profile repeatedly over a period of time, I've found it's because they were intimidated to write to Me.  A lot of folks aren't sure if they are allowed to contact a D first and all of that.  I don't have those kinds of hang ups, but some do, so not everyone is comfortable with making the first contact.  I have written to those I notice viewing repeatedly, asking them if there is something I can help them with.  Most of the time, they appreciate it because they were shy.



subintrainingnc -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 7:30:59 PM)

my first thought was maybe they are a fake profile keeping tabs on you to see if you change your profile...? maybe it is someone you write to and wanting to see if they view your profile if you will write them.. just another view..



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 7:33:42 PM)

I wonder at the D-types who view repeatedly and think, surely they aren't shy?  Then I try not to get the mental image of a peacock, strutting back and forth in an attempt to capture someone's interest. 



votiveguitar -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 8:40:28 PM)

Perhaps there is somhthing in your profile that limits them from making contact. maybe they forgot the first three times that you set an age limit or hight requirement.  There are three lady's here that have very nice jounal entries and i frequantly go to see th whole profile sometimes wishing that the restricting limit was gone . Or it could be a matter of distance. You knoe, theyareforcedto "Love, pure and chate from afar." O.K maybe it isn't pure and chaist if they wacked off.  i do hope they kept it off the screen and keyboard. yuk



SailingBum -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 8:52:02 PM)

Well it could be they read a stupid post think to themselves no one can be that stupid then read the profile only to confirm it.

BadOne



SingleRarity -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 9:32:15 PM)

Oh Gosh!  This is going to sound horrible, but there are a few people on here who write the most ridiculous, ludicrous shit. Every time I read more of there dribble, I can't help but check there profile to see if it's still full of bull.  I can't help myself.

I'm not a mean girl.  I swear.

Daddy's Ballerina, e 



marie2 -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 9:35:28 PM)

I have no idea why someone would do this, but I have one of these viewers as well.  He's out of state, a poster on the boards, and he's been viewing my profile regularly, for months, but he never emails to make a comment or say hello or whatever.  It seems weird to me. 



zakkan -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 10:20:15 PM)

Maybe he observes profiles to get ideas on how to improve his own. Or he likes your journal. Or you changed your picture.

That's why I do it, at least.



IAMChristine -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 10:25:35 PM)

i get the multiple viewers too...sometimes, if the person seems interesting, i'll say hello to them.



myotherself -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/11/2008 11:45:42 PM)

~fr~

I had a guy view me almost daily for several weeks.  I checked out his profile and found we had nothing in common.  Nothing at all. Wrong age, wrong location, wrong kinks, wrong...everything.  He fit none of my search criteria, I fit none of his.  So I assumed he was bored/lonely/stoopid and left it at that.

After about 3 weeks I got a message from him.  It was basically a rant about how rude and unsublike I was, after he'd gone to all the effort of checking my profile every day and I couldn't even bother to message him to thank him!

Yeah, right....



satyrsnymph28 -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 12:43:10 AM)

i view lots of profiles... and there are several who i view on a regular basis... i almost never send messages. 

when people post on here, i view their profile if i haven't seen it in a while, to see if they've made any changes.  sometimes, i view profiles to see if someone has started or ended relationship, especially if it's someone i might have been interested in previously. 

i have a couple people who view my profile very frequently... one who told me that he "has to see my face every day", but whatever, I guess.  

i also view to read blogs/journals/whatever. 

i don't often view those who viewed me... and i almost never view those who don't have pictures, with the exception of DavanKael who I view in hopes that she will ADD pictures :)

my two cents...



stella41b -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 2:11:01 AM)

Remember when you came to stay on Collarme
And subs got on their knees to beg you not to leave because they'd go berserk?
Well they perv you anyhow and now they come and perv and perv
For sure they're looking for you to find
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
They're coming to take you away ho ho hee hee haa haa
To alt dot com
Where life is beautiful all the time
And you'll be happy to see those nice young men who claim they are subs
And they're coming to take you away haa haa

You think this is a joke and so you laugh
You laugh when reading this and think that I have flipped my lid
Right?
I know you laugh, I'm sure you laugh
You laugh you laugh and laugh and think I'm daft but you're still getting perved
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
They're coming to take you away ho ho hee hee haa haa
To alt dot com
With subs and switches and real time doms
And basket cases who sit and post and twiddle their thumbs and bits
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
You read your mails and write your posts
And this is why they keep perving you for all your kind unselfish deeds
Hah?
Well you just wait, they'll find you yet
And when they do they'll keep you in the P&ORS you domly domme
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
They're coming to take you away ho ho hee hee haa haa
To alt dot com
Where life is beautiful all the time
And you'll be happy to see those nice young men who claim they are subs
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
To alt dot com
With subs and switches and real time doms
And basket cases who sit and post and twiddle their thumbs and bits
And they're coming to take you away haa haa
To alt dot com
Where life is beautiful all the time....

Inspired by Napoleon XIV



rosanegra -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 2:27:24 AM)

One possible reason is that you attempted to drive a wedge between them and their spouse, deleted your old profile, created a new profile, and they recognize you and look at your picture while seething and wishing very very bad things upon you.

Not that I have any personal experience in this.

Just an idea.



atursvcMaam -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 2:28:26 AM)

    Perhaps he likes the look of You (You have captivating eyes, and Your other attributes are appealing) but does not feel that he is worthy of Your attention.  Perhaps he is waiting for You to lower Your standards. 
    He may  have been told, "I know that you have looked at me, and if I were interested, you would have heard from Me."
    or, perhaps, he is just a perv.



SilverMark -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 2:39:38 AM)

Just here perving profiles![image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m9.gif[/image]



candystripper -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 2:53:27 AM)

Uh, maybe cuz CM is a web site? Lots of 'strange rangers' on the 'net; don't put your profile up on a site -- especially a kink site -- if being viewed by peeps squorks you out.
 
I'm pretty selective about what I say about myself on the 'net.  Some sites are safer than others.  Nonetheless, there are some really flakey folks on CM, just as there are on other sites.
 
I wouldn't be too concerned.  I frankly don't understand why CM even has the 'Who's Viewed Me' feature, though ya, it is nice.  Chances are it's a man or woman who finds you attractive but doesn't care to contact you.  Could be any number of reasons why.
 
Peace out.
 
candystripper  [sm=pole.gif]



tweedydaddy -> RE: viewing but no contact (11/12/2008 4:15:31 AM)

I enjoy looking through profiles and some amuse me more than others.
Some people have the most exceptional pictures and some have really funny and witty dialogue, I may find them amusing, but not want to to do them.
Furthermore, some of the really cloying, "I have found the one," time dreamy rambles, make me laugh to the point of endangering my bladder.



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