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MissIsis -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (11/17/2008 4:59:24 AM)

Believe it or not, it isn't necessarily because it is "taboo" that some of us don't do it, or want it.  Some of us really have no interest in it, & really just plain don't like it.  



boytoyinatlanta -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 3:41:43 AM)

there shouldn't be a taboo when it comes to a Domme taking it in the ass...it's just sex though i see a power role in it as well...i have been with women who have topped in a bdsm way but who also allowed me to perform greek on them....doign so, has not undermined by view of them when i am bottoming to them...i like it all:  sex and bdsm and really prefer doing it all with one person rather than getting the sex from vanilla and the rest from a domme



HeavansKeeper -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 5:13:51 AM)

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You asked "why is this?" The truth is a dominant, female or otherwise, can have whatever* they want from their submissive. I say, you do.

The reason these "taboos" exist is because of society's moral compass of "right" and "wrong". We are quickly taught and often reminded of what is right, wrong, submissive, dominant, weak, strong, desired, disliked. It starts with gender typing at a young age, where children learn what's "for girls" and "for boys". While gender typing is not as bad as it has been, historically, it's still strong.

Whether its from prison movie shower scenes of the expression "getting fucked", taking it is, in society's eyes, an act of submission. Many dominants cannot bridge the gap between what they "feel" is right and what they want.

Certain acts have arbitrary designation to being either submissive or dominant. Why is pleasuring someone with your mouth an act of submission? I don't know - people tend to think it is.

I've dabbled in submission and I'll tell you one thing... I am not compatible with a domme who puts society's ways before her own. (The two can be one and the same, though - that's different).

TL;DR

I am My Pet's master. I can use any part of her body in concurrence with my own body in any manner I wish. If I want to eat pussy then get a nice strap on up the ass... I say, she does.



*blarblarblar, exceptions, hard limits, blarblar..



CatdeMedici -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 5:44:30 AM)

You must  have been reading " The Guide to TWUE FemDominance"--don't remember seeing that as a list of taboo--I use it on subs because I know how to send you to the moon and back <heh heh>--I don't allow in on Me because My pregnancy left me with internal hemorrrhoids and THAT creates the no no factor for Me.



RichieB -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 6:00:54 AM)

Did someone write a new book about Femdom taboos? I love anal, does it mean I'm being submissive? No, I don't think so.


Diane



beeble -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 6:13:58 AM)

Can't we just let this six-week-old thread go back to sleep?  It was agreed pretty much instantly that some Dommes like receiving anal and some don't and it's up to the Domme what happens inside her own bottom.

beeble



RichieB -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 6:20:07 AM)

Why let it go? This subject is bought up at least once a month.


Diane



yourMissTress -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 12:33:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

If I want to have anal sex with my partner, then that's what's going to happen. 


There are no such things as submissive actions or dominant actions.  The submission or the dominance is in the INTENTION and the MOTIVATION behind the action.
 
If I tell my sub to throw my ankles over my head and fuck me raw, is he being dominant by doing that? NOPE, he's submitting to my will. 
 
If I want to suck his cock, but don't because I am afraid he may view that as less than dominant, how is that dominance?
 
Now, I have no desire to be fucked anally, but I promise that if I want it, I will have it, with no concern as to the "orientation" I have to be to like it.



malloves69 -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 2:45:23 PM)

love the anal posts [:)] yes they are my favorite [:)] nothing like a sexy lady wearing a big strapon when she walks in the room and tells me to assume the position [:)] doggy style ass raised for strapon play and on my back legs spread when she wants to fist me [:)] though i think she has fisted me in every possible position there is ...me standing up legs spread ...me laying on my back ..legs spread ..me doggy position ...ass raised ..being fisted by a woman truly is amazing [:)] have fun mal



ChainGoddess -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 6:01:29 PM)

To me,  my pleasure is what is important.  I love what I love.  End of story!



GigglingGoddess -> RE: The taboo of anal in femdom (12/21/2008 6:23:22 PM)

Yeah, I say what matters is not what connotations an act has, but rather what pleasures it brings to the domme. If I liked anal, I'd make my sub give it to me. In reality, I absolutely hate anal, and I don't really get much from any stimulation in that area. But just because I enjoy penetration doesn't mean I'm submissive in any way. And if you want to make it feel more like a dominant act, just deny your sub release and direct him to do it exactly how you want it or else.



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