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As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Dom, I:

Never make first contact with a Dom/Master. They always email me 1st.

4% (1)

Never "browse" men's profiles; no need to, since they email me.

0% (0)

Both of the Above.

8% (2)

I browse but I don't make first contact because that's the man's job.

0% (0)

I don't browse, but I email when someone cool views me 1st.

0% (0)

I browse on my own and I'm comfortable making first contact.

86% (20)

Total Votes : 23

(last vote on : 11/19/2008 7:22:41 PM)
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As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Dom, I: - 11/12/2008 10:35:43 AM

anamericaninfife

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Just wondering if subs/slaves ever do the pursuing themselves, or if more prefer that the Dom pursues...let me know!

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 11:14:18 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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some submissives/slaves wait on fainted breath for their domly knight in shining armor to contact them. others don't and make the first move.

i browse and/or contact them ...but that's just me. i don't represent anyone else.

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 11:23:59 AM

HotFaerieMama

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well.. um..i was on another site. .and a mutual friend introduced us this past summer... and in aug. i accpeted His offer and i got my collar in sept. but i was the one who started all this.. i was a bit agressive too.. and then one day we were talking and the next thing i knew He was talking about training etc..and it just kinda happened

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 11:39:26 AM

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If you don't go out and get what you want, how exactly do you expect to get what you want? Not have to settle for whatever comes to you?

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 1:46:00 PM

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I enjoy a slave/ sub thats a little agressive in her approach, one that thinks not good things come to those that wait smile..bounty

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 1:48:24 PM

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Some submissive women will pursue a guy whether he is dominant or not.

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 1:53:44 PM

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I perve on everyone, email anyone.

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/12/2008 2:31:37 PM

tactileartist

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Hm. IF I were actively looking for a Dom (which is not why I'm here), THEN I would actively browse, and make first contact with someone interesting to me, BECAUSE I find it silly to assume that the kinds of Doms I would be interested in would magically run across my profile.

I'm here for interaction with like minded peers, and social networking.... so to a degree your poll doesn't apply to me, but I thought I'd toss my 2 cents' worth in anyway.

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/13/2008 5:18:18 PM

cravesdom

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When I was looking, I never browsed other profiles or contacted anyone as more than a hello or to make a comment about a post they might have made. Believe it or not, I tend to be a little on the shy side. To be honest though, I got so many emails that it was all I could do to read through the ones I was getting. I just didn't have the time to actively look. I'm sure I would have gotten there eventually!

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RE: As a FEMALE sub/slave in hopes of finding a male Do... - 11/14/2008 12:12:51 PM

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I am a little curious about this subject so, I think I'll keep an eye on this thread for a while.

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