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Before and After


Signed up for CM on my own
  42% (18)
Was pointed to CM by a friend
  42% (18)
Learned about CM through a partner
  14% (6)


Total Votes : 42
(last vote on : 11/19/2008 7:25:14 PM)
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WannaSPOON -> Before and After (11/12/2008 12:30:35 PM)

I was just curious about the process in finding this website. I could have made the poll a lot longer with many different options but these are the 3 most general answers. Feel free to expound upon your vote.

For myself, I found the site on my own after attempting to wade through a few other kink-oriented personals with fora(plural of forum, yes?). I've mentioned it to a few people whom I know to be interested in this lifestyle but that's really it.




sub4hire -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 12:39:26 PM)

A friend referred me




purepleasure -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 12:42:18 PM)

A friend told me she met her dominant (at that time) about CM, and had to check it out for myself.  Although I have yet to meet the dominant or submissive of my dreams, I've made alot of great friends here.  Both in real life, and online.




SavageFaerie -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 12:44:36 PM)

My best friend I used to live with was signing up and she decided I was going to also, so she did the whole profile

She got bored and left, Im still around tho Im not looking




darchChylde -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 1:53:13 PM)

I was pointed to this site by someone who was once a member of our twisted little poly family.




sirsholly -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 1:54:22 PM)

i heard a few of the Drs. i worked with discussing this site. Kinky bastards.[:)][:)][:)][:)]




softandshy -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 4:25:49 PM)

i was looking for more information on BDSM and someone on another site suggested i look here.  It wasn't actually a friend or even an acquaintance though.

Edited because tonight i can't spell.




caro44 -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 4:42:03 PM)

I was referred by a very good friend. I met my Sir on this site.






Twstdkinkerbell -> RE: Before and After (11/12/2008 4:43:52 PM)

My X not husband showed me the site.







cravesdom -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 2:21:51 AM)

A Dom that didn't work out told me about it. Then he saw my profile (with pictures) and sent me an email wanting to meet! I thought that was hilarious. But I have since thanked him for telling me about the site as it has worked for me.




LumusandtheLady -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 3:53:19 AM)

ReflectiveSoul (a friend in real life) kept bugging (and bugging and bugging!) me to read her posts here on the forums for some time and telling me that I would really like it here. So I started peeping at her posts just as a guest. Then she started bugging me to answer them and pipe in, which meant setting up a profile. I really didn't want to, I wasn't looking for anyone or anything. Finally, I broke down and said ok.

Ummmmm, ya, right. Met some great people, my closest friends, probably pissed a person or 2 or 10 off and met Lumus, who's now my Daddy/Husband and I've moved 2300 miles to Ontario, Canada. [:D]  Not too shabby for not wanting to originally be here, huh? [sm=biggrin.gif]

Rain°




zakkan -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 4:42:03 AM)

Saw a video on YouTube about it. It was a response to someone here by the KittenPlay person... 




Lashra -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 5:28:11 AM)

My friend Google told me about it. I came seeking an exchange of information and perhaps humor.

~Lashra






DavanKael -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:16:01 AM)

I've been on the 'net since 1996.  I've looked at lots of things.  Believe I found CM 5-ish years ago but not 100% sure of that.  I was in a vanilla marriage but knew that wanting D/s is a part of who I am, so I educated myself.  When I got separated, I decided to post a profile on CM.  Then was in a relationship(WIth a person I met once years back but re-met on here), in which I gave and the male accepted my deference, thus I essentially didn't get on CM for a number of months as I'd not yet begun reading and participating on the message boards or developing the network of friends that I have been developing of late.  :>
  Davan




camille65 -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:22:03 AM)

I found it on my own. I'd been an IRC chatter for yearsssssss but got very very tired of the drama so I began looking for a different style and stumbled upon CM! Yay! At first I used the chat rooms (until I was banned for being rude, seriously I was lol) then migrated to the delightful forums where I lurked for months before getting the nerve to actually post.




LumusandtheLady -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:25:32 AM)

[:-][:-][:-][:-][:-][:-]  Camille?!?!?!?!?!?! Rude???? Has the world ended or something????

Rain the disbelieving one...




camille65 -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:31:15 AM)

Hugsssss sweet lady. Yes indeedy it is true. The room owner was pretty nasty towards newbies and I asked him why (in private).
Banned baby banned.




LumusandtheLady -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:34:34 AM)

*snorts*

Damned good thing then!! We gets ya out here! [sm=banana.gif][sm=cute.gif]




HotFaerieMama -> RE: Before and After (11/13/2008 7:54:22 AM)

found out on my own.... kinda stumbled upon it during my marriage and decided to stay.. and i love the boards altho i did leave for a while.. i'm back and i'm staying 




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