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S-types "doing as they're told"...online?*rant* - 11/12/2008 5:29:52 PM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		Ok...recently the line has been something like this...

"My Dommes gave me an assignment to go online and ask for humiliating assignments from other Dommes..."

Really? I mean...really? Seriously? Is this something the FemDommes on this forum would even do?

Do these guys think the person reading the message is gonna do anything for this person without even a hint or offer that might benefit them in any way?

I'm just astounded by the mere fact that some of these guys really think that anyone will buy that line? I mean if this was for real, wouldn't the Domme be approaching her real life friends for real life humilation type stuff fun?

I don't get it....then again some dumbass announced to MsK in collarme messages that they were former USArmed Forces counter intelligence...and that's a line I wouldn't fall for on any given day. It's simply insulting to think anyone would fall for it...and even more insulting to go around and pretend to be counter intelligence agent.

When are there gonna be at least original piles of shit to start spewing?

Rant over...

BoiJen
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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/12/2008 5:44:01 PM   
darchChylde


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/12/2008 6:00:07 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Still, Jen, folks respond to those threads all the time! 

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/12/2008 6:12:57 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Hon, you have to remember that not everyone is like us.  For some out there, this is really all they have.  Just a few typed up words on a screen.  They don't have the life that you and MsK do, or even the life that I, hubby, and clip do.  All they have is a little fantasy that they write up here.  Until they get out and do some real life exploring, this is it. 

I know it's hard to have patience with them.  Especially in your case, screening for MsK.  When they come across the desk or the screen, instead of being angry with them, turn around, look at Her, and be grateful that you have everything they will ever want.


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/12/2008 7:04:36 PM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		It's not about the fact that they want something and aren't trying too hard to get it...it's that they lie and expect someone to buy it :)

Anyways...we're moving to FL at the end of Dec...maybe you'll be more inclined to visit LadyPact ;)

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 3:46:14 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		At least you don't get garbage like this:

I'd like to have my cock out into that sweet ass of yours

*sigh*  There are all flavors of desperate.  Actually, didn't I see a thread about things to do with your On-Line only pet?  I'm starting to run short on ideas.  I could use some others.  (But I'm NOT going to send my boys out hunting for them!)


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 4:26:29 AM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		Yes, there are Dommes that ask their subs to do that.  I have been contacted both by subs and their Dommes and have been asked to humiliate a male.  I wouldn't hazard a guess at how common it is, but it is a practice that is out there.

My Master has given me tasks which were set up to test how far I would go to please him and they included my humiliation to some extent.  It is not uncommon for a top to stretch a bottom's comfort levels. 


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 5:54:54 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		We have seen posts from dominants asking for suggestions on what to do -- for fun, for punishment, for contracts, for whatever -- so why is it so difficult to believe some will send their subs to do that as well?

I have an initial reaction to those folks who want their hand held and everything handed to them at the most basic level then I remind myself that they probably don't have the community and mentors I did when I started my journey in the early 1990s.

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 6:11:55 AM   
OneMoreWaste


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Hon, you have to remember that not everyone is like us.  For some out there, this is really all they have.  Just a few typed up words on a screen.  They don't have the life that you and MsK do, or even the life that I, hubby, and clip do.  All they have is a little fantasy that they write up here.  Until they get out and do some real life exploring, this is it. 

I know it's hard to have patience with them.  Especially in your case, screening for MsK.  When they come across the desk or the screen, instead of being angry with them, turn around, look at Her, and be grateful that you have everything they will ever want.


Trample the weak! Hurdle the dead!


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 6:17:48 AM   
FullfigRIMaam


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Status: offline 		I'll never forget an online group I joined; and as a new domina to the group, the moderator/group owner sent this little sailor level potty mouthed phuck to chat with me.    I've never been approached or seen anything so obnoxious or disrespectful.   So when I pointed out to him that his self humiliation/intruding on me with this vile chit was unacceptable, the he reported me, and I was promptly kicked out....   Needless to say, I survived the insult.
I suppose how people get their kicks isn't for me to judge, but what a waste of time to me?!    M

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 6:17:54 AM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		I'm not talking about asking for suggestions. I'm talking about someone soliciting a random stranger because their profile is "female" and "Dominant." for "assignments" that possibly feed their own fetish/kink under the guise of "my Domme told me to"

Suggestions and free wank material...different things. And given the large lack of credibility the internet often carries I'm not inclinced to give a stranger the benefit of the doubt...in fact I'm inclined to do so anyways.

MsK and I discussed/negotiated recently in great detail how meeting people works for us. An individual has to work their way from the outside in. No one is given the "okay you're a bad guy" label...but they have to prove that they are individuals of integrity to move beyond "Hi" in passing...in real life and online. If at all they prove themselves to be "a bad guy" they they get pushed back farther...and if the individual proves themselves to b credible they get allowed a little closer "in."

So it's not to say I think everyone is full of shit...I just take that for granted (at least a little) until proven otherwise.

The BoiJen

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 8:42:13 AM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I'm not talking about asking for suggestions. I'm talking about someone soliciting a random stranger because their profile is "female" and "Dominant." for "assignments" that possibly feed their own fetish/kink under the guise of "my Domme told me to"

Suggestions and free wank material...different things. And given the large lack of credibility the internet often carries I'm not inclinced to give a stranger the benefit of the doubt...in fact I'm inclined to do so anyways.

MsK and I discussed/negotiated recently in great detail how meeting people works for us. An individual has to work their way from the outside in. No one is given the "okay you're a bad guy" label...but they have to prove that they are individuals of integrity to move beyond "Hi" in passing...in real life and online. If at all they prove themselves to be "a bad guy" they they get pushed back farther...and if the individual proves themselves to b credible they get allowed a little closer "in."

So it's not to say I think everyone is full of shit...I just take that for granted (at least a little) until proven otherwise.

The BoiJen


Can I ask what percentage of men get through your filters and are given a shot?  Just curious.
Yes, I have seen what you mention here, this happens frequently, along with "My femdom is out of town and she asked me to find someone to discipline me while she is away."

Akasha


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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 9:10:38 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Ok...recently the line has been something like this...

"My Dommes gave me an assignment to go online and ask for humiliating assignments from other Dommes..."

Really? I mean...really? Seriously? Is this something the FemDommes on this forum would even do?

Do these guys think the person reading the message is gonna do anything for this person without even a hint or offer that might benefit them in any way?

I'm just astounded by the mere fact that some of these guys really think that anyone will buy that line? I mean if this was for real, wouldn't the Domme be approaching her real life friends for real life humilation type stuff fun?

I don't get it....then again some dumbass announced to MsK in collarme messages that they were former USArmed Forces counter intelligence...and that's a line I wouldn't fall for on any given day. It's simply insulting to think anyone would fall for it...and even more insulting to go around and pretend to be counter intelligence agent.

When are there gonna be at least original piles of shit to start spewing?

Rant over...

BoiJen



Damn it, I told you that was a secret....now I'm gonna have to change my profile again.

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 9:12:09 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Still, Jen, folks respond to those threads all the time! 


Well, ya gotta do something to kill time until the game servers come back online.

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 9:15:16 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen


"My Dommes gave me an assignment to go online and ask for humiliating assignments from other Dommes..."


I got this one too, and it was followed by "She doesnt need help, she wants ideas and will be picking the most vicious and cruel of them" and supposedly my benefit would be knowing what horrible things would be getting done to him. His profile, however, mentions nothing about being owned or even under construction.

If you are going to lie, at least lie convincingly.

DV

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 9:52:08 AM   
Wickad


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I've had this happen a number of times.  It is very annoying and, quite frankly, insulting.  I've told this to the person on the other end of the email and also told them to never contact me again.

I don't have time to analyze other people's motivations.  What I do know is that by 'demanding' that I find a punishment, or a task, or a chore for said submissive, the possibly non-existent Dominant (thus really the do-me submissive) is casting me in the role of being submissive to his desires.  I'm not interested in being submissive to anyone, certainly not some online-fictitious-wannabe-Dominant or her just as annoying do-me submissive.

Wickad

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 11:56:50 AM   
ShaktiSama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Ok...recently the line has been something like this...

"My Dommes gave me an assignment to go online and ask for humiliating assignments from other Dommes..."


The number of men who have made their Invisible Friend into their domme when they grow up is truly touching.  It's so sweet when childhood sweethearts have a lifelong romance, don't you think?

Pity that the Invisible Domme is always so lacking in inspiration and creativity, though. 

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 1:04:47 PM   
BoiJen


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Can I ask what percentage of men get through your filters and are given a shot?  Just curious.
Yes, I have seen what you mention here, this happens frequently, along with "My femdom is out of town and she asked me to find someone to discipline me while she is away."

Akasha



A small handful or two have gotten through to talk with MsK and of those few MsK has only met with two of those indivduals beause they're the ones who met Her standards. Of those two only one has had enough potential to stick around and be helpful. That's in the last year and a half.

If someone is requesting a Professional Session it's adifferent matter all together. I direct them to Her website where instructions for interviews are given. Primarily this is done because MsK doesn't want much to do with new clients until it's "go" time and if they impress Her from there, She'll consider being more social with said client.

Hope that answers the question well enough.

MsK's boi, Jen

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 1:06:16 PM   
BoiJen


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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I don't get it....then again some dumbass announced to MsK in collarme messages that they were former USArmed Forces counter intelligence...and that's a line I wouldn't fall for on any given day. It's simply insulting to think anyone would fall for it...and even more insulting to go around and pretend to be counter intelligence agent.

When are there gonna be at least original piles of shit to start spewing?

Rant over...

BoiJen



Damn it, I told you that was a secret....now I'm gonna have to change my profile again.


I'm only telling these people here. No one else will know...I promise, 007.

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RE: S-types "doing as they're told"...online?... - 11/13/2008 4:45:14 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Wow, I cannot use the line I am a gov agent, I cannot used the line my Mistress told me to ask you what punishment I need, and I am going out on a wild limb that they will not fall for I just want Kinky bondage sex........what's a poor sub to do to find a Mistress anymore???

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