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MHOO314 -> What do You Love? (12/20/2005 5:40:34 AM)
Ok, I am so over all the flaming, bashing, whatever- yes it's one thing to have spirited conversation, its another to go at people's beliefs, especially when we ask for them---(yes I throw the first stone at My glass house as well)---but here is something fun ( I hope) What is it you love about the life? I love being Me, able to have what I want, when I want it and never having to wait--I love the dynamic of control for it is indeed what I am and what I am about--the TPE is to Me like breathing--the service, the devotion--- I love being wicked--chains, restraints, implements of pain and torment---the muffled cries behind the gag--the begging for more, the tears, the tenderness--I love walking the dark side as vanillers call it, for Me, it is where the sun warms My soul--and I love the thought that I may soon have a FT boy----<evil grin, wicked smile> I love the smell of leather and the coldness of chains---mmmmmMMMMMMM This life is truly where My soul rests comfortably and I am happy---so what is it you love about this life?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 5:43:04 AM)
The question is- what do I love about "this life" that I couldn't find or have in another life? The play space, the equipment and being around people "in the know" to learn from and share experiences. Really, other than that, I get the same stuff "in the life" that I do in my "vanilla life." Those are the things I'd miss if I suddenly didn't have a kink community to enjoy. My relationship is who I am, my sense of self and fulfillment is always a part of me...not "the life."

KatyLied -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 6:20:27 AM)
Play, props, humiliation, deviant acts, providing service....

fyreredsub -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 6:46:51 AM)
i started out on the other end of the spectrum....my happiness is in the dark side(once bitten never going back to nilla land)...but the serving Oh that is my joy.........i thrive and glow under Masters care/guidance/training..........knowing i am pleasing........is what gets me off[8D]

justheather -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 6:54:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross The question is- what do I love about "this life" that I couldn't find or have in another life? I dont really see a distinction. I have one life. It happens to include a healthy daily dose of kink. What I love about my life, and the kink therein - being really seen. Knowing I can be vulnerable. Knowing I can be myself. Not having to figure out how to play vanilla dating games any more (their mating habits are so odd and counter-intuitive to me). Pleasing the one I love and consistently being told I am pleasing to him. Physical manifestations (as we dedfine and understand them) of his appreciation of me, my value to him. Living a life that is real. Like, REALLY REALLY real. People find other ways to do this, which is why I find it difficult to frame the question the same way you have chosen to frame it, L.A....because like you I acknowledge that kink is not the only way to find peace and the ability to live Self truely, but it's been the vehicle toward that end for me. And that's what I love about it. Oh, I also dig any opportunity to have naked time, or to dress up in sexy clothes. ... and experience an endorphin rush. :-)

OscarHargraves -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 7:01:34 AM)
I have to agree with you. The TPE is the real big thing that atracts me to this lifestyle. I love it when I feel like I'm in total control and can demand anything I want. I'll admit that the sex is better in this lifestyle too but I believe that is because of the 'mind-set' that goes with the Dom/Sub relationship.

sothernnyte -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 7:08:58 AM)
such broad question... wow... aside from the lovliness of a good spanking, the pleasure of a good bruise, the intensity in waiting for the flogger to fall.... what do i love best? i like the self confidence it gave me. i had literally no self esteem having come from an abusive past. i felt i had no self-worth. no value. The Life gave me all that and a foundation to make it all improve. i cannot imagine how my life woud be now without this as the largest portion of it. so my answer isnt as kinky or exciting as some of the others. and while i love many of the things that were mentioned,... the above is my answer sincerely sothernnyte

IrishMist -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 7:54:37 AM)
I know this is not an indepth answer, but for me, its simple. (LOL teach me to read the question more fully) I love the loss of control...of being able to JUST BE ME and not be judged or found lacking....

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:02:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist I love the loss of control...of being able to JUST BE ME and not be judged or found lacking.... Hmm what life is that? (the not judged part) I've judged you.

MHOO314 -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:06:55 AM)
very interesting IrishMist--My boy feels the same way, at long last he can be what he is and I do not shun him for that, in fact I want him to be free at long last---thanks for sharing--

KnightofMists -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:10:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 Ok, I am so over all the flaming, bashing, whatever- yes it's one thing to have spirited conversation, its another to go at people's beliefs, especially when we ask for them---(yes I throw the first stone at My glass house as well)---but here is something fun ( I hope) What is it you love about the life? I love being Me, able to have what I want, when I want it and never having to wait--I love the dynamic of control for it is indeed what I am and what I am about--the TPE is to Me like breathing--the service, the devotion--- I love being wicked--chains, restraints, implements of pain and torment---the muffled cries behind the gag--the begging for more, the tears, the tenderness--I love walking the dark side as vanillers call it, for Me, it is where the sun warms My soul--and I love the thought that I may soon have a FT boy----<evil grin, wicked smile> I love the smell of leather and the coldness of chains---mmmmmMMMMMMM This life is truly where My soul rests comfortably and I am happy---so what is it you love about this life? I Love My Slaves!!!!!!! Everything else just allows me to celebrate My love with them

MHOO314 -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:12:56 AM)
awwwww---that is so sweet----

veronicaofML -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:22:27 AM)
damn.......... typed a letter here and lost it. ------------ what i get from this...........is a Ms that shows me...proves to me..........She cares. someone that makes me feel safe..........emotionally and physically........ THAT is something in my last 42 yrs i have not had. someone that, when i lay at Her feet, softly touches me, and says She is happy i am Hers, that She is proud to Own me. someone with soft hands and a soft heart,...but a stern Ownership...not afraid to show me Dominance,...with a loving hand......and a hard paddle. someone that has taught me about pain and pleasure from the same hands. i am the happiest i have been in literal decades..... =========== good topic..........thank you

RiotGirl -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:22:56 AM)
i have to agree, being able to be me in all my oddities. Not being found wierd. Or lacking as some one else said. Being me down to the simplest little thing. Like being able to curl up around his feet and just enjoy it. i dont know about anyone else, but i can not imagine curling up round a vanilla's feet and it not being WIERD.

fastlane -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:28:09 AM)
snow flakes that stick to my nose and eyelashes. Along with lashes in the snow![8D]

KatyLied -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 8:43:18 AM)
quote: Along with lashes in the snow! um, don't forget the (golden) halo!

MTslave -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 9:04:43 AM)
hmmmmm I thought of so many things but I kept comming back to one in particular. I love, that one look, that I get from Master when I've done something that he truly appreciates. Not the lustfull look when I serve him privately and alone (and naked) but that other look. That one that even when we're surronded by a zillion people is meant just for me because he is proud of who I have become. That look where his eyes smile, his face relaxes, and he just takes a moment to live in that space of who we are together. [:)] Always His Master T's impish one

justheather -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 11:36:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl i dont know about anyone else, but i can not imagine curling up round a vanilla's feet and it not being WIERD. EXACTLY. If I want to get up from my chair at the breakfast table and kneel down with my head in his lap because it makes me feel good I can do it. And he doesnt jump up screaming "run away! run away!".

chocolatte2004 -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 4:08:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MHOO314 What is it you love about the life? I love being Me, able to have what I want, when I want it and never having to wait--I love the dynamic of control for it is indeed what I am and what I am about--the TPE is to Me like breathing--the service, the devotion--- I love being wicked--chains, restraints, implements of pain and torment---the muffled cries behind the gag--the begging for more, the tears, the tenderness--I love walking the dark side as vanillers call it, for Me, it is where the sun warms My soul--and I love the thought that I may soon have a FT boy----<evil grin, wicked smile> I love the smell of leather and the coldness of chains---mmmmmMMMMMMM This life is truly where My soul rests comfortably and I am happy---so what is it you love about this life? i love being free from the confines of pretense...free to explore my deepest self, to feel no shame, but loving acceptance of my submission, my slavery, my fulfillment at yielding. i love the dance between pleasure and pain, until they become one. i love the pondering of self, of Spirit, and the union formed by Master and i as we dance this dance...the energy exchange, cosmic principles revealed, and made manifest by WIITWD.

AbstractSavant -> RE: What do You Love? (12/20/2005 4:23:18 PM)
I love the passion and affection and power that flows between my Master and I.

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