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Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 4:43:03 PM

SubOnHerKnees

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Hello..this is my first post here actually. My question is....

Whatever your Sir calls you ....Pet...slut...little one...slave...slut...girl...etc. How do you feel about him calling other sub/slaves those names ...both online or in real life.

Short and to the point I know... :)

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 5:51:47 PM

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I view those types of things as private, intimate, and between us. He doesn't call other submissives those names and I can't envision a scenario where he would.

On the flip side, I absolutely detest being called those names by men I don't know (right off the bat) or don't know well (a few conversations in). But I also dislike being called more "vanilla" pet names--sweetie, honey, etc-- by people I don't know well. They feel patronizing to me.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 7:06:36 PM

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It would be difficult if my partner called other people the pet names he calls me. But if he honestly felt that was the connection they had, then I would honor that and let them enjoy it.

About half the chicks enjoy being called those names without a relationship, and half get pissed, so the dom should be aware of that.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 7:08:41 PM

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nope, the things he calls me are for me. the same for me calling other doms pet names...it's not going to happen.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 7:14:02 PM

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Maybe it's best if the people in the relationship talk about "pet names" and let it be known how they feel about being called certain things, about calling others certain things, about their partner calling others certain things, and so on. There are many threads along those lines already, btw, but most of them focus on other aspects. Like "strangers call me slut and I don't like it" or "Master makes me call him Lord and I don't like it" or "subs keep referring to me as Sir and I don't like it" and on and on and on.

What's in a name, anyway? :p

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/13/2008 8:04:20 PM

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Master and I have an agreement, I'm the only one he calls baby and I'm the only one that calls him Daddy. Conversely, I hate it when Doms call me baby, pet, girl and really really dislike when they call me slut.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 7:07:25 AM

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whatever pet names Daddy has for me are intimate and private solely for me. i don't appreciate other men calling me bitch, slut etc because i'm not their bitch, slut etc etc - that's disrespecting me as a woman.

whatever pet names i have for my pet, same thing - it's only for him and no one else.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 9:46:05 AM

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when i met Master He told me He was going to call me precious which was a name He said He hasn't called another sub.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 10:55:58 AM

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I'd be irritated and I'd let him know immediately. I'm kind of upfront about things like that.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 11:15:25 AM

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Master calls me sweetheart. If he called another sub that , i would be upset, i am his sweetheart not anyone else. As for being called bitch, slut ...ect. No one has the right to call me that other than Master. He does not ,but it is his right to do so.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 12:29:11 PM

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It doesn't bother me when he calls others different names. one asked Him to call her pet and He said no. He stated to her that that is what He has always called me and that i am His only pet in that respect. So Wwe came up with a different name together.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 12:40:18 PM

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On the flip side, I absolutely detest being called those names by men I don't know (right off the bat) or don't know well (a few conversations in). But I also dislike being called more "vanilla" pet names--sweetie, honey, etc-- by people I don't know well. They feel patronizing to me.

Oh, I'd be in -deep- kimchee. *smiles* I've lived south of the Mason-Dixon for a quarter of a century, and before that I was raised by older parents, whose friends were all those silver-haired grandma types who call people 'honey' and 'dear' and 'sweetie'... I never really saw it as patronizing, and now that I've gotten older (and my memory for names has become so much more erratic

), I find that I'm using 'honey', 'sweetie', and 'dear' much more than I used to, even for people (or maybe -especially- for people) that I don't really know and who haven't imprinted themselves indelibly in my brain.

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RE: Calling other sub/slave pet names? - 11/14/2008 12:52:03 PM

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Oh, it's very context dependent. I come from an area (below the mason-dixon line) where things like that are pretty common. I wouldn't have an issue with friends of my parents or grandparents calling me things like that, or even customers when I was waiting tables. I suppose I meant more in male-to-female interactions. Like "What's your name, baby?", but even then it depends on how it's said and in what context.

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