myotherself -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/17/2008 11:22:37 AM)
~fr~
I make it clear in my profile that I'm a 'pain bunny' and that I'm looking for someone who enjoys giving pain. The reason I do this is to weed out those I'm incompatible with right from the start. I've met with several Doms who have started out saying they were sadists who merely enjoyed a bit of light spanking and the occasional whack with a cane. That's not enough for me - so I ask for what I need. Saves wasting my time and the time of any prospective Dom.
I guess many of these other subs are doing the same.
SadysticJester -> RE: whats the purpose/meaning?? (11/17/2008 4:40:03 PM)
all are valid points and much appreciated,i do however find that for the most part they are the ones that really dont have any realtime experience and perhaps play to much cyber things....among the myriad of other things mentioned.