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B1gbear -> RE: is he lying to me? (12/22/2005 7:56:54 AM)
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Time to be objective. Put yourself in his shoes. If you are trying to build a relationship with someone, do you go out of your way to open and expose your life to them? ...or do you hide your home and personal life giving only passing moments on the road. Do you embrace a call from the one you care about or do you screen your calls saying "I'll get back to them later, I don't have time to talk to them now."
If he's not lying to you, he sure don't sound like he gives a hoot if things progress or not. Don't be desperate or a doormate. There are far too many people out there who are probably reading this and thinking, I wouldn't treat you that way to take that kind of treatment from someone your supposed to be building a relationship with.
Personally, I be making the assessment that I'm being lied to and finding a way to allow him to shit or get off the pot...then testing the theory. The proof is in the pudding so to speak. If he leaves room for question, then it falls on him to eliminate room for doubt.
Deep down inside you somewhere you know the truth and what is right. Listen to that voice.
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