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Hi, dom here looking to learn the skills - 12/20/2005 12:34:56 PM

sirtopumhat

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Hi new dom here looking to learn some skills.

I'm the classic type of guy that's logically intelligent but socially ignorant. So it should be no surprise that it took me nearly thirteen years of marriage to find out that my wife is submissive. I love my wife very much and have tried to be what I understood to be a good husband which was to let her do pretty much whatever she wants. My perception was that freedom was the ultimate gift that I could give her. After talking to her recently I found out that that's not how she would like to be treated. Over the years she has done plenty to drive me crazy and was reluctant to do anything differently on my behalf. Looking back I'm wondering how much of that was just an effort to get me to take charge. The signs were all there that she wanted to be on the bottom but I was too ignorant to see them.

Now I'm trying to learn how to take control of my wife. It's been a long relationship and I have a lot of bad habits to undo. I'm pretty much starting out with no experience and have a lot to learn to be able to fulfill my starving sub wife.

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RE: Hi, dom here looking to learn the skills - 12/20/2005 2:26:38 PM

MTslave

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Hello and Welcome!!!
Kudo's to you for stepping up to the plate and for being willing to try and to learn to better your relationship with you wife... I do so hope you find things here that will help you both.

As always,
Master T's impish slave

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RE: Hi, dom here looking to learn the skills - 12/20/2005 6:37:06 PM

MissDiandSirHugh

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G'Day and Welcome sirtopumhat you have begun a journey of not only in-site to a new world but also one of love and on some occasions pain in that there is so much to discover and to learn and the pain is what to do with all that you learn so just take your time in the road you now travel and maybe have your wife travel it with you here to both begin to explore together and to help you more to understand her and what you find.
We wish you both a safe and happy journey and so much joy in it all.

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