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Kwinn -> Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:13:11 PM)
Wether online or at a playparty, fetnite, or any event...there seems to be at least one male dom who insists that he can make female dominants submit to him? Seriously... what is their issue!!!!???? I've only been on here 24 hours? Maybe 48 and have already been contacted by more than one male dominant who are sure I'm not really a female dominant... I just need the right male dom to show me I am really a sub....WTF people????

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:15:37 PM)
Its the same instance where men can turn lesbians straight, women can rturn gay men straight... female dominants can turn male doms sub... um.... male subs who can show female subs what they are missing not being dominant... Just get used to it, everyone thinks they really are all that and a bag of cips, but they usually arent. I laugh, assure them they arent the first nor the last to make the offer and not be able to pony up and I move along. DV

colouredin -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:18:06 PM)
Some people beleieve they have it in their power to 'fix' or change someone, its rather sad and if it shows anything it shows that they are ignorant and not worth spending time with.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:24:48 PM)
Don't assure them that they can't do it. Instead, tell them how you really love to put insert a new 4 inch needle through your sub's penis. Then say "If you let me dom you tonight, I'll let you dom me tomorrow." It works better if you have a sharpened, rusty knitting needle in your hand and a wicked smile on your face.

KatyLied -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:26:05 PM)
Simply put, many men love a challenge.

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:26:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire Its the same instance where men can turn lesbians straight, women can rturn gay men straight... female dominants can turn male doms sub... um.... male subs who can show female subs what they are missing not being dominant... Just get used to it, everyone thinks they really are all that and a bag of cips, but they usually arent. I laugh, assure them they arent the first nor the last to make the offer and not be able to pony up and I move along. DV *You aren't seriously suggesting that it doesn't happen?? lmao... (the underlined part... lol). Yes, I have had waaaay toooo many male doms write to me and offer to submit.. anything to get laid!!* *lmao* *Jewel*

StrtbkNamdDesire -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:42:11 PM)
I call it PAS- Phallic Anxiety Syndrome. Like DiurnalVampire said, men will always want to turn lesbians straight, to convince subs that they really want to be slaves, to dominate Dommes... because they are convinced they need to prove (to themselves more than anyone) their dick (cane/crop/whip/truck/motorcycle/fishing rod/brute strength/youuuuuu name it... ) is better/more legitimate than a woman's. This phallic anxiety is waved around with such desperation that it is absolutely laughable... sure, everyone like a 'challenge,' but these men do not uNDERSTand the difference between a 'chase' and 'unobtainable.'

OneMoreWaste -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:48:31 PM)
I'd guess because it's worked too many times to not be worth a shot. [8\|] There aren't a lot of "pure" Dommes out there.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 7:52:45 PM)
there is a godlike power in owning and operating a penis. a penis is better than a magic wand in changing basic human psychology - as proved by all the doms who want to try! If you don't own and operate one, then you can not possibly understand the magic powers inherent in the penis. It is not for mere mortals without penis' to understand - it is just for us to accept and endure the penis. the penis is GOD!!!!!

elfette -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 8:02:16 PM)
Not for nothing, but really even the most dominant of men fall prey to the right pussy

StrtbkNamdDesire -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 8:07:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 there is a godlike power in owning and operating a penis. a penis is better than a magic wand in changing basic human psychology - as proved by all the doms who want to try! If you don't own and operate one, then you can not possibly understand the magic powers inherent in the penis. It is not for mere mortals without penis' to understand - it is just for us to accept and endure the penis. the penis is GOD!!!!! LOL thank you Dr. Freud.

theobserver -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 8:15:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kwinn Wether online or at a playparty, fetnite, or any event...there seems to be at least one male dom who insists that he can make female dominants submit to him? Seriously... what is their issue!!!!???? I've only been on here 24 hours? Maybe 48 and have already been contacted by more than one male dominant who are sure I'm not really a female dominant... I just need the right male dom to show me I am really a sub....WTF people???? There's always a few that will try you. Also, you are very attractive so it's probably a lot of wishful thinking on their part. Welcome! If I played for the other team grrrr!

lovingpet -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 8:54:14 PM)
Also, there is the possibility the people who do this (not a males only thing, mind you) are not ready to get and accept what it is they seek so they go after that which can never, ever be theirs. You don't have to face your own demons if you never find the right mirror. lovingpet

VampiresLair -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 8:57:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire Its the same instance where men can turn lesbians straight, women can rturn gay men straight... female dominants can turn male doms sub... um.... male subs who can show female subs what they are missing not being dominant... Just get used to it, everyone thinks they really are all that and a bag of cips, but they usually arent. I laugh, assure them they arent the first nor the last to make the offer and not be able to pony up and I move along. DV *You aren't seriously suggesting that it doesn't happen?? lmao... (the underlined part... lol). Yes, I have had waaaay toooo many male doms write to me and offer to submit.. anything to get laid!!* *lmao* *Jewel* Oh, I know it happens, but there is one braggart trying for every one it happens with...

beargonewild -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 9:07:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StrtbkNamdDesire I call it PAS- Phallic Anxiety Syndrome. Like DiurnalVampire said, men will always want to turn lesbians straight, to convince subs that they really want to be slaves, to dominate Dommes... because they are convinced they need to prove (to themselves more than anyone) their dick (cane/crop/whip/truck/motorcycle/fishing rod/brute strength/youuuuuu name it... ) is better/more legitimate than a woman's. This phallic anxiety is waved around with such desperation that it is absolutely laughable... sure, everyone like a 'challenge,' but these men do not uNDERSTand the difference between a 'chase' and 'unobtainable.' LOL....love your acronym! Speaking from a male POV, yes some men figure that no woman is unconquerable and they refuse to take No for an answer. One of our worse faults is we think with the head between our legs and not with the one on our shoulders.

adrian28 -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 9:34:19 PM)
Don't get me wrong, I would love it if every woman would submit to me but, I'm not that egotistical!! Not yet anyways, lol.

Alighierisquest -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 10:01:47 PM)
I've never tried to convert a women from any orientation, I figure I'll get the "lead to gold" trick down with my man totem before moving on to the harder stuff.

roughleather -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 10:06:04 PM)
It's a challenge. A female friend of mine tries hard to be dominant, and we have little power struggles just for fun.

monywildcat -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 10:30:50 PM)
I get the opposite end of the spectrum, every now and then I get an email from a male sub, begging me to put them in panties and use my biggest strap-on on them. Those are a hoot. I would rather gnaw my own arm off and hit myself with it. I guess it boils down to that we want what we can't have. The girls see a gay guy, and want to "turn" him, a la Seinfeld. The guys see a lesbian, and want to turn her too. The subs wants to make a sub dominate them. The doms want to make another dom submit. It's human nature. It's up to those that know how we are wired, to stand up and say sorry, dude/lesbian/whatever, I cannot go against my very nature. It would end badly for all involved. In other words, what DiurnalVampire said. [:D]

SingleRarity -> RE: Why is it.... (11/14/2008 10:30:54 PM)
I always enjoy those types of people. They make me laugh, and give us something fun to talk about on the message boards! Daddy's Ballerina, e

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