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akisha -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 5:53:11 PM)
On a side note, make sure you have a hospital mattess pad or a towel under you.I'm guessing you don't want the 3 gallons of lube and the orgasm gushings soaking into the mattress. My first fisting (which was successful yay) took about 2 hours to do. latex gloves, lots of lube and him rotating his hand helped alot in getting it in. Good luck

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 5:56:38 PM)
i'd be afraid to fist someone...but that's just me

windchymes -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 6:13:04 PM)
As previously suggested, have him wear latex (or non-latex if you're allergic...slippery is the key here), and he should keep his hand rotatating or twisting as he's pushing forward and pulling out, like a twisting piston motion...it will slip in more easily that way. Also, the bottom of your vaginal wall (parallel with your rectum) has a lot of give....have him push downward slightly as he's meeting the most resistance, right before his knuckles pop through. What causes the most pain is the knuckles meeting the pubic bone which arches over the top of your vagina. If he pushes downward sort of into the rectum, the knuckles are able to slip under the pubic bone. He shouldn't be just applying gradual pressure to force it in, that continuous, rhythmic "twisting piston" motion is best.

chaoticpurgatory -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 6:16:25 PM)
My first time, (with my former Master) we had another female sub try it first. (If you had seen the size of his hands, you would know why!!) Once I was relaxed and very much enjoying myself, then he went to using his own hands. It took a little bit, but I think it would have been much worse if we hadn't tried the smaller hands first, lol. I think a lot of it was mental too, I was so scared of those huge hands, but once I realized it was possible WITH A LOT OF LUBE I relaxed, and it was easier every time after that. There are certain positions that work better for certain people as well, its just something you have to keep trying ... and its well worth it!!

GreedyTop -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 6:40:02 PM)
lube, anyone?

littleone35 -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 7:22:10 PM)
This would not work for Master and i he has very large hands. No ay are they conna fir inside me. Good thing is is not something either one of us is dyng to do. Matt's littleone

DavanKael -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 7:23:16 PM)
Have only indulged in vaginal fisting to date. My advice: lots and lots of excitement in advance. I haven't had any children and have been told I am quite snug (Kegels are my friend) but appear to be more elastic than some. Didn't find a need for any additional lube; went slow and steady. Wasn't expecting to do it the first time, got verrrrry excited, enjoyed it much! :> Davan

aravain -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 10:55:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: monywildcat But hey, there's a thought...dip yourself to the waist in a big tub of lube! Think that would be enough? I'm thinking so... Hmm... not if you were taken out of the tub, right? Interesting thought... now I'm going to keep thinking about it. Damn. I'll have to give it a try or something.

babygirlkitten -> RE: Fisting (11/16/2008 11:10:57 PM)
I have also heard that for others, being on all fours with their head down makes it much easier. For me, what works is taking a moment to take a few deep breaths, and consciously think about my muscles relaxing. Sort of a Zen Fisting technique, if you will.

malloves69 -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 12:44:18 AM)
my mistress fists me in multiple positions ..think we have done them all [:)] me standing up ....on my back is our favorites legs spread wide [:)] me doggy style ...me kneeling up riding her fist while im on top of it [:)] love kissing her too while shes fisting me ..think thats pretty itimate thing to share when we do so [:)] only tried both fists a couple of times so far we still have that to do [:)]that feeling of her first time sliding in me i just love and she loves how i start dripping cum from my cock once she is inside of me ...she knows my ass and prostate well i must say ..have fun ..relax and enjoy ..mal [:)]

WyldHrt -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 12:55:31 AM)
3 pages on a fisting thread and you just got here, Mal? You're slipping... so to speak [:D]

amberyone -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 2:14:02 AM)
Thanks everyone for your advice, I'll have to pass it all onto Master and see what He thinks, I'll have to raid His bank account to get some more lube :P Thanks again

DesFIP -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 3:44:39 AM)
LOL As far as having babies go, yes I've had two vaginal births. However please remember that during pregnancy the hormones produced then are designed to let the tendons stretch, thus allowing the bones to move apart. Afterwards the bones don't move when pushed upon. Therefore having delivered vaginally is not a guarantee that you can be fisted.

antipode -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 8:52:37 AM)
quote: 3 pages on a fisting thread and you just got here, Mal? Uhhh, old hand... [;)]

antipode -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 8:55:40 AM)
quote: I'll have to pass it all onto Master And did anybody mention the lube? I doubt that you need this, but, to be on the safe side - most of the responses here are valid for vaginal fisting - anal fisting is a whole other subject, in my opinion. I generally don't even want to think about that, as it causes permanent, irreversible damage, just in case you were tempted.

GreedyTop -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 8:57:15 AM)
Geea, antipode! I cant believe nobody mentioned lube!! Thank you!!

persephonee -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 9:09:28 AM)
~fr~ everyones advice is on the right track...its just that there are some problems mentally with fisting....women worried about being all stretched out...the ramifications of having someone else know that its physically possible for someone to insert an entire fist inside you...yadayada.... Fisting/stretching/filling...very common practices and wants. There should be no emotional baggage dragging a person back away from something they want to do. i swear to all that is holy that i have been doing this for years and am just as tight as i ever was....it will go back to where it was...kegels help, and speed that along, but its completely doable and the potential harm is much less than some other activities i hear people doing on a routine basis. Anyone can be fisted...the most common excuses i hear...i have a tipped uterus and that interferes with fisting. i havent had kids yet so im not big enough to to that. my pelvis is too small.....the list goes on but it kind of gives me a headache to think about it. im biased, but i find fisting to be best when done by a woman as her hands and fist span is smaller and there is more room for her to really get moving in there once the fun starts. Fisting can take time, but it doesnt have to be a 3 week process....someone stated it was a 2hour session for her...that sounds about right. The body is more receptive after orgasm and during...so sex before hand is a good idea, but sometimes the friction from fucking swells the tissues that you are later going to be trying to move around in, so i would suggest that the fucking happen afterward...more to the point, your partner should pack a picnic lunch and plan to stay down there for an extended period of time. Oral and digital stimulation is the best prep. Lots of lube close at hand...i find that its the biggest part of the fist and then once its in, whatever is still outside the body that needs the extra lube...i once had someone try to squirt the lube directly into me....like my vagina was the problem....nope....its the fist, trust me. Taking a lot of time with 2-3-4 fingers circling and stretching out the opening and then moving internally to massage the cervix and especially to stimulate the gspot repeatedly...take your time and explore the area...all the while prepping it for invasion. Circular movements while applying slow steady pressure to insert is the most effective movement to try to get into a pattern....slow and steady progress with a lot of checking in and vibrator to the clit is always helpful...not a big intense vibration but enough to keep her excited during the slower parts and be able to ramp it up when necessary to have the orgasms help...its a slow process but fun...and worth it. There are lots of references for this activity in almost all the sex guides...happy fisting. hops off the soapbox that noone asked me to hop onto... perse

RCdc -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 9:14:37 AM)
I am now just waiting for Kaiser Chiefs to bring out their version of ".Luby.Luby.Luby." smoochies GT now I have the right thread....[8\|] Yeah, lube... lots of it. But if it don't happen, don't force it. the.dark.

DesFIP -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 9:38:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt 3 pages on a fisting thread and you just got here, Mal? You're slipping... so to speak [:D] Must have been all the lube, very slippery! [:D]

akisha -> RE: Fisting (11/17/2008 10:03:10 AM)
I just thought of this... Some were saying being really excited or cumming first helps. I agree with the excited part, but orgasming first is not always good. When i orgasm, i tighten so much you can't get toys out for at least a few minutes or if i orgasm from foreplay, and Master moves to penatration after, he really has to work to get in. So if you are the type that tightens up alot after orgasm, save the orgasm for after the fist is in. [:)]

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