Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc

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lobodomslavery -> Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:18:14 AM)
Coming from Dublin, some Women like to be called Bird, Chicken , Honey but more and more now even Women this side of the Atlantic find this disrespectful. Is it disrespectful to You? How different is it to calling a slave my boy, my bitch, my worm etc. Or is there specific criteria in which one should address a Domme/Dom. Furthermore Is formal address required always or would hi Ya , how are u, etc be acceptable sometimes. Its an age old question folks and i just thought i d throw out there kevin

kiwisub12 -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:31:28 AM)
Disrespectful? - only if she thinks it is.

beargonewild -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:36:47 AM)
Generally most women (I'm speaking from a Canadian POV ) aren't very comfortable being called Bird, honey, sweetie, etc unless it's a term of endearment used by their S/O's. In a d/s based relationship, it greatly depends upon the wishes of the dominant partner and how they wish to be addressed in that intimate way. I may be way off base here as I believe that is a cultural thing as generally we don't refer to women using those terms in everyday communication.

CalifChick -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:37:00 AM)
LOL! Well I learned something new today (somebody write that down). Women in Ireland liked to be called "chicken"? Personally, I would find "how r u" or anything like that to be indicator that someone is not worth my time. But hey, I'm not a Domme, so take that for what it's worth. Cali

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:50:27 AM)
Well some Women do. to use the local Dublinese , it depends on the Bird. some birds, ie Women find it a compliment other one's if you called them a Bird, you might get a slap so hard you would not do it again. Their justification? Logically put they argue correctly they dont have feathers and they dont chirp. But like i say it depends on the Bird , i mean Woman.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:52:37 AM)
Ditto. What about "Cockatoo"? Or "Evening Grosbeak"? quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick LOL! Well I learned something new today (somebody write that down). Women in Ireland liked to be called "chicken"?

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:52:41 AM)
Objectifying a female dominant (or anyone,) in the get to know you stages, may not be disrespectful, but I would not call it very prudent or self-serving.

JustDarkness -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:55:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery How different is it to calling a slave my boy, my bitch, my worm etc. Because he/she decides how he/she wants to be addressed. I don't mind it myself.....depending on the situation. (except dude...I hate that word)

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:57:29 AM)
You could try it but i dont think it would be well received. The first thing to note about all this you would have to know the Lady in question before calling her a bird , a chicken etc. One thing that is bound to get the particular male into deep trouble in Dublin is the use of the term Madam. For Dublin Women this term has connotations with the term prostitute , not very flattering. kevin

zakkan -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 8:57:48 AM)
Out of curiosity, how do men like to be addressed in Ireland?

Lashra -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:05:08 AM)
I think with the first contact calling anyone "honey, sweety, or sexy" is rather rude. The person may not want to be called these types of names and consider it disrespectful. My male sub calls me "babe" only because I allow him too, anyone else should call me by my name unless told otherwise. I wonder how many males, Doms especially would want to be called "sweetcheeks, longhorn or fucktoy" by women that they didn't know? Not too many I would wager. ~Lashra

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:05:22 AM)
Pal mate Man or simply the person's name. as in how is it goin Man, thanks mate. Good stuff man. Those usually go down well

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:07:33 AM)
well fucktoy , longhorn are a bit crude. Sweetcheeks is not too bad but it could be termed patronising by the Lady in question. Bird , chicken, is accepted by some but not all Women as a greeting, the safest is to call her by Her name kevin

Lashra -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:10:29 AM)
Patronizing ..bingo you hit the nail on the head. That is how I view being called "sweety, sexy" etc by someone that I do not know. I have a simple rule, call me by my name unless I state otherwise. That is showing respect and respect is a two way street. ~Lashra

zakkan -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:10:53 AM)
Personally, I will burst out laughing if I heard anyone address a woman as "chicken". "How are you doing, chicken?" "Nice dress, chicken." [:D]

myotherself -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:12:25 AM)
my very close friends (male and female) call me hun, honey, sweetie, darling, trouble, buggalugs, and many other terms of endearment. They can do this BECAUSE they are my very close friends. Anyone else trying to call me those names would very quickly be talking to thin air. And anyone calling me chick, bird, etc would be talking to thin air while clutching a very red, hand-shaped mark on their cheek. [:)]

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:12:26 AM)
with men its usually fella or other half. Women usually refer to men as my fella. No it would not be appropriate to call a man Sweetcheeks , that is reserved for Women but like i say its usually Bird Chicken with Women and fella with lads

LaTigresse -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:12:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Objectifying a female dominant (or anyone,) in the get to know you stages, may not be disrespectful, but I would not call it very prudent or self-serving. My thoughts exactly. If we've no established relationship, it's obvious I've no control over how you address me. How you do, will however, establish how I view you and whether or not you will EVER have any sort of relationship with me.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:16:30 AM)
Well its obviously a cultural disparity. With some Women in Dublin it s like exactly as you paint it, call a Woman a Bird, and you will get slapped into the middle of next week, rightly or wrongly, with others its fine , they regard it as a compliment kevin

LaTigresse -> RE: Is it disrespectful to address a Domme as Honey , Chicken, Bird etc (11/16/2008 9:19:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery ............ with others its fine , they regard it as a compliment kevin OR.......they are simply tollerating it and you are just too dense to realize how much they hate it.

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