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D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 4:29:26 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		They talk about the transit strike in NYC costing the city $400 million a day in lost revenue because of all the lost Christmas shopping. I can believe that, but with all this buying frenzy, why haven’t I bought anything yet? I find it hard to find something appropriate that has a D/s tint.

First of all, I know nothing about women’s underwear or whatever it is called. I’m also not about to go into some kind of women’s store so I can turn red and wonder how many question what kind of panties, uh, I mean, shorts I’m wearing.

If I buy a woman anything, I’ll go into Wal-mart late at night and quickly grab something from that center bin. I scrounge around in that thing like I’m looking for the right spark plugs for my truck. I’ll stick whatever I get under the number 3 Nascar T-shirt I bought for camouflage that is in my cart. I hit the cashier with the empty line, paying cash, thank you, keep the change, helping her quickly bag it and hurrying out with my head down so the security cameras don’t see this act of perversion I’ve committed.

So underwear is not my first choice. Anyone buying or getting a D/s themed Christmas gift that they are happy about?


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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 5:43:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		First off, I think it would be great if you got over your shyness and learned about women's clothes. Take a female friend with you to help ease the burden. Trust me, sales people at lingerie stores work with nervous straight males shopping for their female partners ALL the time.

And one of my oldest lines is that you aren't ready to live with a woman if you aren't ready to buy and stock the house with everything she needs for her. :)

And of course, underwear is hardly "ds" themed.

In fact I'm not getting any of my partners any particularly kinky themed gift (unless you count New Years at Dark Odyssey). For the kinky gift exchange at BESS I'm giving two rolls of duct tape.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 5:56:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Here is a short story for you ....

My first Master, a distinguished British man, took me to the mall and into a womans shop. He not only went through all of the racks with me, but he stood in line next to me while I was waiting to enter the fitting room and held a bra and panty set! When it was my turn, we both slipped into the small room. I squirmed into the silky clothing, met his approval and we exited to pay for them. If you could have seen the look on the womens faces, both shoppers and saleswoman alike, you would not be as shy as you are. It was pure envy and I was in heaven! We have said it before in other threads, confidence makes a person. Start small, buy a silky scarf -- it doesnt seem kinky when you are standing in line or paying for it, but OoOOOo the delicious things that can be done with it behind closed doors. : )

Good luck!
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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 5:58:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nah, I generally do kinky gifts for kinky anniversaries.

Plus living in Indiana after living in NYC, I frankly don't find much around this state I would spend money on that is "kinky".

I got Fox a wet/dry car vac this year -- he was very excited about it and loved it dearly. He's driving to his parents house for the holidays tomorrow (a good 3+ hour drive) which is the longest he's driven since he's gotten his car. His sister is flying in so he is mostly going to see her and spend time with his whole family.



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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 6:25:33 AM   
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I frankly don't find much around this state I would spend money on that is "kinky".

I got Fox a wet/dry car vac this year -- he was very excited about it and loved it dearly.



If you don't think this was a kinky gift, please think again!

... though in this application it might be better called a Fox dry->wet vac.


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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 6:29:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Steel! <She exclaims with dismay>, I cannot believe a big strong Dominant man like you gets shy buying women's lingerie---how in the world do you get your subs ready for you--make them go get their own? < hmmm Dommes, I see an oppty for an interesting holiday command here----<wicked grins>---

I am not getting boy anything D/s oriented, we are too new, but I did get him some "fringe" things (no you bad ones, not FRINGY-)--that provide the allure, more of Me being there as we are many miles apart---but also things he can use in the vanilla world--

and Steel---people would hardly see it as an act of perversion---as LA said, get someone's help and the best place is Victoria's secrets OR a good store that specializes in the naughty, those sales people work with people everyday and think nothing of it---and btw I travel in your area alot and when I shop, I have a dear sub friend of Mine along for advice---so come on out and go buy some hot stuff---smiles

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 6:31:04 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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I frankly don't find much around this state I would spend money on that is "kinky".

I got Fox a wet/dry car vac this year -- he was very excited about it and loved it dearly.




If you don't think this was a kinky gift, please think again!

... though in this application it might be better called a Fox dry->wet vac.




Just don't suck your balls up in one.....yeeeeeeeeeooooooooowwwwwww.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 6:35:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Being this late in the season
guess you will have to go the store route
any adult stores in your area

would suggest in the future that you try the adult stores online
do a google search for
adult toys
adult furniture
kinky clothing

before the internet there were quite a few mail order

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 6:58:16 AM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		mmmmmmmm a D/s Christmas............... not really sure what that is...... is that something kinky or sexual? OR maybe grin... it's something that I buy for my slave that is for them to use to please me *G* mmmmmm yeah that sounds right *G*

well I have bought lots lingere over the years... keep having to replace it... seems to get ripped or torn... stuff is rather cheaply made it would seem.... fortunately my mother - yeah my mother - has given my alandra a few new pieces lately so I really don't need anymore.... so well no fun talking with the sales girl when I go and buy it. and well not sense buying it for kyra either... we only spend so much time together in the year as it is... she's lucky to even have clothes on let alone underwear. mmmmmmmmmmm but it is fun to buy none them but no flirting with the sales girl ... damn.

so what else is there that I need my slaves to have to please me? I have lots of toys... a damn room full of them... the only think I need is to actually be in the room more often but then the body can only take so much *G* But, I did have fun buying alandra's first Vibrator one year... took her with me... poor girl was so embarrassed... what fun that was *G* but wow didn't know they could cost so much! well must of been worth it for it is still going after almost 15 years and it still shakes rattles and rolls! *G* wait that's the girl that does that lol

mmmmmm yup have a lawn mower, snow blower, rakes and shovels... tools of all sorts to do the minor repairs around the house. oh yes doesn't seem I need to get anything of that sort for them....

oh I know jewelry... mmmmmm wait they have collar's and their chains and they have more earings than they need mmmmmm no sense buying something that is only going to sit in the jewelry box... just can't see that as pleasing me

so what did I get...well kyra has already opened her's ... gave her a one of those harddrive media player things.... plays music or *G* my commands and pictures of all sorts *G* mmmmmm yes very nice pictures indeed *G* her own personal electronic skin magazine *G* can't share what alandra is getting... bought that yesterday... but she will not get it until christmas... but I think she knows anyways.... but it not what kyra recieved... it wouldn't please me for alandra have something like that so I have something different for her. mmmm damn I love giving the gifts that please me *G*

Merry Christmas everyone.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 7:53:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		dear exsitential
greetings,AND, happy holidays
i have read ,and ,understood your post
thanks, for posting,
in Reply to:' is there any present you're happy, about giving, to your top....'
well yes, if i were the present, but, can't be the case, now....
happy holidays,
to you and yours
repsectfully
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THEXSLAVESINGER,
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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 8:04:04 AM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		Hey Steel,

There's this store called Victoria's Secret. Now THAT'S the place to go shop for her. The sales ladies are quite used to serving men, even shy ones, and you have GOT to love that place. Just a hint, find a way to note the sizes she wears of different things before you go there. That will definetely make your life a lot easier and you will be more comfortable. You will also look more 'worldly' if you already know what sizes she wears in things.

Too late now but BTW they also have a call center where you can call in and order from their catalogue. Quick, easy and the stuff is sent right to your door. If you get red faced nobody knows!

Good luck ........... I did my Christmas shopping in October. (Been there, done that.)

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 8:43:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		ExSteel; i have great web sites but it's getting late to buy online for Xmas. Nonetheless, we could meet up in YIM and i'd help You choose. It helps if You have a size or measurements availlable.

And Yanno, dear, i won't squack if my present is late, LOL.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 8:49:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		my only D/s Christmas gift is my submission, but i won't give that out this year...maybe next Christmas all wrapped up in a bow.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 8:56:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		The excitable and the kinky???? mmm lets see now.... 'Angel' bought her sister ' Wild Child' several items including a 'kink' black bodysuit (online) and some beautiful earrings, with small red coloured floggers hanging from them.

Wild bought matching necklace stands for herself and Angel to put their 'day collars' on.

I went and did the obvious, the 'g' thongs, and sexual knick knacks, but included a latex mould kit to satisfy their own 'kinky cravings'! They told me that they wished they had Sir's cock with them all the time...... (one girl temporarily lives 3000 miles from us) The fun of one 'Precious' assisting me to make two latex copies of self and the kinky use they will recieve in my absence is well worth the kit's expense! I envisage making a third to fit my battery powered saw (in/out action) to further extend myself in play. (Is it always a joy being poly?)

To E/Steel, my advice is to find a lingerie importer, tell them of your lack of knowledge, let them educate you. These importers always seem to have some kinky lines that arent purchased by mainstream shops. Always remember to dedicate the item/s with a small note attached reminding the receiver of a past 'play' or future 'play' Never underestimate the joy of truthful and meaningful words written on a handmade card. Like too many get hung up on the value in monetry terms, it really is the thought and actions that one puts into making or purchasing a unique individual item. I prefer a well written handmade card over a commercial gift worth countless dollars. (Mind you, I say this knowing that both girls have/are making their gifts for me)

I wish all of you arm hugs, and joyous smiles over this period.

Dips lid, smiles broadly ...................departs.............................

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 10:25:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		The best Christmas present I ever got was breakfast in bed one year : ) It was so unexpected, and done so beautifully, that I have never forgotten it. Something so small, yes, but it meant more that anything that could have been bought at a store.

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 10:34:40 AM   
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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 10:57:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just so everyone knows...He always gives me something sentimental and endearing..and not just at Christmas or my birthday..I find the little things he does to be the best- like the pack of cokes he put in my refrigerator just this week. How can you not adore a man who keeps you in carbonated drinks? Ha!

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 11:15:17 AM   
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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 4:01:33 PM   
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and well not sense buying it for kyra either... we only spend so much time together in the year as it is... she's lucky to even have clothes on let alone underwear. mmmmmmmmmmm but it is fun to buy none them but no flirting with the sales girl ... damn.



My Lord, I have bought my own lingerie over the years.... shall I bring some up for Lupercalia??

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so what did I get...well kyra has already opened her's ... gave her a one of those harddrive media player things.... plays music or *G* my commands and pictures of all sorts *G* mmmmmm yes very nice pictures indeed *G* her own personal electronic skin magazine *G*



yes, a very nice electronic skin magazine it is... I have lots of kinky pictures on there now *g*

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RE: D/s Christmas Gifts? - 12/21/2005 11:05:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I goit to open My Christmas/birthday gift early: lovingly handmade leather thigh cuffs!! All to keep a slave in his place!!

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