LadyKim
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Consulting a urologist is not a bad idea; however, are there exercises that you can do to help with your control issues.
1. Begin practicing with stopping the flow of urine several times mid stream when you are peeing. Once you have figured out the sensation and what you need to do to control the muscles practice the same technic when masterbating to stem the flow.
2. Masterbate yourself to the point of getting close then stop and squeeze your balls HARD!!! Then continue masterbating while thinking of NON SEXUAL things....... your mom, a challenge at work, sports trivia, different types of cars.....etc. When you realize your errection has begun to wane, go back to thinking the sexy thoughts that got you started in the first place. Figure out where your danger point is and remember the sensation to be able to pull back or change mental processes in the future.
3. Once you've figured out the trigger point, and have a decent idea of how to curb the explosions........ stop masterbating so much!!! Sucks, I know (poor subbie boy!!! Like I really feel horrible telling someone they should be denied orgasm!! Hello....... orgasm control and denial are among my top ten interests!!!!) I am not just saying that because I enjoy orgasm denial. A sex therapist friend and I had this discussion several months ago, and he said that frequent masterbation CAN LEAD (for those that want to nitpick wording please note........ I said CAN... it does NOT happen with EVERYONE!!!) to premature ejaculation problems. On the flip side, women who have problems with orgasming should masterbate more (with fingers....... sorry vibrating toys on the clit can lead to desenatization of the clit resulting in difficulty orgasming in later years........... again not everytime...... but it is a possibility. I know really sucks, I love my iVibe Rabbit; however, I'd rather be able to still orgasm when I'm retired and have all that free time on my hands. Though will admit, I let the rabbits ears do their thing once every two or three months. sssssssssssshhhhh...... don't tell my sex therapist friend. He'd lecture me for hours, and my dom personality doesn't do well when being scolded. LOL!!!)
Good luck!! Hope this helps.
MzKim
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