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btchnheet -> want a dom (12/21/2005 1:55:44 PM)

i just was told i was not nice. doms really don't want a challenge do they?



candystripper -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 1:58:41 PM)

Gee, and by the Op title, i thought you were giving away Doms..LOL. i cannot say "all" Doms like anything. i don't know you and don't know if you're nice or not. If it were me, unless it came from someone who knew me well, i'd shrug it off and move one.

candystripper



obis -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 2:02:54 PM)

Those are two different statements. All doms may LOVE a challenge, but that doesn't say anything about whether or not you're nice. The two things are completely unrelated.



truesub4u -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 2:03:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

Gee, and by the Op title, i thought you were giving away Doms..LOL.
candystripper



lmao......... so did I... i came to see if there's going to be and auction as well.



MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 2:41:01 PM)

You will be told many things here btchmheet and called many things and a lot of them you will like and fell happy about but others you will feel not only unhappy to be called or told but also offended by but that is part of being in such a large community and like the real world.
All you can do is shake your head and move on knowing that there is much more to find and be enjoyed.
About wanting a challenge we here do love the challenge in not only talking to some one who has feelings of submissiveness but then finding out that they fell that in their heart and mind they are wishing to submit to us and enjoy doing so,after that the biggest challenge is just starting to unfold in every aspect of things.



IrishMist -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 2:52:12 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: btchnheet

i just was told i was not nice. doms really don't want a challenge do they?


/shrug

I am not very nice either most of the time. But, it means little to me what others think, only what I think.



truesub4u -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 2:54:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist



/shrug

I am not very nice either most of the time. But, it means little to me what others think, only what I think.



SHOCKED!....... I've found you to be nothing but nice... so far... LOL



xxblushesxx -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:10:17 PM)

I always TRY to be nice, but often end up with the 'brat' moniker....
Funny thing is, the ones who give me the title almost always say it with a chuckle, and a twinkle in their eye. (seems they like it)
And I totally disagree about dom(mes) not liking a challenge. No one wants something that is too easy....
One more thought...and please don't think this is a slam...it's just a passing thought....perhaps they read your handle and just assume you are not nice...I read some doms handles and am already wary before even talking to them...some I won't even talk to because of their handles...total turn offs for me...

Well, good luck! There is someone for everyone, just sometimes takes a while to find the one...

Christina



bobboynton2001 -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:29:26 PM)

But Brat is a special label for a particular type of sub, not just something to call your sub when she/he is difficult. My feeling is that our friendly bitch should fill us in on the situation.....



KatyLied -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:31:58 PM)

Some Doms want cute, lil robots. I don't understand how that can be much fun. Especially when you consider that you can have a thinking sub with a mind who aches to yield. Why not have some fun with it? Anyone can play robot....boring.



BalletBob -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:38:21 PM)

Sorry, I don't want a Dom. Now if you want to give away a Mistress, let me know.

It depends on the DOM. Some like a challenge, and some like it easy. You have to hang in till you find the right one...or more like the right one finds you.

Still BEHAVING myself...(Yeah, RIGHT!), BalletBob



bobboynton2001 -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:46:21 PM)

katie, No boube about it. I can't stand a bot-like sub. It makes the whole effort useless. However, that said, sometimes finding your way in any relationship can be frustrating. The ballet of give and take is stimulating when it happens. hmm balletbob - is that why you ballet?



KnightofMists -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 3:49:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: btchnheet

i just was told i was not nice. doms really don't want a challenge do they?



that's ok I am told that i am an asshole... i guessing that isn't nice either... mmmmmm but my girls do love a challenge... if they didn't why the hell are they with me?



Sunshine119 -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 4:01:03 PM)

Doms don't want a challenge? Who told you that? Many don't like being "topped from the bottom" and many love SAMies (Smart Ass Masochists). Put what you want in your description. Be clear and grammatically correct and I bet you'll get lots of replies. Say right up front that you are a smart ass. Don't worry, my guess is that you'll be swamped with responses just like most women here.

Welcome aboard!



Yourkitten -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 5:16:47 PM)

well, i myself am a challenge and so far only a few didnt like it. i am who i am and even though my name says kitten i can be a wildcat. but who wants a wildcat.

and the doms i have met like me the way i am. and on the back of my truck is a sticker that says lifes a bitch and so am i. and sometimes i am for real. but most of the time i am a sweet littel kitten.

i know alot of doms who do love a challenge. it makes life more interesting. keep searching i know your dom is out there somewhere.

kitten hugs



IrishMist -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 5:21:47 PM)

quote:

SHOCKED!....... I've found you to be nothing but nice... so far... LOL


Well shucks...you mean that you don't find me to be a nasty little ole bitch? What the fuck am I doing wrong?

/kicks the ground



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 9:23:23 PM)

Let's also remember that it's more than possible to be entertaining, challenging, delightful WITHOUT being annoying or a nuisance. It takes skill, but it can be done.



OscarHargraves -> RE: want a dom (12/21/2005 11:47:45 PM)

I can't speak for the others but I like a challenge and I find that a woman who thinks is a LOT better than an automaton.

Have you ever tried to hold a conversation with a 'dumb blond' (male or female, blonde brunette or whatever)? Oh Lord, give me a smart woman who can think AND knows what she wants. If she's also a submissive then it can be Heaven right here on earth.



afmvdp -> RE: want a dom (12/22/2005 4:35:11 AM)

There is a difference though between being a brat or a SAM and just being downright disrespectful, disorderly and disobediant. There is a line where it goes from playful stubborness to flat out annoyance.



Grim43510 -> RE: want a dom (12/22/2005 4:55:50 AM)

if evry girl wasn't a challenge is some way shape or form they wouldn't be subs all girls would just be slaves. Anyways a challenge is always good for sharpening one's skills. *smiles* oh and i am avilable *winks*[:D]



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