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RainydayNE -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 2:33:38 AM)
he does it i'd feel strange asking all the time SOMETIMES i'll ask for a particular activity, but if and when he does it is up to him it's a "use at your leisure" thing that makes me happy =p

DesFIP -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 5:31:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorJeep Not having any kids yet, I have often wondered how this gets handled. How does one have a more or less elaborate scene in these cases? The younger ones go to bed early so you would play later. We've got teens who stay up later than us so we play early. But being in our 50s we aren't up for a 12 hour scene with no rest, water, food, bathroom breaks either. However if we were planning a kidnap scene, we'd simply tell them that we needed a night off and they should all plan to sleep over at a friend's house on Saturday.

oceanwynds -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 8:30:09 AM)
Sir initiates the sessions, though i am permitted to request one. Requesting one though doesn't mean he will provide, it is always his choice. I have also learned very early in our relationship to not try to force one, or seek punishment. oceanwynds

MsFlutter -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 8:56:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorJeep You will also find that your subs have a way of getting sassy to force your hand ... DocJeep speaks truth. Reminded me of something I heard years ago..' misbehaving is one way a submissive asks for interaction'

MsFlutter -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 8:59:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster ...I ask this because since many employ toys & accessories for their play it would seem that people would need to plan free time to haul out their gear, ..... You aren't kidding about hauling out the gear! This would be why my toybox has a handle and wheels ;)

sobayblackmaster -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 4:26:25 PM)
now that's funny! roflmao!!!!!

ODadEO -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 4:38:57 PM)
I initiate things here, but sometimes we 'plan' them some time in advance, so by the time it gets here, we both kind of respond to the date, if that makes sense. As for equipment, I only have a few things I've built and none too hard to bring out, but I wish I had a place for a dungeon!! EG But I DO have plans in that regard ;)

kyraofMists -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 5:20:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorJeep You will also find that your subs have a way of getting sassy to force your hand ... DocJeep speaks truth. Reminded me of something I heard years ago..' misbehaving is one way a submissive asks for interaction' Fortunately for our house, not all submissives behave this way. Intentionally misbehaving (which is willful disobedience) will earn me the door and not play. Poor behavior that is unintentional and a result of not maintaining my thoughts and emotions, will get rather harsh treatment and none of it playful or fun. Often it is being ignored until I get my head on straight. If I want play, the best way to get it is to ask for it. Knight's Kyra

alandraofMists -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 6:06:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorJeep Not having any kids yet, I have often wondered how this gets handled. How does one have a more or less elaborate scene in these cases? The younger ones go to bed early so you would play later. We've got teens who stay up later than us so we play early. But being in our 50s we aren't up for a 12 hour scene with no rest, water, food, bathroom breaks either. However if we were planning a kidnap scene, we'd simply tell them that we needed a night off and they should all plan to sleep over at a friend's house on Saturday. with several um's it comes down to playing when they are asleep or busy doing other stuff... mind you with a semi sound proof dungeon in the House and um's raised with background noise as a normal thing... play can occur at any time as well as long as it is not too intense. The really intense scenes usually have more planning with um's out of the house or happening out at events. Knight's Alandra

oceanwynds -> RE: initiaing "sessions" (11/19/2008 6:28:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorJeep You will also find that your subs have a way of getting sassy to force your hand ... DocJeep speaks truth. Reminded me of something I heard years ago..' misbehaving is one way a submissive asks for interaction' Fortunately for our house, not all submissives behave this way. Intentionally misbehaving (which is willful disobedience) will earn me the door and not play. Poor behavior that is unintentional and a result of not maintaining my thoughts and emotions, will get rather harsh treatment and none of it playful or fun. Often it is being ignored until I get my head on straight. If I want play, the best way to get it is to ask for it. Knight's Kyra Same with Sir , Kryra Sir is not interested in brattiness, and that is one thing I don't have within me. oceanwynds

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