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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:31:17 AM   
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Waking up and finding my father has found me (and I am 55 damned years old...sigh) the last time I saw him he tried to revisit the past and I barracaded myself in a room.

What is your very favorite HOUR of the day...

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:42:08 AM   
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The first hour I am awake. If I am living with someone, an hour before they wake up ... I love the peace and quiet of the early morning. It totally sets me up for the rest of my day.

What should I name my kittens? (one boy buff/red siamese, one girl black w/ white patch on her throat)

I am having a hard time coming up with good names and am totally shameless about it.


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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:46:41 AM   
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eri start a name the kittens post.

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:46:43 AM   
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Hmmm Firedance and Samba? Morticia and Gomez are my favorites though.

How out are you to friends and family?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:50:58 AM   
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Dnomyar, maybe I will.

I kinda liked poenkitten's suggestions though.

My Mom knows because one of my sisters found a website with my pic on it. -ahem- So Mom and one of my sisters are aware. The rest; we have this don't ask, don't tell thing going on. I don't ask if they know and I don't tell them anything at all. As far as they are concerned, I am a nun and who would never dream of such naughty things.

Most of my friends are kinkier than I am and love to make me blush with tales of their own wild adventures so as far as they are concerned, I am a nun who only dreams of such naughty things.

What is a skill/talent you do have but wish you did not?



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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:55:21 AM   
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Whew that is a nasty one..but..

The ability to switch personalities/alters depending on what is going on or happening to me. I can go away and never know what happened. Learned way too early in life that it was the best way to cope with things.

If someone gave you 5 million dollars today and said you had to spend it ALL within a week, what would you do with it?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 9:57:51 AM   
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That is fascinating, poenkitten! (Though I can see how it would be difficult.)

(Sorry, I dunno what I'd do with the money so I will leave the question for someone else.)


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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:10:54 AM   
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take care of all my cherished ones .. getting them houses,pay off bills,school loans etc... take care of my family to insure they need nothing from a home of their own ,reliable cars and the ability to do whatever it really is they dream of  ... on a selfish note repair my home that the ice storm damaged to the point that made it not liveable .. er better yet flatten it and rebuild.. then get a home in this town as well for the boys who love to have pizza delivered,...I know doesn't sounds like much but the majority would be spent on all the needs and getting mine all taken care of ..and why .. well I would love for all of mine and family to not have to worry to learn how to live life to the fullest without concerns or hinders such as nonreliable cars .. or concerns about where to live etc....taking care of those needs would allow them to move forward and grow in ways they and I cannot even imagine at this point ...
hmmmm
 what is your favorite color of jelly bean and why ?
 
 

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:15:34 AM   
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good grief. there are so many colors and flavor ones. I like them all but I will go with pink for watermellon.

what is your favorite kind of fried potatoes.

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:18:08 AM   
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pan fried with a bit of spice .. just like Oma used to make ....
far from healthy but darn tastey .... (darn it I am really hungery now)
 
What is your soap of choice and why ?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:20:10 AM   
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Castile because it lathers up great.

what is your favorite perfume and why


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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:25:50 AM   
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depends on the time of year... during spring and summer love rose water or liz claiborne ( the one in the triangle) if fall and winter love patchouli  the spring and summer I love the lighter flowery scent though during the cooler months the heaviness offered by the oil is wonderful
 
You favorite thing to wear is what... and why ?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:29:26 AM   
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2 sweaters my daughter gave me. One with Green Bay Packers  on it and the other with Wisconsin on it which Im wearing now. Why. Because it is cold out right now and they are warm to wear.

what do you wear to bed and why.

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 10:31:23 AM   
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My birthday suit...largely self mending, mostly waterproof and cheap to clean...if I have to go out though long flowing skirts and low cut blouses...

Ame answer to Dnomyar... It's all me jammies always end up snagging and twisting when I sleep and waking me up.

Who is your all time favorite Actress/Actor?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 12:58:23 PM   
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MaeWest/James Dean ~drools thinking of them when they were alive n kicking~
they were beautiful people in their own right and it came through on film ....
 
when was the last time you reached orgasm and ...why has it been that long ?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 1:13:34 PM   
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Wednesday evening before Master took me to the local dungeon to play. We were laying in bed, with me only partially dressed, just talking and the talk took a turn to the dark and I got a bit worked up, so Master gave me permission. He didn't allow another one that night (although, after, at home, it may have been my fault, as I was so tired and He wanted me to have some sleep- had to work the next day).
 
I get to see Him tomorrow night, so I'm hoping for more .
 
 
How old were you when you first had sexual fantasies involving power exchange?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 1:21:35 PM   
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okay this is where it gets weird I always had dreams of being in charge ....it wasn't untill I met the one who brought me into this lifestyle that I realized it was okay to have such thoughts and that there was another side of the coin ( sometimes the most obvious are what took me a bit to learn )... meaning for one to be in control ..one or more need to give up their control in trustthat such wonderful things could happen in sexual play ..talk about a wonderful eye opener so that would be shortly after my 17the birthday .....
 
The first time you explored this lifestyle what was the most wonderful thing about your partner .....and why ?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 1:34:35 PM   
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After dating for about a month, he showed me his dungeon- all the tables, benches, toys, etc. He then took me back to the living room, placed a glass of wine in my hand and let me think about it. He thought he had gone too far, been too honest and freaked me out, but the only thought in my head at his offer to introduce this to me was, "Everything happens for a reason." He showed patience, was an excellent teacher and was a completely natural dominant. My introduction to my own submission was a totally positive experience.
 
What is the worst book you ever read? And Why?


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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 5:09:25 PM   
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Hmmm worst book I have ever read...I am soo gonna get blasted for this answer but the Sleeping Beauty Books by Anne Rich writing as A. N. Roquelaur, they along with Exit to Eden and the Gor series by John Norman have done more damage to BDSM than I care to think about. So many submissive women and men have bought into the crap written in there and the near instant recovery times and when they hit reality it has caused some hellacious problems for those who know you don't get hit with a whip and NOT get hurt. They titillate but don't educate and the education is costly.  No...I am not against Gorean households, I am against people who forget the reality behind them is not the science fiction kneel for hours, leap up and serve perfectly, grab any woman and make her a slave. Those who work reality with the ideals of that life choice are a lot smarter than the ones who read and think..ok grab susie, she's a slave inside even if she doesn't think she is.

How many of your vanilla friends do you think would be happier if they gave into their submissive or dominant sides?

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RE: ....and WHY ..... - 11/21/2008 6:00:15 PM   
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How many of your vanilla friends do you think would be happier if they gave into their submissive or dominant sides?

poenkitten



Friends, smends. My older sister has been begging for a Dom all her life! If only she knew what one was! She constantly seeks male attention and acts out to see what she can get away with. And she is a nationally renown surgeon!
 
I described her, and my impressions about her needing a dom to Master before He met her and He said I nailed it to a 'T'. She would be so much saner and nicer if under a strong hand.
 
Have you ever been lost? How and Why?

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