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Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 3:04:45 AM

Morgaine289

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I would like to thank all the participants of this forum. For me and my man is was a incredible hard year. We fight against his cancer. The prospects are 50/50, but actually all was is possibly has been done and he is at the moment cancerfree. We even have a Sex/SM life again.

We even think, that being Sm practioner is helping us in this situation, because not only our Sex life has a lot of facets, as our love has. In fact our love brought us through this time and this decision to fight and go through that together. We let never a day go by without touching, kissing and let the other feel that we love him/her.

That i had the possibility to read here and particpate. When i came home from the hospital i logged on/in and read. I went through a lot of emotions. I felt not alone and i felt still as part of the BSDM community, although i had not the possibility to went to the munches and meetings. I even had often not the energy to phone or meet some of our friends, because i needed my energy for Michael. So this was home, a kind of mental or intellectual home for me and it helped immensely.

So, although i am not a christmas person , i wish all a good Christmas and great way into the new year. The sun has turned yesterday, so the days will be getting longer.

Ruth

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 3:49:49 AM

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Blessings on your holiday, Morgaine, and on your challenges, and on your joys.

May you and Michael find this year as insightful and as full of opportunities to love as the past year has been.

Lady Zephyr

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 6:25:21 AM

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I raise a glass of champagne to health, happiness, love and wickedness---<smiles>, and a marvelous 2006 and beyond--

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 6:32:11 AM

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Morgaine I hope you and your man continue to fight the good fight and that your love grows stronger each day.

Happy Holidays (because there are actually several this time of year and I won't presume which one(s) you celebrate or not).

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 6:33:39 AM

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Our prayer and hopes are with you. May the blessings of the New Year find and hold to you.
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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 8:01:59 AM

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Hi Ruth,

We hope that you and Michael enjoy a prosperous and happy New Year together. Love is many things and the two of you know true love. The support and caring go way beyond sex, lifestyle or home. It is the support of two kindred souls that know and care deeply for each other. There is no greater gift than sharing your heart and soul with one special person.

Oscar and Kari

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 9:07:29 AM

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I am very moved by all of your replies and the good wishes, many thanks to all of you. I did not thought about the possible answers before. My first intention was really to thank you all for the possibility to let me share your lives, your ups and downs, insights, fights....

I am not a private person myself normally and due to that i know that sharing one*s life, even in an more or less anonymous internet situation needs courage.

Oh, i forgot one thing love and humour brought us through. One of Michaels first yokes was:
"Tumour is when you nonetheless laughs". This is a bastardisation of the german saying: Humour is when you laugh nonetheless.

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 10:43:26 AM

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i do not know YOU or this michael...

but i DO know........if i ever say anything to help..at any time........i am happy to do all i can.
i was told a long time ago.......this is SUPPOSED TO BE a caring lifestyle.......

and even though we are strangers........

I CARE!

happy holidays

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 11:33:02 AM

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From our dysfunctional family to yours...happy holidays!

Our prayers and hopes, really are with you and I'm sure 06 will bring prosperity to you both!

Peace, Kevin

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 2:06:03 PM

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The prospects are 50/50, but actually all was is possibly has been done and he is at the moment cancerfree. We even have a Sex/SM life again.

Sounds like you are on the mend. Mind over matter. Many times mind wins out. You have the right attitude. We will pray for you as well.
I wish you the absolute best holiday wishes there are. Just being alive in itself is enough at times.

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RE: Thank you for being there in a very hard year - 12/22/2005 11:39:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

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Just being alive in itself is enough at times.

Again i am very touched by your words, thank you all. I only singled sub4hire*s post out, because this sentence is regardless of cancer the motto i live my life by. As long as the sun will rise the next day, i travel through the darkest night.

It was important for me to let you know what an immense important place this message board was for me. In my case All means actually All participants, because speaking about tolerance and praticing it are two very different animals. I am so very bored by people who talk or write about their good intentions or deeds, but never show them. And this is the same topic, living in compartments. The BDSM compartment, the working compartment, the family compartment. As i am a firm believer in "Secrets are binding energy", a 25 year old sentence of mine, i am also a firm believer in living one life/being one person/having one persona. By this I mean not, that everybody has to come out or somthing like that, but do not split yourself. It always catches up.

I still hope for less violence and less supressed living conditions in the whole world. And this starts in all you our hearts and souls, and the decisions concerning our behaviour we make every day.

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