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Paying Tribute - 12/22/2005 7:40:46 AM

NawtyDevil

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Exactly was is to be considered a tribute? I have heard conflicting definitions. Some say it's money others say it's a written or spoken article of admiration and devotion. I'm new to this community and so far I think it's outstanding in all ways. I'm fairly new to the lifestyle so I still consider myself a newbie and I'm always learning. Thank you for your input.

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/22/2005 7:50:16 AM

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Check out the SEARCH function, which is at the top of the forums page----you will find more threads about tribute than you can shake a ten-spot at!

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/22/2005 7:54:23 AM

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Hello, and happy holidays! In my professional opinion tribute is just another word for payment for services. Some Domina's are just plain greedy, some are actual professionals in other fields of service such as Psychotherapists, and Mentors of other areas. I consider myself as professional as a therapist in any field because I work hard at helping people find freedom of repression. It is work, and it is fulfilling. Some people shun ProDommes because they feel like they shouldn't have to pay for the "fun". I feel it's more rewarding, and ethical to pay because it seperates the Pros from the prostitutes. I am a Pro as well as a Lifestyle Domina with experience that is so valuable to anyone willing to have an open mind to the benefits of freedom from repression of fantasy to reality. I never cross the line outside professionality because I value the help that I have witnessed in people.

I hope A/all have a safe and joyous holiday season.

Be in peace,
Dame D.

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/22/2005 9:03:51 AM

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to me a rtibute should be givin in the loyaty to the domme but if a person says if you want to have a relation ship you have to give me full control of your money

you do not have to have control of a persons finances to dominate them

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/22/2005 9:50:42 AM

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you do not have to have control of a persons finances to dominate them
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and that IS true...sure!
but in a 24/7 live in...
Mistress has access to my account.

take care

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/23/2005 11:41:59 AM

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Thanks for the input. But shouldn't a Mistress and her sub see if they are compatable with each other before a tribute is paid? After all not everyone is a fit. I wonder how much this advice will cost me.......

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/23/2005 7:00:21 PM

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quote:

Thanks for the input. But shouldn't a Mistress and her sub see if they are compatable with each other before a tribute is paid? After all not everyone is a fit. I wonder how much this advice will cost me.......

This advice will cost you nothing.
Read the other threads about tribute. Click on search and find a lot of info on this.
Don't give money to strangers simply so they will allow you to speak with them. Be a decent human being (if that is what you are and what you hope to attract), and you will run into the right person for you at some point (or at least that is what the folks with more experience tell me

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_228076/tm.htm
http://www.collarchat.com/m_215576/tm.htm
There is a lot more, because money makes everybody itchy and uncomfortable. M

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RE: Paying Tribute - 12/24/2005 11:35:50 AM

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I am a lifestyle Domme and do not accept cash per se for "services rendered", however I do expect my partners to absorb any expenses incurred in a meeting: dinner, drinks, lodging, toys, travel expenses, etc. Tributes, I think, are the little niceties that a partner does for his Dominant: flowers, lingerie, perfume, whatever She expresses an interest in.

As for Financial Domination, I think that many males are defined by their financial status and therefore to give up control of that would be the ultimate submission. As with anything else, Trust is the key factor. If you are sure that your Dominant will take your bank account or your mind, body, soul and use it for the betterment of the relationship, then there is nothing better! your financial situation does not make you a submissive. It is your mindset and your desire to learn what makes your Dominant happy and your willingness to serve.......your absolute surrender that makes you a submissive/slave.

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