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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/23/2005 10:34:52 AM

JohnWarren

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ORIGINAL: RobbieNJ

Thanks for all the great replys, but munches aren't at all what I'm looking for. I've been to a few clubs and things in NYC, and its about as real as Disneyland, but much weirder, and some really scarey and dangerous people. That's not at all what I'm looking for.

But what are the odds that one of these people knows some others who are what you are looking for and don't attend that particular munch? If you don't get to know the primaries you won't get to know the secondaries.

Just this week I met a lovely woman. She doesn't go to events and she has only one online contact, but she was telling this woman her fantasy and bemoaning that she'll never find anyone who was into it. Second woman, says "I know just the couple and gives her my number." She is really enjoying the weekend.

Now think if this woman had thought "why should I talk to this woman? She's submissive and monogamous and my scene needs a dominant man and a dominant woman. She wouldn't have met Libby and me.

Your perfect match may be out there but you need to work a bit.

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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/23/2005 9:25:04 PM

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She wouldn't have met Libby and me.

Don't kid yourself, Mr. Warren. You ARE one of the weird, scary people the poster is referring to. ;)

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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/23/2005 9:40:33 PM

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How do you meet true D/s friends in real life; the only interesting online people are just too far away?

Ummm.... After getting to know them with extensive conversation. Upon mutual agreement. Set-up a date, time, and place. That is practical for both of you in a first meet. .... ?!?!?

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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/24/2005 1:01:09 AM

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She wouldn't have met Libby and me.

Don't kid yourself, Mr. Warren. You ARE one of the weird, scary people the poster is referring to. ;)

[grin] But I'm just a nice, cuddly Santa Claus type... with a big bag of toys.

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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/24/2005 1:04:58 AM

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sure you are.....
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RE: Meeting in r/l - 12/24/2005 3:26:53 AM

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Thanks for all the great replys, but munches aren't at all what I'm looking for. I've been to a few clubs and things in NYC, and its about as real as Disneyland, but much weirder, and some really scarey and dangerous people. That's not at all what I'm looking for.
The people I'm looking for live "Secretary" not watch it.
I've met a bunch of really great people though this one older woman, but she moved in one direction and I moved in a different direction, and now I'm nowhere close to anyone. They could somehow meet people in stores, at work, on the street, whatever, and I just can't seem to do that.

RobbieNJ

Sir, i have the same problem, having moved up to Cleveland to be near my brother & his family. Nothing turned out as expected, and i feel somewhat isolated here. The usual routes; politics, volunteer work, the library, and church have all yielded little or nothing. So i am not the answer lady; but i think You just have to keep joining things till You meet people.

As for meeting kinky peple, many folks on here list their city; and even ones who only list their state, You could contact. If You're only looking for a coffee buddy it doesn't much matter what the person's orientation is.

i wish You a wonderful '06.

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