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came4U -> 3 Questions (11/23/2008 9:33:29 AM)
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I was thinking about another thread in the Mistress section...something about why some men try to tell a Mistress that they could Dom her ...someone commented that it happens with lesbians too, men that claim they could make her 'straight'.
On that line of thought, did anyone else ever date someone (or potentially date) that discovers you are into this bdms thang and want to be a submissive and they claim they can covert you...fix you, make you 'normal' again? lol
My second question is....why does it seem the odds are high that supposed dominant men's profiles (possibly subs too, no clue) are here assuming submissives likely are easier prey for a piece of a$$ if one can fake the dominant act long enough to meet them? (or same for a submissive thinking 'if I can just act submissive long enough to get a bf' mentality")?
which leads me to the .......third question:
How do you feel when you find out through discussion that a D or s has also been keeping 'nilla' dating profiles active to find someone also? Does that not tell you that they are not deep into bdsm and they would settle for a vanilla or bdsm (whichever came first) relationship? Does that turn you off, as it does me? What is wrong with that picture?
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