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whisperkitty -> hello A/all (12/23/2005 1:48:32 AM)
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I came here hoping to find some answers about bdsm. I was curious, so I surfed the web. I am a college student, with a full time job in law enforcement, so this would have to be kept discrete. I would also like to meet someone in the Gainesville, FL area.
I do have lots of questions. I think I lean towards the sub side, in fact I know I do. I worry that if I submit completely sex will become solely about
pleasing the Dom... As much as I do enjoy making my partner wriggle with pleasure, I also need to be pleasured.
In real life, I am very much a leader, so in bed I like to be controlled. There is nothing better than a man in mid stroke yanking me down further on the bed, flipping me over, giving my ass a nice little smack, and taking it doggie style. Don't ask me, just do it.
I also like a little bondage, though I have not had a lot of experience with it. I have been handcuffed, and I have handcuffed my partner. I would love to be
tied down completely and teased till I could not take it anymore. I would set the limit that the Dom could not leave me there. I have used silk scarves a
little on my hands, but have never had my legs tied down.
I like to be spanked, and I also like to smack my partners ass when he is on top. Is this allowed? I bite, scratch, smack, and pull hair, not to the
point of bad pain, but enough to feel it. Oh, I love having my hair pulled. I have really long blonde hair.
I guess I am looking for more than just a sex thing though. I want to trust the person I am doing this with, I want to be able to have him around my friends,
even the Law enforcement ones, and no one know, have it be our dirty little secret.
I guess the only real limits I have are anal, in that IF it were to occur, it would have to be worked up to, and really slow, I don't mind a finger or a tongue at all, but have had bad experiences with anal. Leaving me tied down (and actually leaving,) and keeping it a secret. I am also not interested in scat play or watersports.
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