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SimplyMichael -> RE: any suggestions as to where i could learn? (11/24/2008 7:04:32 AM)
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ORIGINAL: silvergirl1
Hello,
The Rules, The Protocols, The Postures that it seems most Doms/Sirs/Masters want and need and expect from one such as myself...
My question is,, how do I learn these things?... I believe there is general "manners" etc? ones that nearly every sub/slave knows?
I would like to improve myself, learn the basic "manners" of a sub, but i dont want to have to get involved with a Dom to do that
I agree with everyone above but nodody explained why "we" all believe that. Sounds like you are meeting dominants in chat rooms and those that text you through your profile. Telling you that you don't "know enough" or "aren't well trained" is a fucked up seduction tactic designed, as your post clearly demonstrates, to put you on the defensive and make you believe those emailing you are more experienced than you are, neither of which is true.
The reality (broadly defined as how many in the real scene and private players who actually have partners who stick around for a few years) is that each of us crafts our own rules, we may have things in common, most of play with some form of kneeling for example but even there, many don't. So, in short, I might have a vastly complicated list of rules and behaviors I expect but I, in essence, pulled them out of thin air. Someone else may have none. As long as they work for two people, its all good.
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