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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Icarys ive seen these games and ususally they end up with one or more girls needing to go to the hosptial. Mostly because in many cases like with myself i simply care so much about pleasing my sir i push myself way to far. In every case of such games ive needed multiple stitches, as have many of the competition.

Its nothing about being fragile, its about you IDIOTS, not realizing your not makeing a game
your fucking with peoples mentalilites, And in turn messing not only with them phyically but emotionally and mentally.

I live for the postive affection of a good girl or job well done. I know many people in the life who are the same way. Setting me up to get my self harmed just doesnt sound all that fun and entertaining. Because i literally shut off all the you cant do this until i get told i was a good girl.

Where adults are involved, I've never heard of anything bad happening. What if it was a game of cards..since he hasn't declared what type of games I think it's pretty stupid for you and others to assume the worst.

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Icarys ive seen these games and ususally they end up with one or more girls needing to go to the hosptial. Mostly because in many cases like with myself i simply care so much about pleasing my sir i push myself way to far. In every case of such games ive needed multiple stitches, as have many of the competition.

Its nothing about being fragile, its about you IDIOTS, not realizing your not makeing a game
your fucking with peoples mentalilites, And in turn messing not only with them phyically but emotionally and mentally.

I live for the postive affection of a good girl or job well done. I know many people in the life who are the same way. Setting me up to get my self harmed just doesnt sound all that fun and entertaining. Because i literally shut off all the you cant do this until i get told i was a good girl.

Where adults are involved, I've never heard of anything bad happening. What if it was a game of cards..since he hasn't declared what type of games I think it's pretty stupid for you and others to assume the worst.

Yeah A game of cards would be amusing for you to watch, i mean if you wanted that you could just turn on tv.

The thing your missing here is it DOESNT MATTER WHAT KIND OF GAME IT IS. In the end with 95% of submissives its going to be messing with them in a bad way either emtionally mentially or physically. Hence why us WOMENS and SUBS Are saying THIS IS A VERY BAD IDEA!!!!!

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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

Okay, Icarys Do you not understand the mentaility of some subs or slaves? I mean have you ever been one by your responses im going to assume you havent.

I literly live and breath by my owner saying im a good girl when in a commited relationship. Friendly game or no, in my head it comes across as I need to win for everyone to realize how good of a girl i am, and to please my partner. So if i loose even if my partner says im a good girl its not going to matter because to me... Im not.. I didnt do my best to please my partner because I didnt win. He can pet and love on me all he wants but im going to see that glimmer in his eye that hes ever so slightly minutely disappointed i didnt win. because i know my partner. I know he strives for me to be the best. Even at a silly friendly game of cards. Sure i might need help but ya know what i think i serve fine just the way i am. And my partner understands and realizes my mentality and my triggers.

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ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

And some might not.  I agree with hopeless that it seems the majority of subs tend to think this is not a very good idea.  So they shouldn't do it.  If your sub and the subs of your dom friends want to...have at it.

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ORIGINAL: Master1170

Does anyone has good ideas or expiriences for a "slave competition"? For example which slave can support the most weights hanging from clamps on their nipples.

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Pole Vault?

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Pole Vault?

Who is going to be supplying the pole? I mean, I might be interested, but it depends.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Allow me to be a balancer here- with the right people, personalities and perspectives, fun competitive games can be a great time.  At Leather Retreat they have games every year.  Things like seeing how many clothespins you can put on one person in a minute.  But this is totally voluntary, everyone gets into it with the spirit of just having a good time, there's no real prize for the winner except bragging rights.  Heck at the end of the event they give out awards like Camp Slut which is a highly sought after honor.

The issue with couples is that the sub really isn't volunteering and there can be a much more dense atmosphere of performing and being the best amongst friends- you aren't at some resort vacation, you aren't as relaxed, these are ongoing social relationships. 

So it would be wrong to say that it can't work and no one should try.  But it's a tenuous thing that unfortunately the types of doms who enjoy competitions are the LEAST likely to really understand a subs headspace or inter-relations between subs on the damage that can actually cause.

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

There is a lot of emphasis on submissive insecurities and strong negative feelings toward competition between s-types, but have you ever really watched dominants interact?  Especially male dominants?  I don't think it is representative of roles, so much as human nature.  Let's face it.  There are some people you enjoy getting together to play competitive sports or games with, and those you would rather operate on yourself with a dinnerfork, than endure a night of gaming with them. 

I don't see any reason why some good hearted, fun and games, shouldn't or couldn't take place with those comfortable enough to participate without it becoming a downward spiraling vortex into emotional angst.  I seriously don't think that losing at 'pole vaulting' would cause me to question my value - although coming in last at cock-sucking would pretty much assure I'd be seeking a lot more practice to improve my game.

If I ever take myself so seriously, that I can't enjoy being the goofball I know myself to be, then its pretty much time to sit the bench.  Sprawled naked over it, would be even better.

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  Does anyone has good ideas or expiriences for a "slave competition"? For example which slave can support the most weights hanging from clamps on their nipples.