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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/29/2008 2:31:23 AM

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Lots of finger play and lube, and make him relax, above all make him go the little room and shower first, and for goodness sake, go easy! If the end of it comes out of his mouth, your doing it wrong! LadyLove

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/29/2008 6:36:32 AM

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What does a male sub need to do to be prepared for his Femdom Wife strap-on? When should this done?

ENEMA administered by the lady

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/29/2008 7:22:35 AM

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MistressRouge,

That sure sounds Scary

. i have never had an ENEMA although have heard many stories of submissives having them .

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/29/2008 10:32:14 AM

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Enema play is way fun. My former slave had one of those gizmos attached to the shower head... LOL! Start slowly, bratb, there's a whole range of enemas, not everything is a high colonic.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/29/2008 1:16:22 PM

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speaking of colonic did anyone ever have a colonic enema

those are truly awesome for those that want to get really cleaned out

usually lasts a hour ...you are hooked up in a room to a machine with a tube that goes up your butt about 5 in in length ..then she starts the machine up and your constantly being filled up and flushed out until the water is pretty clear ..the lady monitors the warmth of the water and how your doing and feeling and after your done boy do you feel good i must say

and very clean too ..toward the end she puts in some minerals to the water to get your balance back in shape but a colonic can be fun to do i must say

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 5:52:37 AM

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speaking of colonic did anyone ever have a colonic enema those are truly awesome for those that want to get really cleaneolod out usually lasts a hour ...you are hooked up in a room to a machine with a tube that goes up your butt about 5 in in length ..then she starts the machine up and your constantly being filled up and flushed out until the water is pretty clear ..the lady monitors the warmth of the water and how your doing and feeling and after your done boy do you feel good i must say and very clean too ..toward the end she puts in some minerals to the water to get your balance back in shape but a colonic can be fun to do i must say have fun mal

I do actually mal

, I have a colonic irrigation every 3 months, great not only for the colon, skin, stress/wellbeing, hair and all bodily functions in tip top shape

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 6:20:53 AM

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I'd be careful with that, Mistress R. Sounds as though it could be fattening.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 6:43:24 AM

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I should have a high colonic after eating all that FOOD for Thanksgiving and my birthday. Yeesh! *eye roll*

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 10:36:17 AM

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for 60 bucks for a hour in the detroit area i think its well worth it

and you do feel a lot better afterwards too being really cleaned out after too

with the warm water there is no cramping at all at least for me there isnt ..love being clean for my mistress when its playtime

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 10:59:25 AM

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there is no cramping at all . . . .

What? Is cramping common after an enema? That's going to put the kybosh on amorous activities. Can't say I like the sound of that.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 12:29:14 PM

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Yep... and a little soap in the water ads to the cramps. Some like it that way.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 1:40:09 PM

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Yep... and a little soap in the water ads to the cramps. Some like it that way.

Really? So, presumably, the cramps aren't too bad then. Or are you pulling the plonker of this poor innocent yet again, Ms S?

Ah well, all this falls comfortably into the category of "bridge to be crossed when arrived at" for me. No sense in doing your homework till the night before the essay deadline, as I've always said.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 1:55:19 PM

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The cramping with enemas depends on the person. If you are Me, for instance, the pain is exceptionally bad. Some folks have no problems at all---and in my observation, men have less trouble. A small, plain, body temp water enema should be no big deal. The Fleet ones that you can buy readymade are really all a person would need for a pre-play cleanout.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 1:57:26 PM

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The cramping with enemas depends on the person. If you are Me, for instance, the pain is exceptionally bad. Some folks have no problems at all---and in my observation, men have less trouble. A small, plain, body temp water enema should be no big deal. The Fleet ones that you can buy readymade are really all a person would need for a pre-play cleanout.

Noted. Thanks, Lady Hib. Come the time, I'll contact Mr Fleet.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 2:51:38 PM

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i have my own 2 qt water douche bag ...dont like the fleet kind ..never thought they got me clean enough and i love being clean for her

cramping for me only happens when i use colder water or put in some kind of soap ...plain mildly warm water is what i use the most and i have no problems at all

even better i think when the lady gives the enema too ..kinda sets the stage for submitting to her i think early on ...but most times im clean for my lady once she walks in the door because thats how she likes to see me

clean inside as well as outside ..smelling good ..and naked of course

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 3:05:26 PM

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Thanks Mal. I'll look at the various options come the day. Or close to it, say.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 5:27:51 PM

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What's "yakkiness", Peon?

I see I'm going to have to buy myself a US English/Proper English translator's dictionary at some point. I think "yakkiness" translates to "ickyness", Lady Hib.

People over-estimate such things, imo. I also think, for any sort of anal play, realizing that it does serve another function and being pragmatic about it helps. Don't let that hold you back. Basic hygiene and, oh, a former boyfriend had a bidet installed in their house, so enamoured of anal play was he: if you've got bidet access, all the better. :>
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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 5:49:14 PM

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Oh no, DK. I wouldn't let such matters get in the way. I'd just want to 'minimise the unpleasantness' - not to put too fine a point on it. I see what you mean about being 'pragmatic'.

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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 5:58:48 PM

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Not to be crass but even the most diligent of persons, if indulging in anal play, is going to have a rustic experience at some point or another.
I noticed you're in the UK, so you may well have ready bidet access. Fingers, soap, and that lovely upward bidet trajectory are magical for cleaning.
I know people who use enemas; perosnal preference. Haven't ever, haven't ever had a partner either.
Had a colonic once. I was unimpressed as was my bf (Who was the one with the spiffy bidet).
Lay back or bend over or lay on your side or whatever your Lady prefers, and enjoy; it really is a wonderful thing! :>
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RE: Strap-On Prep - 11/30/2008 7:22:40 PM

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rustic experience - an admirable turn of phrase, Davan.

I think you're a couple of hundred miles out regarding the prevalence of bidets, however. They're widespread in France and Spain, so I hear, but not in the UK. I'm sure I can rustle up the imagination to improvise, though.

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