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sweetpettjenny -> when you know its right (12/24/2005 12:55:45 PM)

i feel so lucky today more than any other. i met my dominant over a month and a half ago , and i know He is "the one" for many reasons. I know there have been other posts on "the right one", but i was just sitting here thinking if nothing else goes right in my life i am lucky enough to have a great Master in my life who i am falling head over heals for.




sub4hire -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 1:33:32 PM)

Congratulations Jenny I searched for the right person for me for 5 year’s before I met Doug. Some I talked to for year’s prior to knowing if they were the right one for me or not. Doug, I knew within a 3 month time span.
It’s great to have someone to grow old with isn’t it?




fyreredsub -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 1:34:36 PM)

seems we be in the same boat....here's to smooth sailing[:)]




foxglove716 -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 1:42:34 PM)

yay! It seems like cupid has come early for a lot of us this year. Best of luck to you both! ^_^




fyreredsub -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 1:55:18 PM)

lol @ cupid, never thought of it that way,good luck to you too girl

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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

yay! It seems like cupid has come early for a lot of us this year. Best of luck to you both! ^_^





phoenixslave -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 3:14:22 PM)

hmmmmmm, love comes at the end of a pointy projectile....gotta love cupid. Congrats Jenny.




OscarHargraves -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 7:11:25 PM)

Congratulations and good luck ! ! Sounds like one heck of a Christmas present.......




Mylee -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 7:54:57 PM)

Yaaay Congratulations ! It's a wonderfull Christmas gift !




LaDee -> RE: when you know its right (12/24/2005 8:00:30 PM)

Congratulations!

Good luck too you and your Master. Happy Holidays!

La'Dee




sweetpettjenny -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 5:53:02 AM)

Best of luck to you all as well!!!




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 6:21:09 AM)

I think there's a large distinction between "knowing" something is right and "feeling" something is right.

There's also a differerence between knowing something is right "for now" and knowing it's right "forever."

We have such a need to make things permanent, to feel it's a failure if it ends before death. I see relationships as very different- I see them as organic creations between at least two people at a time. And as an organic thing, it grows, it matures, it changes, and sometimes ends naturally.

THat's not meant to be cynical or defeatist, in fact I find a deep sense of joy from it.




Shayna -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 9:25:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think there's a large distinction between "knowing" something is right and "feeling" something is right.

There's also a differerence between knowing something is right "for now" and knowing it's right "forever."

We have such a need to make things permanent, to feel it's a failure if it ends before death. I see relationships as very different- I see them as organic creations between at least two people at a time. And as an organic thing, it grows, it matures, it changes, and sometimes ends naturally.

THat's not meant to be cynical or defeatist, in fact I find a deep sense of joy from it.



*Cheers* to all the new loves!

LA, at this point in my life (49 y.o.) I can say that I completely agree with you. I wish I had felt that way when I was in my 20's. It would have saved me a lot of angst and stress. But I had to go through the experiences of my adult life in order to get to a much more peaceful place and a deeper understanding of what being intimate looks like for me.




wolffeathers -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 10:01:39 AM)

Congrats to everyone.

Hopefully it is all Cupid, and not Venus.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 12:24:01 PM)

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Hopefully it is all Cupid, and not Venus.
Unfortunately, I know exactly what you mean.
I wish sweetpettjenny continued happiness/joy/fun. M




candystripper -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 1:00:18 PM)

Best Wishes, sweetpetjenny.

If you reach the point of considering relocation or cohabitation, please take a breath and get a background check. Just to protect yourself. If i can ever help, email me on the other side.

candystripper




Rayleene4 -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 1:32:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

i feel so lucky today more than any other. i met my dominant over a month and a half ago , and i know He is "the one" for many reasons. I know there have been other posts on "the right one", but i was just sitting here thinking if nothing else goes right in my life i am lucky enough to have a great Master in my life who i am falling head over heals for.


Congratulations! I know how you feel, girl. I received my Masters collar 3 days ago. Feels good to belong.




fyreredsub -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 6:37:27 PM)

i see a good deal of sense LA,in this ecspecially when one is still new. i may change owners several times along my journey into finding what exactly it is that is right for me. right now where i am at works and i am committed to Master(maybe i'm more committed to training ,to learn how to serve, who knows) maybe i will seek new challenges to learn.there is so much about myself i have yet to discover.shudders at thought of having to beg release one day.Master has been around the block(and can teach me alot) but one never does know whats ahead.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think there's a large distinction between "knowing" something is right and "feeling" something is right.

There's also a differerence between knowing something is right "for now" and knowing it's right "forever."

We have such a need to make things permanent, to feel it's a failure if it ends before death. I see relationships as very different- I see them as organic creations between at least two people at a time. And as an organic thing, it grows, it matures, it changes, and sometimes ends naturally.

THat's not meant to be cynical or defeatist, in fact I find a deep sense of joy from it.





fyreredsub -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 6:39:59 PM)

thanks and merry xmas.
I'm trying to figure out how to get a pix of me in collar on here instead of my avatar.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

Best of luck to you all as well!!!





veronicaofML -> RE: when you know its right (12/25/2005 6:52:48 PM)

hmmm...yo'kay...

i just hope you get past,,,the honeymoon phase and still wanna stay..
best wishes




willing2serve -> RE: when you know its right (12/26/2005 1:43:25 AM)

quote:

i feel so lucky today more than any other. i met my dominant over a month and a half ago , and i know He is "the one" for many reasons. I know there have been other posts on "the right one", but i was just sitting here thinking if nothing else goes right in my life i am lucky enough to have a great Master in my life who i am falling head over heals for.


I am so happy for you. When the One comes along you do KNOW it. I've had several Doms in the past, never wanted or even used the word "Master".

For the last year, I've been with my "Master" and i knew it from the beginning. He is the Master of me, no doubt.

Respectfully,
BTs willing




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