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MadRabbit -> RE: Need advise from one Master to the Other (12/3/2008 7:29:20 AM)
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I think the question of "How do I write a contract?" is a little misguided and a better question to ask would be "Why should I write a contract and what can this contract include that will be of some benefit to me?".
Given that any contract written for a M/S or D/S relationship has absolutely zero bearing in a legal court, the notion of it as a "binding agreement" has less value then using it to wipe your ass with after using the toilet.
The value I get from it is it provides a way to clearly define the structure of a relationship and keep track of important things that would otherwise be forgotten by human memory.
You can include any one or more of the following...
- Goals - What direction you want the relationship to go and where things are going to progress. Sometimes having a clear and well defined goal can help keep the direction of the relationship toward that goal as opposed to just having some ambiguous, undefined ideas that the relationship may or may not resemble two years down the road.
- Limits, Issues, and General Knowledge Regarding Your Slave - This could be quite a large section, but I try to include all the important bullet points that I need to remember in regards to things about my girl that influence my decisions now and in the future. Does she have exceptionally dry skin and therefore her shaving below the neck for you can pose a health problem? Is she a vegan and has a core value against wearing leather collars? Does she have any health issues that need to be taken into account regarding your decisions like an allergy to a certain form of clothing? Does she have trust issues or emotional defenses that you need to deal with? Is she scared that she is not going to be able to continue her career under your rule? How do all these things effect your progression toward your goals above? What ways can you deal with or resolve these things?
- Core Concepts of the Relationship - What do you consider to be the founding elements of your relationship and what your relationship is all about?
- Your Ethics - What codes of behavior can your girl consistently expect you to honor and uphold to when making decisions about her that give her a basis for trusting you to direct the course of her life?
- Rules, Protocols, and Rituals - Will she be wearing a collar 24/7 even during work and around family? Will she call you Master or Sir and how will she handle that in public? What are things you expect her to consistently do without you constantly telling her?
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