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DISCIPLINE954 -> kneeling (12/1/2008 1:20:19 PM)
Greetings, Ok when a sub or slave is kneeling at your feet..first meeting. What would be the protocall for the Dom or Master ?

camille65 -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:22:39 PM)
That question doesn't really have just one answer, it simply depends on what a particular dom wants to set (or not set) as a sort of protocol.

Madame4a -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:24:25 PM)
uhmm.. first meeting.. no one would be kneeling at my feet.. its an earned honor.. not something taken lightly, at least by me... if you're the Master, decide what your protocol would be.. you already started with the kneeling thing.. what more do you want? quote: ORIGINAL: DISCIPLINE954 Greetings, Ok when a sub or slave is kneeling at your feet..first meeting. What would be the protocall for the Dom or Master ?

NihilusZero -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:33:07 PM)
Is there a time limit on responses here? Is she still stuck there waiting for your response? You could at least get her a cushion while everyone here is figuring out the answer for you.

LadyPact -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:40:26 PM)
Would you by chance have meant the first meeting of the day? If so, then it means I kiss his forehead and smile at him.

DavanKael -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:44:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero Is there a time limit on responses here? Is she still stuck there waiting for your response? You could at least get her a cushion while everyone here is figuring out the answer for you. ROFLMAO, Nihilus Zero! :> OP: You know, I try to never say never 'cause the Universe may prove a liar out of me but I find it hard to imagine hitting my knees upon meeting someone for the first time or, if I'mon the opposite side of the kneel, someone hitting their knees upon meeting me for the first time. That's a substantive gesture and, as was pointed out, not one that everyone (Certainly not me) takes lightly. Each relationship/dynamic/scenario has its own structure and progression but I'm gonna go with unlikely. Davan

CalifChick -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 1:49:05 PM)
If I'm down there, it's because I've fallen and can't get up. Imagine yourself a king, and a lady kneels at your feet. What would you do? Hopefully extend a hand to help her up. Although if you know she's into bootlicking, you might want to give her a few minutes down there first. Cali

SirJeremy -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 3:52:17 PM)
I would agree with Madame4a... a first meeting would not include that for me. There is still so much to explore and test, boundaries to push and a true lifestyle connection to be made. Just because (s)he is ready to kneel before you does not mean you must be ready to accept it... an honor earned is an honor appreciated. Besides, a sub/slave could be kneeling for any number of reasons - and any of these would (presumably) be at your behest... and nihiluszero - fantastic response - a good laugh is always appreciated.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 4:15:00 PM)
Well there is no universal protocol. I personally would do anything from ignore them, tell them to stand up, shove them down with my boots, kiss them, or something else.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 4:38:17 PM)
There is no protocol but what you make.

NessunDorma -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 5:04:05 PM)
Well, why are you asking the question? If you're just wondering how a Dom would behave...well, that's (mostly) up to him. That's why he's the Dom...

MasterTslave -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 6:01:46 PM)
Never kneel on a first meeting...that is something that a Master/Dom must earn. The first meeting for me was more vanilla with a little spice mixed in...but not kneeling until I KNEW Master T was the Master for me. When I kneel down before Master T, I sit in my waiting position until Master gives me orders of what to do (position, come here, sit down and have a drink)...I think that if you want her to suck your cock, tell her to do so...if you want her to cuddle you on the couch, tell her to do it. If you want a good little pet, pet her head and give her a kiss. Treat her the way you would any other "lower" form to you (animal, small child...)...ok, will maybe get some crap for that, but you KNOW what I am saying.

SailingBum -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 10:50:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DISCIPLINE954 Greetings, Ok when a sub or slave is kneeling at your feet..first meeting. What would be the protocall for the Dom or Master ? I thought that was the doms function to figure out the next move. I read that somewhere. It was either MastersR us or dom 101 it's a online instruction maual for all doms that don't have a fucking clue. I use it all the time it's a handy reference source. BadOne

IronBear -> RE: kneeling (12/1/2008 11:26:08 PM)
Kneeling at my feet at the first meeting would indicate that the slave was aware of my Gorean Background in the past or had been trained as a kajira perhaps. Of course it may also just be something which she feels is the correct thing to do. And yes I do know Masters who on first meetings have the effect on a slave where she/they want to kneel. The protocol for the Master will vary from Master to Master. Good masnners would indicate he will at least acknowledge the slave and even greet him or her. He may allow the slave to rise and either stand (possibly for inspection) or sit so they may converse...

Focus50 -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 1:51:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DISCIPLINE954 Greetings, Ok when a sub or slave is kneeling at your feet..first meeting. What would be the protocall for the Dom or Master ? If the girl was kneeling at our first meeting, my protocol would be simply to ask something along the lines of, "Damn girl, what that hell are you doing; get up!" First meetings are a great place for two mature adults without expectations to get a feel for each other, and not in a physical sense. If I don't relate to her as a person, I sure don't want her kneeling and taking direction.... Cart before the horse, thankyou. Focus.

RealSub58 -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 4:00:40 AM)
I hope I give an answer of substance. I had bottomed half dozen times in private places, and because I wanted the "whole" experience, it did include me kneeling. But while I was kneeling, I was spoken to, the limits were re-discussed, I was asked why I was there, etc. It depended on how comfortable I felt and each top was excellent about my comfort level and well as if I felt safe. My first owner made our first time together feel like I was his princess and very romantic. I was to be kneeling besides the bed before he came in. He pulled a chair up and for all most an hour we talked. My kneeling was on pillow and I was allowed to relax. It's awful hard on the knees and many men don't realize it. Presently, I rarely kneel for Sir when I see him. But the first time together I sat on the floor in front of him and we talked, again for about an hour. I think the whole first meeting evolves around the conversations you have had prior to the first meeting. I would suggest to do what comes naturally for you but assuring her of safety and comfort is vital. Everyone I ever met total me I could leave at any time, we had safe words and someone knew where I was. A dom in Milwaukee told me that his safety and comfort was just as important to him as it was to assure her of hers. Hope this helps.

DesFIP -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 5:16:09 AM)
First meet? Kneeling in Starbucks? No way. Beyond that it's whatever works for the two of you. Even in a first play meet you aren't submitting because you don't know the other person well enough to know if they are your idea of a good (for you) dominant. You're just bottoming. So you negotiate things. If you want to kneel, tell the top you would like this incorporated into the scene. If he/she wants you to kneel, then they should mention it to you. But there are no rules of kink, lots of us don't kneel ever.

celticlord2112 -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 6:19:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DISCIPLINE954 Greetings, Ok when a sub or slave is kneeling at your feet..first meeting. What would be the protocall for the Dom or Master ? She needs to open wide and say "ahhhhh......" (Well, you did ask)

sailorfrank -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 8:50:47 AM)
Protocal is usually observed during first time training. After several casual meetings have been done in public places so both can get to know each other. And of course training begins if and when the Master/Dom chooses! By then of course....."You are Dommed if you Do....And Dommed if ya dont!!"

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: kneeling (12/2/2008 10:03:49 AM)
Oh and I'll add something- I do play casually and often with people I've just met. It's a very common thing I do that when it's been an excellent scene and I wish to not only pay homage and gratitude to the top, I will kneel and gently kiss their shoes at the end of it. It's just something I've always felt good about doing and a ncie graceful way to say thank you and end things on a positive note. If I get the feeling they might not be comfy with that, I'll ask first, but so far I've only received warm smiles in return.

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