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What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:35:18 PM

DomCT2002

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Whatever happened to free sex and having sex for fun, or just spanking someone out of lust then having sex with them? I remember high school days back in the 1970s, you could date someone, spank em, cuff em, have sex and never worry about it unless she got preggo of course. Today BDSM and D/s and sex in general seems to be ok, what size is your wallet, and do you have stds or aids and if you spank me, doesn't mean you can have sex with me. Lust is a powerfull emotion as is passion and it does lead to sex does it not? So you mean to tell me, if you meet someone, to get spanked and date them if your a submissive your gonna make them stop at spanking you and do no sex at all?

Hmmm, I don't know been my experience that if I end up spanking a submissive, the passions and emotions and lust levels rise to the point where sex is indeed the end result. So, why is there all this well you may spank me but no sex bit, and why doe sthe size of your wallet have to be involved in meeting someone these days and just being play partners as long as both involved are clean, healthy, adult and being safe about what they do?

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:39:49 PM

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My contact with some of the younger folks these days indicate there is still a fairly, um, liberal attitude regarding sexual contact.

I found it all to be easier when I was of younger years. I think a lot of the "complications" grow as we get older.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:41:15 PM

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Umm... yeah. We're all like that. Maybe your picker needs to be re-tuned.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:42:48 PM

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Many times, we reach a point in life where we want more than just casual encounters. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting something meaningful. Just because we don't necessarily agree, doesn't mean either of us is wrong.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:46:31 PM

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It sounds to me like you're trying to hook up with the wrong people.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:48:14 PM

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And some of us younger folk happen to be VERY adept at controlling our lust. Being submissive or not has NOTHING to do with it.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 1:49:08 PM

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What did all this carefree wanking get us? AIDS. THAT's what happened. Irresponsible fucking.. THAT's what happened. People not taking responsibility.. THAT's what happened. Face it.. all the fun was used up by the 70's. Time to be a grownup now.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 2:03:44 PM

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Ahhh yes, those were the days...

When the Dept of Health came to town and called you to a local hotel room to interegate you...

Interegation was not a kink of mine then....

The good ole...Glory Days...

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 2:12:13 PM

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I never had, nor wanted, those "good old days". It was never my thing. For me to be physically intimate with someone, I have to be emotionally intimate and vested in that person. Otherwise I just have no interest.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 3:27:59 PM

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You are talking about an era when penicillan could cure most infections and herpes and AIDS had yet to make their impact on society. Add in sexual liberation, the availability of the automobile and The Pill and you have a much different social scenario.

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Whatever happened to free sex and having sex for fun, or just spanking someone out of lust then having sex with them? I remember high school days back in the 1970s, you could date someone, spank em, cuff em, have sex and never worry about it unless she got preggo of course.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 4:17:07 PM

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I gave up meaningless sexual encounters. They're just not that good!

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 4:37:42 PM

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Things have never slowed down for me, not since I was in my teens and a girl dared me to spank her, that being some thirty years ago. I have never found any of the wallet watching you appear to have been upset by.
You need to find nicer people. I'm hopeful that you will.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 4:49:12 PM

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quote:

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I never had, nor wanted, those "good old days". It was never my thing. For me to be physically intimate with someone, I have to be emotionally intimate and vested in that person. Otherwise I just have no interest.

yes, this, exactly. i dont want to be some random encounter. i want to like the person, love the person, want to have conversations with them. not just connect our interlocking parts. or play with the naughty bits. or whatever floats your boat.

kitten

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 5:03:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomCT2002

Whatever happened to free sex and having sex for fun, or just spanking someone out of lust then having sex with them? I remember high school days back in the 1970s, you could date someone, spank em, cuff em, have sex and never worry about it unless she got preggo of course. Today BDSM and D/s and sex in general seems to be ok, what size is your wallet, and do you have stds or aids and if you spank me, doesn't mean you can have sex with me. Lust is a powerfull emotion as is passion and it does lead to sex does it not? So you mean to tell me, if you meet someone, to get spanked and date them if your a submissive your gonna make them stop at spanking you and do no sex at all?

Hmmm, I don't know been my experience that if I end up spanking a submissive, the passions and emotions and lust levels rise to the point where sex is indeed the end result. So, why is there all this well you may spank me but no sex bit, and why doe sthe size of your wallet have to be involved in meeting someone these days and just being play partners as long as both involved are clean, healthy, adult and being safe about what they do?

I think many people go through a more promiscuous stage when they are younger, I did anyway.

Besides... how are you going to determine weither your partner is "clean, healthy, adult and being safe" unless the "do you have aids or stds" question comes up.

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 6:01:30 PM

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My answer is the same as Lady Hibiscus' (i gave up meaningless sexual encounters..they are not that good..... is what she wrote)...but darn i thought this was going to be about where we could post about what happened to certain products or people we miss....

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 6:36:01 PM

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Does the fact that this thread was started on World AIDS Day seem ironic to anyone else?

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 7:21:13 PM

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Does the fact that this thread was started on World AIDS Day seem ironic to anyone else?

What's "World Aids Day?"

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RE: What ever happened to.............. - 12/1/2008 7:28:46 PM

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Honestly popeye, i can't tell when you're joking or serious

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