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humor - 12/1/2008 9:03:22 PM   
NazjamRa


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Status: offline 		how important is it for you to know that your Dominant has a sense of humor?
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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:05:02 PM   
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That, and integrity, intelligence, wit and a bit of sexiness....

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:21:10 PM   
shivermetimbers


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Status: offline 		We are both subs who switch for each other, but let me tell you, humor, fun, laughter during our time together is always there. I couldn't imagine how anyone can have fun without humor!

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:33:17 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		It's just one quality among many that I seek in a partner...but there's a time and a place for humor and he needs to know how to balance that. Anyone who is always serious or always humorous..both are huge turnoffs to me.

Balance..it's always all about balance.

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:40:14 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		There is nothing more fun than either of us saying something that is a curve ball in a conversation and making each other laugh. Without humor, it's all too serious. I is suppose to be fun too...

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:41:53 PM   
porcelain26


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Status: offline 		It's definately helpful, that's for sure. Sometimes, for me anyway, laughter is an absolute 'must have' during a scene. I get too caught up in what's happening sometimes and can tend to start freakin' out just a bit, and a good laugh will often make everything all better *grins*

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:45:05 PM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NazjamRa

how important is it for you to know that your Dominant has a sense of humor?


Critically. Humor is a must. The man I'm seeing now makes me laugh more than anyone has.

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 9:50:44 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		So does this mean that it takes a bit more that flicking your funny bone repeatedly?  (I actually had an ex that thought that was funny.  I never asked him to be funny again.  But I did find it humorous when I got to serve him.  He didn't think that was too funny.  Go figure...)

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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 10:33:39 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Important, along with other traits that would make Him relationship material.  :> 
Life isn't always pretty, so being in it for the long haul inpartnership sometimes means laughing or losing it: in the immortal words of Jimmy (Buffett, of course): "If we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane."
  Davan


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RE: humor - 12/1/2008 10:41:47 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		A partner without humor is useless to me. If they can't make me laugh (and visa versa) then there is really no hope.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 12:41:54 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		someone without a sense of humour that matches my own is no match for me....

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 5:40:28 AM   
tamerkatey


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Status: offline 		It's everything to me...  I like to laugh, and I love it when I make him laugh.....  for me it shows you can be relaxed with one another.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 5:59:24 AM   
CarrieO


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Status: offline 		A sense of humor is of utmost importance to me. That, along with a list of other traits, is what makes a person human and appealing.  I take life way too seriously sometimes...I need someone who can pull my head out of the clouds and out of my own backside and make me laugh at the silliness of it all.  I like to make people laugh and it helps if they get my brand of humor.
 
On the flip side...if they can't be serious and not chuckle at everything like a high-school kid, I lose interest very quickly. As a few have already mentioned, it's all about balance.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 6:19:41 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Depends on their sense of humor. Someone who finds it funny to make fun of others, to humiliate them is not someone I would be compatible with. A love of wordplay, puns, quips and zingers is something I enjoy greatly.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 6:47:52 AM   
hopelesslyInvo


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Status: offline 		the conception and understanding of humor is something that makes us "fundamentally human", if that's an aspect that is missing, whether they're laughing or not isn't going to be my real concern.


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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 6:55:45 AM   
sexisubi


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Status: offline 		mmm couldnt do without a little light side, i smile like.... all day! and i love to have someone giving me more of a reason to.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 7:30:15 AM   
natasha66


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Status: offline 		It's critical to me.  I couldn't be in a relationship with no humor in it.   Like others have said though, it's all about balance - there is a time and a place for everything.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 7:33:07 AM   
Aileen1968


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NazjamRa

how important is it for you to know that your Dominant has a sense of humor?


It's extremely important.  Luckily his sense matches mine.  And I don't have to explain my lame ass jokes. 

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 7:43:25 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		If someone i was interested in did not have a sense of humor it would be a deal breaker for me.  I like to laugh and have fun and tease.  My Master is the same way ,but he also knows when to be serious.  I think it would also be a deal breaker for him.

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RE: humor - 12/2/2008 8:58:00 AM   
xDino


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Status: offline 		Of course it's important...being in a D/s relationship is still a relationship to me and a partner has to have more favorable traits than just 'dominant'.  

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