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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/4/2008 2:47:24 PM   
JP10TX


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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/4/2008 2:51:43 PM   
celticlord2112


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ORIGINAL: JP10TX

Maybe I have been living and haven't been reading archives.

Maybe....are we taking odds?

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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/4/2008 4:47:29 PM   
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...The goal for some might be love, but this love seems heavily based upon sexual gratification, and is a love with restrictions and stipulations...

the institution of marriage can be all about sex, too, if you care to take on that perspective.
*women holding onto their virginity until they marry...
*religious dogma insisting that the only valid intercourse is that done within a marriage in order to produce offspring...
*divorce proceedings predicated on "infidelity"...
etc.

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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/4/2008 5:48:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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...The goal for some might be love, but this love seems heavily based upon sexual gratification, and is a love with restrictions and stipulations...

the institution of marriage can be all about sex, too, if you care to take on that perspective.

Or any romantic relationship, for that matter!

For crying out loud...we are predominantly sexual creatures with reflective sentience. Sexual gratification and "restrictions and stipulations" are as inherent as touch.


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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/4/2008 5:52:31 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		What I mean by living, is that you will see dominance and leadership displayed in life everywhere, and in every creature. I do not believe in being a dominant, I believe that we either are mostly to completely dominant or mostly to completely submissive. I do not use them as terms or titles, I use them as adjectives to describe personalities.

The archives here have a wealth of knowledge in them, so I always direct people to those.

The love I have for my property is akin to the love one would have for a pet that they are bonded with. Has little to do with sexual gratification, but with complete satisfaction of life as an owner of property.


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ORIGINAL: JP10TX

Maybe I have been living and haven't been reading archives.


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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/5/2008 2:15:12 AM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: JP10TX

That almost makes me pity you. 

If I found a man worthy, in my mind, of my submission, I would gladly oblige.

I hate the feeling of guilt I get when I read some profiles or responses that seem to condescend subs or slaves that have ambitions or goals in their lives, other than the sexual gratification of the other.


Quite a few people, in fact, do so.

You don't have to feel guilty because of the way doms portray themselves. They get the subs they deserve and vice versa.

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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/5/2008 10:41:52 AM   
MasterTslave


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Status: offline 		Master T and I do not share an elaborate set of illusions.  Our relationship is based on love, honesty, trust, submission, domination, and we do enjoy having sex (but who doesn't?).  Master T has told me many times that if I even wake up some morning and tell him that I do not want to be in this kind of "lifestyle" than all I have to do is say no more.  I would not do this as I enjoy it and it is a way of life for my husband.  I think that to push that part of your being down and out of sight, it would make for stress and mental probs.  I think that is is much like any other sexual thing...if you were gay, it would be really hard to push that feeling down and be with a woman...if you were a sexaphobe it would be really hard to push that down and have sex all the time...get what I'm saying?

The goal is not love based heavliy on sexual gratification, restrictions and stipulations.  For some that may be the case, I simply do not have the inside on every couple out there...Master T and I do have a strong love and would have it even without bdsm.  Even in the vanilla world there are "love" relationships that are based on sexual grat and have plenty of restrictions and stipulations...look at having sex and trying to have a relationship with a boss. 

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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/5/2008 11:29:39 AM   
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Lifestyles usually are. They'd be pretty damn dull if they were all about reality.


Ah but isn't all of "reality" an illusion?

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RE: Dominance as a way of life. - 12/5/2008 12:49:11 PM   
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Lifestyles usually are. They'd be pretty damn dull if they were all about reality.


Ah but isn't all of "reality" an illusion?

Depends on the reality, and the quality of the Scotch.

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