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stella41b -> RE: what do you think? (12/5/2008 7:52:12 AM)
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I think it's the fault of the dominants and things would be much much much better if they behaved a lot better. I mean each time you try to make contact with someone professing to be dominant, what do you get? You get them trying to boss you around and some of them want to do other stuff like hit you and shove different stuff up you.
I've given up with this site. Honestly. Tried to meet dommes. So you try and try and nothing happens, and then you get one and she agrees to meet you. She gets you back to her place and then she starts acting all bossy. So okay, I try and do what she says and then what happens?
SHE HITS ME!!!
She gets out this horsewhip and just lays into me. Whack! Whack! Whack! I did everything she told me, and I still get hit. I don't understand this. I think maybe she's got some sort of emotional disturbance or something. So I try to help her, and do what she tells me to, because the way I see it this is the only way she can express that she needs help. And then what does she do? She starts criticizing me and taking the piss. I mean really.
She tells me to lie on the bed, and so I lie on the bed. Guess what? I'm lying there thinking that she wants to go to sleep or something, but she gets out some rope and she starts tying me up. Lady, I'm already lying on the bed, what more do you want? So okay, I want to know what's going on here, and so I lie there, say nothing, let her tie me up, thinking this will make her happy. Then what does she do?
She gags me. I mean she takes this snooker ball attached to leather straps and shoves it in my mouth. I mean, I wasn't even talking at the time! WTF!!!!??? Then she produces this cane and starts whacking me with it. It hurts. I tell her to stop because it's hurting me, and I wriggle about and yell out, and she just keeps whacking me with this cane. This is a problem with dominants, very few of them listen to you. Too wrapped up in what they're doing I guess. But she's there whacking me with this cane all over my bottom and legs and smiling, as if this is some sort of fun. I try to reason with her, but you know it's hard to have a conversation with someone when you've got a snooker ball in your mouth.
I'm lying there terrified that she wants to kill me. Then she stops hitting me with this cane and I think this is all over. I'm so relieved. Then what does she do? She only goes and lights a candle. WTF!!!??? We're there in the bedroom, there isn't a power cut, the bedroom lamp is on, and this woman wants to light up a candle? Weird!
Only she hasn't lit the candle to light up the room, but she's just stood there, dropping hot wax on my sore tushy, and it hurts, and I try to tell her to stop but I've got this snooker ball in my mouth and it's making any sort of effective communication difficult. And so I manage to say, 'Glees glock.. Yo her hing hee.. Glees!' She stops. Then she takes this snooker ball with leather straps out of my mouth, unties me, and then she starts to get all affectionate and starts cuddling me and soothing my bottom. I mean, WTF!!!??? One minute she wants to hurt me, and then the next she's acting all kind and gentle as if nothing ever happened.
This isn't an isolated incident either. Every time I've met a dominant woman she's either started to boss me about, or hit me, and I get messages from these guys who are also dom and they want to do similar things to me.
I'm sorry, but I've got to admit this, all dominants are raving mad, they total and complete and utter loonies, the lot of them! None of them have got a clue what it's really like to be in a relationship, because they're too damn busy trying to boss other people about, hit them with various objects and stick things in them.
You cannot be too careful here either, because some of them are dead persuasive and some of them are deceptive too. They post on these boards all nicey nicey, and some of them pretend to be nice to your face as well, but on the other side some of them drop this 'niceness' and start sending you messages with phrases such as 'kneel bitch' and 'hello slut'. I mean is that the way to talk to people? You wouldn't walk up to a female police officer and say 'kneel bitch' would you now?
I'm a submissive and I can say that this isn't our fault.. but the fault of the dominants. We submissives are nice people, we like being nice, we are always prepared to be reasonable, and usually we will do anything you ask us. We just like pleasing people.
Happy belated birthday to the OP.. and take my advice. Be very careful with dominants. They're dangerous people.
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