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teacherpet -> sad story from new york (12/4/2008 5:29:42 PM)

Obsession and murder in new york involving a Mistress

http://www.nypost.com/seven/12042008/news/regionalnews/lawyers_deadly_secret_142622.htm




AStudyInScarlet -> RE: sad story from new york (12/4/2008 9:08:39 PM)

my mom had that paper so of course i had to read the article. the post is so sleazy. a man is killed and all they focus on is his girlfriend's job. i did think it was pretty interesting that things like sissy slut training and forced feminization could be found in a front page article. no definitions for the general public either. it was totally unnecessary that they had to mention he enjoyed wearing lipstick, stockings and high heels. his friends, family and colleagues will be reading that. his sex life is none of the public's business.




Aszhrae -> RE: sad story from new york (12/4/2008 9:28:00 PM)

Girl agrees with ASudy', its not up for public scrutiny as to what the lawyer did privately with his gf. It's almost like they are making light of him being murdered by saying such things.
Whoever reported that and the editor, both need their heads examined.
Don't they ever consider the affect that such will have on those he worked for, colleagues, friends and family? Do they even care?




Lashra -> RE: sad story from new york (12/5/2008 4:32:05 AM)

Unfortunately the media loves to air people's private lives. The more dirty laundry the better it would seem. I guess the idea was to portray the people involved as a bunch of "freaks" so the vanilla public could say "see? that is what happens to people like that." Its really sad.

~Lashra




monywildcat -> RE: sad story from new york (12/5/2008 2:45:23 PM)

That is sad.  It is incredibly sad that the article stated that his "secret leather-loving lifestyle" proved to be his downfall.  WTF?  If I read this correctly, it was a crazy dude that was the victim's downfall, not what him and his girlfriend engaged in. 




TazDevil -> RE: sad story from new york (12/5/2008 3:46:08 PM)

you know how it is, you in to D's life stile what ever you call it the 100 bilone names lol, you killed, you even a bit famose, so... IT HAD EVERY THING TO DO WITH THE LIFE STILE!!!!!!! it dont madder if it had anything to do with it or not it, to vella foke It did! you got killed co's you a winey boy sub who dersuverd to die any how, god dame lawers with there god dame rope any how

now did it have anything to do with D's Nop do they care Nop




NihilusZero -> RE: sad story from new york (12/6/2008 2:15:27 AM)

I was just informed of this by a close model friend who knows Jade.  The most devastating events conceivable befall her and the story focuses on idiotic myopic biases and any tidbits that may be salacious to the common reader.

[&o]




velvetears -> RE: sad story from new york (12/6/2008 12:03:10 PM)

"fascination with " the dark side" almost inevitably winds up in some sort of problematic scenario or situation, and that should be obvious and apparent, particularly for people who supposedly are well read and educated." hkindt

This is the conclusion people come to after reading this?

i suppose people who date inevitably wind up in some sort of problematic scenario which should be obvious to intelligent people.  The leaps in their logic are huge.




Huntertn -> RE: sad story from new york (12/10/2008 4:59:28 PM)

ther sad thing is someone lost their life..even sadder is that no matter what the lifestyle of the  people involved..it still happens...




mwdsub4u -> RE: sad story from new york (12/18/2008 12:47:21 AM)

 this what worries me the most, Lifestyle/Pro Dominant females working out of their homes, i know a few that do,
I really do not know Jade, however i do a few of Her friends, people that are close to her and knew him as well..
i do not understand obsession, when common sence is overuled, by desire or hate,   sure i have loved and lost, i am in that boat know but i would never ever think of Hurting HER, or the people She cares for. its time for me to move forward.




Celene -> RE: sad story from new york (12/18/2008 3:06:44 AM)

What a tragedy. What a travesty in "reporting".
I still meet people from online in a public place and am horrified when people mention that they expose themselves (and their families) to people they do not know. And that goes for meeting both vanilla and lifestyle folks.

I have had people show up (and call me while sitting) in my driveway to "take me away" for the weekend and have stopped by years after we stopped seeing one another to try to start up again. Others have confessed they drove by to see my house (though I'd never allowed them over and even used a P.O. Box). That's stalker sh!t in my book .... and I'm considered paranoid because I don't like to be picked up at home by someone I've only met online and am meeting in person for the first (or third) time. I've also been out with friends who accepted rides home for both of us and then be stuck with someone that someone else found interesting. Stuck with them climbing my fence, pound on my door, and then leave a trail a blood for my son to find in the morning. Give my cynicism the benefit the doubt. I am woman, I'm not prey.

The same strange folks who misrepresent themselves online and make it hard for those who are looking for and deserve honesty will do it in person too.

It's often too late by the time you find out just how warped some folks are so the bottom line for me is that some mistakes can't be undone and I'll continue to err on the side of caution and personal safety. I hope everyone else reading this does the same.




spatejak -> RE: sad story from new york (12/22/2008 10:34:35 AM)

The New York Post is a scandal sheet just a step above the National Enquirer[:'(]




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