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Question for Pro Dommes - 12/4/2008 8:57:09 PM

freebith

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Hi, welcome to my very first forum post! I hope this question doesn't come across as rude or ignorant. My boyfriend and I have been exploring BDSM on our own for a while and have recently begun looking into communities and pro Dommes in Houston. I realize that what a Domme will do depends on Her interests and Her connection with Her client(s), but I wanted to ask: in general, would a Domme be willing to give lessons? My boyfriend and I switch roles on occasion, but he is usually the dominant, and he was curious as to whether a pro Domme would be willing to teach him how to better train me, or if Dommes normally only work (play?) with submissives and other professionals.

Thanks much,
Lee

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/4/2008 10:51:18 PM

ladycirce

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yes, often We do. check to see if there are groups in your area like TES because they often have lectures and workshops as well.
good luck

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/5/2008 1:09:59 PM

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Yep, willing to have a "help find what works/we like" session. But I'd suggest looking into your local community to find free friends that can do the same and more often. Or do both.

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/5/2008 2:42:11 PM

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Look for someone who sees couples.
Also, I would suggest seeking someone whose style/specialties ring a bell with yours. (i.e, don't go to a super cruel sadist if you're more on the sensual side.)

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/5/2008 4:11:27 PM

MsSaskia

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I highly highly recommend Mistress Precious. www.MistressPrecious.com. She's gracious, charming, friendly, and talented. If she doesn't provide that service herself - and lessons are quite different from sessions - she'll be able to advise you on what local groups or individuals would be best for you. She's been around for several years and will be an excellent resource.

And now I'm seeing that you posted this back in June, six months ago. I'm betting you already got the answer you were looking for. ; )

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/5/2008 7:25:41 PM

AcademyForSlaves

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Hi.

We offer free tutoring and training all the time. Sure we'd be willing to teach you both. Contact info etc can be found at the Academy. In your email tell us you found us here.

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RE: Question for Pro Dommes - 12/5/2008 7:42:23 PM

freebith

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Thank you, everyone! And MsSaskia, don't worry, I only posted this yesterday :) Mistress Precious does seem like a good person to contact about this; Mike and I had found Her site before and were interested in meeting Her, but I'm also glad to know about other parts of the community to look into

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