piratecommander -> RE: February 6th, 2009 (12/6/2008 10:04:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead [sm=agree.gif] Kali is da bomb. I totally and completely agree with what she wrote. This day is NOT about anything or anyone other than Greedy and Pirate. If I may, please indulge me, you two. Please make this your day. If you want it at the court house, in an out house, under a rock, on a roof... that's all that matters. What other people want DOES NOT MATTER. The only thing that matters is what you are able to do, within your means, on your time frame, and that is meaningful to YOU TWO. To hell with the rest. Trust me, I was a bridal consultant for almost four years when I was finishing my certification and classes. I watched so many couples compromise what the truly wanted for what they thought would make other people happy. People helped out and all, but guess what? The couples who yielded to all the insanity usually told me privately that they wished they held their ground because all the headache and torment of trying to make it all successful, was not worth it. This is supposed to be an occasion joining the two of you together, not making you pull your hair out by the roots. (Pirate, I think you're pretty safe here, lol.) In all honesty, I support any plans and arrangements that you make because you know that I will be there, at my Greedy-girl's side, wherever you decide it to be, and on whatever day you choose. The day showcases you two... and is not a side show at the circus. The top billing goes to your wedding, making it a way for people to get to meet each other via your event is secondary. If you forget this, call me and I will repeat it to you. With much love, respect, and "diplomacy," Red Wisdom is a gift , you are very gifted Red. As you have been "pressed" already , Cap'n Gredy will be dealing with this bit (If I had a heart , I would be loving you right now ....... but as I have not and Flying Monkey is such a valuable member of the crew .... I must remind you, you have Captains orders) Pirate
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