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YoungCOP -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (1/9/2006 3:02:37 AM)

Another question / comment about the cock humilation...

I have an average size cock, but I like my Mistress to always remind me it could be bigger....
Also, on the CBT front...
Is this too out there?
She likes to tie her purse to a scarf, tie the scarf to my cock, and hang it and drop it.....

I figured, I could ask if that was too out there or not.


Thanks in advance for reading!

-Sissy C




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (1/9/2006 3:03:56 PM)

Click search on upper right corner of the forums, and type in CBT, and you'll find lots of info on that.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_101782/mpage_1/key_CBT/tm.htm
M




MsMacComb -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (1/11/2006 1:40:58 AM)

Small penis and small penis humiliation is kind of one of the cornerstones of cuckolding. It's a far greater and varied fetish than many people would know or wish to acknowledge. The macho attitude that resides within the whole "large penis" genre kind of makes this fetish all more intense I think. People throughout history have often seenl arge male gentalia as being a form of power, virility and so forth. With most males of course it is a strictly taboo subject. Anyhow, its great that you can accept it and hopefully you will enjoy it "tiny". :)




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (1/11/2006 7:19:31 AM)

quote:

its great that you can accept it and hopefully you will enjoy it "tiny". :)
I hope people know you were replying to absublutely and not me, because I most certainly don't enjoy it tiny... I'll accept an awesome human being into my life with shortcomings, but let us not send the grossly underendowed to look at my profile accidentally, please. [8D] M




MsMacComb -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (1/11/2006 8:57:37 PM)


[/quote]I hope people know you were replying to absublutely and not me, because I most certainly don't enjoy it tiny... I'll accept an awesome human being into my life with shortcomings, but let us not send the grossly underendowed to look at my profile accidentally, please. [8D] M[/quote]

Oopps, [:o] "small little "mistake on my part. Sorry.




jamoke -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/13/2006 6:10:20 PM)

 
[/code]Oh man I'm with you on this one! I love the same thing and I'm bettin it's pretty common. I go so far as to soak my lil dude in ice water to get it as small as possible. I havent really had anybody really make fun of my dick since I split with my last wife. A buxom gal she was and horny as hell with a clit the size of my pinky. Anyway she had only had her first husband and me in bed and his cock was even smaller than mine...I saw the poloriods. We moved from a vvery white section of Ky to a very evenly mixed area in Va. Well she started asking about those old myths about black gentelman. One thing lead to another...yada, yada, yada....I bring home an old school now work buddy of mine who was kinda moca colored kinky larger than average and thic who loved full bodied women. Bam! She's hooked on big cock like a crack whore especially men of color. The next thing you know I'm comming home to a worn out wife everyday and I'm getting nothing but the ocasional BJ. So I start to complain and the first thing outta her mouth was something like (I don't remember exactly cause she blindsided me) "Well if you didnt have such a tiny cock you could have some too!". Well as a matter of fact at that moment I started getting aroused.




SweetDommes -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/13/2006 10:19:46 PM)

Without reading the whole thread (because I'm tired ... sue me :-P), you are not at all alone in this fetish.  In fact, I'd say that 90% of the boys that we talked to bragged about their penis size one way or the other (one was dismissed because it was all that he would talk about *rolls eyes*).  It seemed that all of them were focused on penis size - whether they were telling us how big they are - assuming that we are size queens; or telling us how much "fun" we would have humiliating them for how small they are ... neither end of the spectrum was appealing to us, honestly.

My advice to you is that you mention the interest, but don't focus on it.  You want your potential Dominant to know what you want, but if you obsess over it, you will most likely be dismissed like the one we talked to was. 




FangsNfeet -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/13/2006 11:06:43 PM)

If a Mistress wanted to have some extra fun with cock humuilation, she can have her male sub take a  dosage of a product known as Saltpeter. It's an over the counter product that can be ordered by pharmacies, health departments, and cooking stores. Though the theory or popular belief gets tossed around, it's till known to decrease the ability to have an erection. Here are a few stites that can get anyone started in research about Salt Peter.

After all, causing a male to be flacid all day against his will can be fun when you want to embarass him.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Potassium_nitrate

http://www.snopes.com/military/saltpetr.htm

http://www.best-price.com/procSystem,showProductSearchByUserSearch,,0,saltpeter.html?gclid=CNjcv_PZq4QCFRaiSAodMCjK_g

Also know that the product known as Mini Thins cause periods of being flacid as well. Then again, they also cause increased pulse rate, low blood pressure, and insomnia.

Anyhow, it's info to know and can be used to frustrate someone from time to time. 




SweetPosession -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/14/2006 12:09:15 AM)

As a top, I would never, ever, under any circumstances, incorporate size concepts into humiliation unless I was 100% sure that it was wanted. I've known too many men who were nervous enough about their size that negative mention sent their libido running for cover. I had a partner who was 9.5" on a bad day who had this problem. Being as softie subs aren't as fun (for me at least), I don't go there. But that's just me.




Proprietrix -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/14/2006 1:26:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
My advice to you is that you mention the interest, but don't focus on it.  You want your potential Dominant to know what you want, but if you obsess over it, you will most likely be dismissed like the one we talked to was. 


Total agreement.
For every minute a sub is focused on his penis, that an additional minute I've spent focusing on a different sub.




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/14/2006 2:22:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jamoke

 
[/code]Oh man I'm with you on this one! I love the same thing and I'm bettin it's pretty common. I go so far as to soak my lil dude in ice water to get it as small as possible. I havent really had anybody really make fun of my dick since I split with my last wife. A buxom gal she was and horny as hell with a clit the size of my pinky. Anyway she had only had her first husband and me in bed and his cock was even smaller than mine...I saw the poloriods. We moved from a vvery white section of Ky to a very evenly mixed area in Va. Well she started asking about those old myths about black gentelman. One thing lead to another...yada, yada, yada....I bring home an old school now work buddy of mine who was kinda moca colored kinky larger than average and thic who loved full bodied women. Bam! She's hooked on big cock like a crack whore especially men of color. The next thing you know I'm comming home to a worn out wife everyday and I'm getting nothing but the ocasional BJ. So I start to complain and the first thing outta her mouth was something like (I don't remember exactly cause she blindsided me) "Well if you didnt have such a tiny cock you could have some too!". Well as a matter of fact at that moment I started getting aroused.



This from a "male slave"???  (See profile)
Sorry, but that turned My stomach.
Welcome to the boards, jamoke, and here's hoping that you will do some reading so you can figure out what submissive means.
I certainly will apologize to all in advance, if I made a wrong turn and I am in the men's locker room rather than the "Ask A Mistress Forum".




MistressLorelei -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/14/2006 2:48:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

quote:

ORIGINAL: jamoke

 
[/code]Oh man I'm with you on this one! I love the same thing and I'm bettin it's pretty common. I go so far as to soak my lil dude in ice water to get it as small as possible. I havent really had anybody really make fun of my dick since I split with my last wife. A buxom gal she was and horny as hell with a clit the size of my pinky. Anyway she had only had her first husband and me in bed and his cock was even smaller than mine...I saw the poloriods. We moved from a vvery white section of Ky to a very evenly mixed area in Va. Well she started asking about those old myths about black gentelman. One thing lead to another...yada, yada, yada....I bring home an old school now work buddy of mine who was kinda moca colored kinky larger than average and thic who loved full bodied women. Bam! She's hooked on big cock like a crack whore especially men of color. The next thing you know I'm comming home to a worn out wife everyday and I'm getting nothing but the ocasional BJ. So I start to complain and the first thing outta her mouth was something like (I don't remember exactly cause she blindsided me) "Well if you didnt have such a tiny cock you could have some too!". Well as a matter of fact at that moment I started getting aroused.



This from a "male slave"???  (See profile)
Sorry, but that turned My stomach.
Welcome to the boards, jamoke, and here's hoping that you will do some reading so you can figure out what submissive means.
I certainly will apologize to all in advance, if I made a wrong turn and I am in the men's locker room rather than the "Ask A Mistress Forum".


I see this one as an ewwww as well....  To comment on the original post, I never measured or compared the penis size of My former submissive with anyone else's, but I enjoyed reminding him of how little, pathetic and and useless it was stuck inside his chastity device.  The thing could have been huge, but I don't think it would have made one bit of difference in his reactions.

I think that if a submissive is overly eager to be humiliated about the size of his penis, there is a good chance he is interested in nothing more than self-gratification.




jamoke -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/15/2006 10:10:57 AM)

quote:

[/This from a "male slave"???  (See profile)
Sorry, but that turned My stomach.
Welcome to the boards, jamoke, and here's hoping that you will do some reading so you can figure out what submissive means.
I certainly will apologize to all in advance, if I made a wrong turn and I am in the men's locker room rather than the "Ask A Mistress Forum".
]
 
quote:

[/I see this one as an ewwww as well....  To comment on the original post, I never measured or compared the penis size of My former submissive with anyone else's, but I enjoyed reminding him of how little, pathetic and and useless it was stuck inside his chastity device.  The thing could have been huge, but I don't think it would have made one bit of difference in his reactions.

I think that if a submissive is overly eager to be humiliated about the size of his penis, there is a good chance he is interested in nothing more than self-gratification.
   
 To GoddessDustyGold and MistressLoreleiWell this is very interesting. You see I am not only new to this site but also new to the lifestyle. You two may be correct and I am not Sub material. Maybe I am not currently educated enough to the lifestyle that I am sorely unaware of the proper category to which I belong. I will try to address both of your concerns after I state the intent of my post as it must not have translated as I thought it would. I wanted to let  Mr. Absolutely know that he was not alone on this matter and as things of this nature do not simply manifest themselves and I felt that since I was aware of the origin of this fetish for me I would share that with him. I did not go into any graphic details. I was simply stating some old past history and I feel I was brief as possible to get to the point. That point being up to that moment I had no idea that I would be aroused by such a thing. I will say that if anything I said or the way I said I offended, made ill, uncomfortable or in some manner displeased you I offer my sincere apology. And now on to the rest of the story. You see I do love to serve women and truly feel honored to do so for no other reason than to do as told, therefore I believe I am a viable candidate to be a sub-male. I am trying to learn the proper etiquette, mannerisms, sub-ease and so on. Now I don't doubt that there are some naturals out there but I'd wager that not everyone starts out as fully acceptable to whatever standards exist. I do not believe sharing a certain fetish with someone weather it be deemed acceptable sub protocol or not would preclude me from being a useful one to lets say a Dom that either enjoys that behavior herself or chooses not to indulge me in that narrow area. Am I missing something or would that not be totally up to her and her fancies? As far as weather I may be trying to sneak in some self-gratification. I guess I would have to say your correct. I would again point out that would still be up to Her. I would further submit to you that if you think subs are not gratified by being a sub in and of itself you are fooling yourself.  I really do hope to achieve some level of  competence in what I believe is the right path for me or to find some reasonable parallel as I feel I am going in the right general direction. I don't enjoy being so obviously green anymore than it pains all you fine folks and I will get better with time I hope.  I have received some very helpful advice from a few people in the short time I've taken the first steps and for that I am grateful. Until I make it past the novice stage though you might just wish to skip over what few posts I may attempt rather than risk voiding your lunch. Thanks for the input and I will try not to make the same mistakes.Finally I really hope I posted this correctly so I don't screw up something else.




pudgyandsmall62 -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/5/2006 12:34:13 PM)

From my experience in chat rooms talking with other small guys, one of their greatest sources of humiliation is having their smallness seen - or nearly seen - or at least generally detectable - by the public at large. Thus, the wearing of speedos in public, or a dangerously public exposure is both humiliating and arousing to them. I know this is certainly the truth in my personal case.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/5/2006 3:31:43 PM)

Woohoo!  The "small cock humiliation" thread has been officially resurrected!




mons -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/6/2006 2:34:28 AM)

greeting
 
i do not care for making fun of a male penis this is the reason why i spoke with on
submissive and he would say " make fun of my penis is it only as big a my lttlie finger" he would say this each time we talk i was like if it that smaller i do not want you a litle finger is no darn good .
 
but what you like is okay you enjoy this the person i spoke too knew i didnot like him always saying it and i wanted to get to know him more but it was back to his penis i ask him is it relly that small "no i just wanted you to say something well i did bye"If i bring the subject up and do it yes  it is ok i find it fun to slap it around beat only if i say so. your having fun you love it great but make sure you let the domme bring it on
 
mons




MistressLorelei -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/6/2006 9:30:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pudgyandsmall62

From my experience in chat rooms talking with other small guys, one of their greatest sources of humiliation is having their smallness seen - or nearly seen - or at least generally detectable - by the public at large. Thus, the wearing of speedos in public, or a dangerously public exposure is both humiliating and arousing to them. I know this is certainly the truth in my personal case.


I have humiliated the small to average cock my fair share of times... and while I am happy to see a puny, pathetic member in a chastity device, surrounded by clothespins, or attempting to bulge in panties....  having  any male go out in public in a speedo is a hard limit of mine.  I have no desire to ever see anyone in a speedo.

Long live the "small cock humiliation" thread!  <smiles>




absublutely -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/15/2006 11:00:11 AM)

A/all,

i haven't been on in a while, but i got a chance to read and i certainly appreciate all of You/your insights on the matter.  although small penis humiliation is a pleasure for me, it certainly isn't the focus...i see it like this...i like ice cream with an occasional cherry on the top...ya know, it's more the flavor that goes into being a submissive for me...

ab




DiannaVesta -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (7/15/2006 3:51:57 PM)

Yes it is common.


  Why? It is the center of his universe, or so he thinks. When you emasculate him you own him. It is the epitome of submission.




smallsoldiers -> RE: Small Cock Humiliation? (4/5/2008 10:37:38 AM)

:)




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