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FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/27/2005 5:14:47 AM

LostChance

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In the States everything seems to be possible! Regarding FemDomme Germany is still sleepy, and there is a slim chance only to find a Lady who practice FemDomme as a lifestyle. Some professionals you can find, but rarely really good ones. Moreover it seems in Europe you find nearly no CBT practised by (nonprofessional) Ladies, but a lot of CBT practised by homo groups. Can somebody explain me the reason for that phenomena? Does I have to relocate to the States or to Canada? In Canada the laws are more tolerant, and some cruel FemDommes who practice extreme hard CBT are living over there. I love the book “Erotic Power”, written by Gini Graham Scott and published 1983 by the Citadel Press NY. It’s really strange, even all good websites dealing with the FemDomme lifestyles are from the States or from Canada! You don’t find any FemDomme website from Germany. Has anybody made other experiences?

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RE: FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/27/2005 4:50:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: LostChance

In the States everything seems to be possible! Regarding FemDomme Germany is still sleepy, and there is a slim chance only to find a Lady who practice FemDomme as a lifestyle. Some professionals you can find, but rarely really good ones. Moreover it seems in Europe you find nearly no CBT practised by (nonprofessional) Ladies, but a lot of CBT practised by homo groups. Can somebody explain me the reason for that phenomena? Does I have to relocate to the States or to Canada?

Well, I certainly hope not! I do not speak or read German, but if you go to Caryl'sPage and click on "meet People" and then "Organizations & Contacts" you should be able to see some BDSM links for Germany. Perhaps some of them are of interest?

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RE: FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/27/2005 10:14:52 PM

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Lost Chance, i am living in Berlin, Germany. A city of around 3,5 million inhabitants. The Berlin SM scene is very much alive and kicking and has been since a long time. I even joked one day, that there are so many lifestyle events, that the only missing is a BDSM Sport Day, i prefered Monday. I personally know, not only in Berlin, but around our Land such a lot of non pro (in the sense of taking cash for what they do) dominant woman, that are well versed in CBt and what have you not, that i had to chuckle.

One thing is for sure, you will only find the right people and scenes if your attitude is right.

So, if you are not able to read the language, learn it. In my experience speaking the language where you seek something helps a lot. After all German and English belong to the same branch in the tree of languages.

Start with www.bdsm-berlin.de and go from there. For chatting start with www.spinchat.de, go to the erotic server and choose the room Peitsche (Whip) or one of the other SM rooms.

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RE: FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/29/2005 5:08:08 AM

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Dear Morgaine289,

Thank you very much for your kind response. I will check out the links.

Yeah, Berlin was always special. I remember the time, when I was working there for a couple of months. The “wall” was still dividing the west from the east. Each day I had to pass the “border”, because I was working in the east and sleeping in the west. I preferred the west in the night, because their was the life! I remember a nice pub, called “die Spitze” with political satire. Yes, a lot of places for different lifestyles you could find in Berlin already during this time.

The Berlin nowadays I only visited always for just some hours. Business trips, which didn’t allow to stay and to enjoy the life in Berlin. But please believe me, it’s total different from the life in the Rhein-Main area. Only one response regarding FemDomme in Germany from a German user of this board shows me, that there is not much interest in this field.

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RE: FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/29/2005 5:11:03 AM

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Dear onceburned,

Thank you for your kind response. I will check out your link.

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RE: FemDomme lifestyle in Germany - 12/31/2005 12:31:41 AM

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Richard,

I took this to private email, because as i pointed out in it, this is an mostly NA based board. For all the other people here, the Rhein Main Gegend BDSM scene is very much alive. There a lot of Munches, Parties. They have a lacing bar, a meeting for corsett fans every week. And every fall is in Frankfurt a big event in the city, that is called the Museumsuferfest. A lot of Museums in FFM gather together and there are for 4 days a lot of special events. At the same time the german BDSM scene (and some people from other countries) meet for a visit to the Museumsuferfest, manning two boats for the Dragonboatrace (one is called Dom *r us and the other Submarine), some parties and all kind of get togethers.

And, believe it or not, there are although dominant woman attending or switches like me:-).

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