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agirl -> RE: Physical attractiveness (12/8/2008 10:57:44 AM)
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There's a tag line someone has on here that always makes me smile, I can't remember whose it is but it's roughly.......'I like your mind so much I could lick it' ......Well, I extend that to the desire to lick other bits too.
Liking someone as a person doesn't mean you're going to *fancy* them but unless someone truly repulses me, I know personally, that I *grow* to like the bits that are attached their minds.
Some people need some sort of instant attraction.......I only require the absence of repulsion.
I didn't fancy M particulary when I first met him..but the combination of his personality, the way he moves, the way he talks, the way he sighs, the way he laughs and all of those ordinary everyday actions add up to a heady mixture over time.
Being physically attractive to someone is part of an entire package....that's how most of us end up with people.
Of course it's important that you're attracted to someone......depending on what you're considering doing with them.
Let's try to get over the fact that not being attracted to someone in a physical/sexual sense, does not mean we're shallow.
agirl
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