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RE: Timewasters - 12/8/2008 11:47:21 PM

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What has been the most ridiculous/obnoxious contact you've had from someone claiming to be a submissive?

Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is?

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 12:12:03 AM

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Already been said, mostly: if you advertise for the lowest common denominator on a free site, you get timewasters.

Also, I've never understood the Financial Domme business model. Why not start a subscription-based pay site with an exorbitant monthly fee? $200 for every 30 days. That way, you don't have to chase people down: they either sign up and get to look at content, or they don't. And if they want one-on-one time, they can call your $10/min Niteflirt. From what I gather about Money Dommes, many of them have inefficient systems (usually because of a lack of originality/laziness.)

I think thats the biggest part of it right there. NF created this section of their site for "Financial Domination" and it sounds like easy money. To some degree, it -is- easy money. If your pictures are pretty enough and your attitude is snotty enough, you -will- get a couple of fish to bite.

The trouble is, no one can really support that sort of fetish (addiction, whatever you want to call it) for very long and eventually the little fishes find some other girl with prettier pictures or just newer ones and you're left wondering where all the cash cows went.

I had a friend who used to do the FinDom thing on NF. She would create a new girl every 6 months or so to keep herself going in business. Thats about the life expectancy of a FinDom on that site. NF specifically coaches the ladies to use sites like CM to drum up more business though. They don't actually say to come here but they do tell you to post adverts in chat rooms, on forums, anywhere that people will see them.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 1:11:03 AM

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Chia..you're so cute :)

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 6:26:09 AM

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Chia..you're so cute :)

Well, cute is in the eye of the beholder,

but definitely obnoxious.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 7:44:49 AM

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Well I have never heard of NF, and that sure doesn't sound like the financial domination fetish that I get approached with. I get the whole, "take my money and run my life" variety, where I have to take their paycheck, write their bills, give them an allowance, and "decide" what to do with their disposable income. Sounds like work to me! Once they run through their allowance they have to beg Auntie for more? Hmph. I can see the humiliation factor for them, but where is my fun? I guess the theory is that I smoke their Amex card, but I just couldn't do it. I would have NO problem charging my normal fees for business management, though!

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 8:10:35 AM

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What has been the most ridiculous/obnoxious contact you've had from someone claiming to be a submissive?

Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is?

Yes. Time has been defined as that agency which separates two different events that occur at the same point in space.

Well something like that anyway.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 8:12:07 AM

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How often do you encounter timewasters on these forums, or simply guys that claim to be subs but are in fact rude, obnoxious and abusive?

I find it's quite rare, but every now and again you get an imbecile that doesn't believe he should have to pay a tribute to a pro-domme, or gets catty because you think it highly suspicious that someone the other side of the world wants to 'serve' you!

What has been the most ridiculous/obnoxious contact you've had from someone claiming to be a submissive?

Only you dictate how you will spend your time.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 8:13:27 AM

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lol, cute indeed.
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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 8:24:19 AM

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lol, cute indeed.
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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 8:33:24 AM

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Aww, chia, :) smooch.

*Blushing cheeks*

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 10:01:44 AM

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Chia..you're so cute :)

Well, cute is in the eye of the beholder,

but definitely obnoxious.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 11:24:26 AM

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I wasn't aware of that - a sub I know reccommended the site. Either way I think the forums are fab!

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 11:25:47 AM

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Where though? You may have a great deal of options in the USA but not so much in the UK....

Besides I'm always in need of a cleaner or two! :D

I've also been looking for a female UK sub for sometime too - I get a lot of male subs requesting this and of course they are always happy to pay both girls. I guess I won't find those kind of girls here either though.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 11:29:20 AM

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Saucer of milk table 9 :D

This isn't my main advertising place I just thought I'd check it out after it was reccommended to me. Perhaps I'm in the right place for learning bitchyness as it obviously comes very naturally to some here!

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 11:51:25 AM

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Your profile says you're looking for losers. Losers contact you. I fail to see the grounds for your complaint.

Now, if you change your profile and stop asking for losers, losers will still contact you. That, alas, is the lot of a Domme on the internet and, to some extent, of anyone on the internet. But that line `looking for loser pigs' really is off-putting to anyone who doesn't think they're a loser.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 12:36:20 PM

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It is however a matter of opinion - many of the submissives that have paid for sessions with me have been into humilation and degradation.

It is usually the fetishists rather who are more demanding and have no taste for this I've found.

Then again the UK is an odd place.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 12:42:13 PM

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It is however a matter of opinion - many of the submissives that have paid for sessions with me have been into humilation and degradation.

It is usually the fetishists rather who are more demanding and have no taste for this I've found.

Then again the UK is an odd place.

If you can't handle demanding obnoxious guys, perhaps you should stop catering to them.

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 1:08:30 PM

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Saucer of milk table 9 :D

This isn't my main advertising place I just thought I'd check it out after it was reccommended to me. Perhaps I'm in the right place for learning bitchyness as it obviously comes very naturally to some here!

Yeah right, congratulations on the profile, it looks much much better. Now how about working on the attitude and getting over yourself? No need to take yourself too seriously. There's more to this domination thing than putting other people down, and though I was being critical in my last posting it was more out of honesty than bitchiness. Pro-Dommes get more than their fair share of crap from the Internet, it's not as easy as some people think it is. This is also true when you're young, blonde and visibly attractive. I'm also sure that you have enough sense and class to rise above the negative and leave the timewasters and the 'loser pigs' to their monitors, keyboards,. illusions and pulling their plonkers. Agreed?

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RE: Timewasters - 12/9/2008 2:06:46 PM

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PrincessKaz wrote: many of the submissives that have paid for sessions with me have been into humilation and degradation.

Sure. But those guys are paying you do humiliate and degrade them in a scene. A horny timewaster guy comes along, sees your profile, and thinks `Oooh, the hot blonde chick is calling me a loser pig. That turns me on. She's dominating me.' And he sends you a one-handed E-mail based on the assumption that you're his Mistress. Profiles are there as introductions but you're blurring the line between an introduction and a scene and then complaining that the guys who contact you are also blurring the line between an introduction (their initial E-mail) and a scene.