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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 3:50:05 AM

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Earning your keep? Getting a job??

Only if they live together. If not, and he's got her working to support him and not herself, I call it wrong.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 5:55:22 AM

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A good deal if you can get it.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 6:09:35 AM

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EXPLOITATION! That's it. I remembered.

Well thank god you remembered....I thought you were going to sit there staring at the screen till your head exploded.

Well, now that your memory is back and all, maybe you can tell me the point of this thread...My first assumption was that you were taking a crack at pro dommes, but after reading your profile, that doesn't make sense.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 9:50:11 AM

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Wasn't this a Seinfeld episode? lol

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:12:24 AM

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Exploitation works for me. In my world, that is just wrong, wrong, wrong. I feel something like that does damage or continues to work or play on damage already there. So that's doing harm and doing harm is wrong, wrong, wrong in my world. I would advise anyone I know not to go there, but if I had to advise them not to go there... we would be talking about a whole lot of things.

Using people or taking advantage of them isn't something I see as some romantic or idealistic master/slave thing.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:24:41 AM

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if Master did it, this slave would call it "His perogative"
...if someone else's did it, this slave would call it "none of her business".

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:30:04 AM

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if Master did it, this slave would call it "His perogative"
...if someone else's did it, this slave would call it "none of her business".

What she said.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:38:45 AM

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Earning your keep? Getting a job??

Amen!

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:40:06 AM

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I don't see it as using, or taking advantage of someone. I know full well if I moved in with C, he would expect me to keep a job, and contribute to the bills. This is really no different.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:50:17 AM

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The key word for me in the question was... use and for financial reasons was a close follow up that set a picture in my mind. Using for financial reasons is a bit different in my opinion than someone in a relationship expecting people to hold up their end of things.

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ORIGINAL: magdelyn

when you use your slave for finacial reasons, like having them clean houses for money? There is a term I have forgotten.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 10:52:22 AM

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But isn't that why most people have jobs... for financial reasons?

(Ok ok, besides the fact that a lot of us would go nuts with nothing to do)

I see where you are coming from, I'm not sure if I could be with a dominant who used me soley for monetary gain, but some might get off on it, who knows.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 11:02:25 AM

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Earning your keep? Getting a job??

This about sums it up for me.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 11:02:42 AM

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LOL... that's why I said... in 'my' world.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 11:09:03 AM

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I have no such fascination. I like to be completely out if having any kind of surgery.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 3:58:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Exploitation works for me. In my world, that is just wrong, wrong, wrong. I feel something like that does damage or continues to work or play on damage already there. So that's doing harm and doing harm is wrong, wrong, wrong in my world. I would advise anyone I know not to go there, but if I had to advise them not to go there... we would be talking about a whole lot of things.

Using people or taking advantage of them isn't something I see as some romantic or idealistic master/slave thing.

That's cool. I do.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 4:03:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Exploitation works for me. In my world, that is just wrong, wrong, wrong. I feel something like that does damage or continues to work or play on damage already there. So that's doing harm and doing harm is wrong, wrong, wrong in my world. I would advise anyone I know not to go there, but if I had to advise them not to go there... we would be talking about a whole lot of things.

Using people or taking advantage of them isn't something I see as some romantic or idealistic master/slave thing.

That's cool. I do.

Cool... enjoy!

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 7:23:18 PM

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It could of course also be finacial domination,

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when you use your slave for finacial reasons, like having them clean houses for money? There is a term I have forgotten.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 7:31:48 PM

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EXPLOITATION! That's it. I remembered.

That's your view on it. If the slave agreed to it when they accepted the position, it's called sticking to the agreement.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 7:35:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: magdelyn

EXPLOITATION! That's it. I remembered.

That's your view on it. If the slave agreed to it when they accepted the position, it's called sticking to the agreement.

If mistress wanted me to work outside her domain, then girl would gladly. There are benefits, since what is brought makes for a better environment in which girl serves her mistress.

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RE: What do you call it... - 12/9/2008 8:34:42 PM

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Wow, all the time that we have been married, my wife has had a job and helped to support the family. Adding a collar into the equation really didn't change anything. Sometimes I find it amazing that fairly simple things that have been going on forever can be so complicated.

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